Taurus males and disrespect.

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pixie242
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12 Years

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Why are some Taurus males so easy to get upset. My Taurus man and i were having a conversation and he simply refuse to let me speak he constantly butt in and then he actually took over the conversation and refuse to let me speak. So i hung up. I called back much later to apologize but before i can get a word in he completely ignored what i was trying to say and told me that he would not call me for the rest of the day because i didn't apologize to him right away. The following day i did apologize. Since then i have had no good morning calls he has gotten very distant. He usually tells me he cares about me but all of that has stopped. He doesn't come to see me as often and when he does. Its with the intention to get food or sex. What do i do? Is he stringing me along? We have never had a disagreement like this before 😢
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MeowScorpii
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13 Years

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The thing to do is not to dwell on it. I've been with a Taurus man for two years, and when it comes to arguments it's good to move past them as quickly as possible. Taur men dislike festering in negative places- but they need a little boost to exit that state of mind. If it were me, I'd confront him head on and say "Are you still mad about the other day? If so, let's just move on, and look forward."
Certain benefits come from being straight up with a Taurus.
1. It will actually get you somewhere, when the alternative is staying stuck in a rut with hidden nasty emotions because Taurus men will rarely willingly let their feelings be known.
2. It takes guessing out of the equation.
3. It prevents build up of resentment.

After you address the issue, be kind to him. Gentle and sweet even, let things smooth themselves out and be easy going for whatever length of time it takes for things to go back to normal. Peace and calm are necessary components for Taurus to move past something that has upset them.

(Note: it may seem like he's being unfair to you, and he probably is. Maybe he's being stubborn, disrespectful, rude- I know the feeling of being the target of disrespectful actions. If you want to keep him around, wait until he can see past the veil of "I'm right, you're wrong"- to express to him how he's hurt you. With Taurus men patience is key- and rewarding.)
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pixie242
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12 Years

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I hope we can get past this. My taurus is so touchy. Easily irritated. Instantly jealous when another man is mentioned. Very controlling. He wants to be the center of my world. The only man in my life unless its family. He is pushing me away. Im easily hurt when i am hurting i distance myself emotionally, then move on. But in this case i really dont want to. I love him. I want it to work.
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smurfy
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12 Years

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The best way to deal with a taurus man's negativity is to calmly respond. It's your way of saying "oh, your being a little bitch, I'm not going to give into this."

It's easier if he is your friend fawning over you, than if you're in love with him of course. The taurus man has ego. He can be like a bull in a china shop sometimes. He just needs to be reminded he is loved, but is acting inappropriate. He does like to appear loving, generous and classy. When he is not you need to gently remind him.

The only way to ride the bull is to master the bull...lol.