Taurus men and their pool of women

Hey guys,

Ive read, heard, and experienced that Taurus males have a desire to develop extra relations outside of their primary ones. I'm dating one like that now and have 2 close friends that do it all day. Sort of sad... So my question is: Would a Taurus who is in a relationship ever consider loving one of his extra fuck buddies?

I ask this because the Taurus I've been FWB with for the last year dropped the L bomb over text last night..said he loved me and didn't want anything bad to ever happen to me. O just responded nothing will happen as long as I'm with you. And he responded with his usual concise responses...with a "🙂"

Thanks in advance for any insight! 🙂

He's in a relationship and I've fucked them both multiple times before. I'm like a f buddy for the both of them. But we've been seeing each other for a little over a year now and he tells me how much he misses me when we aren't together and stuff..and tells me he talks about me to his friends and stuff. He is 45, his partner is like 35? And I'm 21. 🙂 don't have to lecture me on the affair and age difference. I love it haha
Not really sure if he's just keeping me on a closer leash bysaying he loves me or if he really means it.. I've had a crush on him since I met but never said anything lol

Don't really get your previous post but yea just wondering if any Taurus can shed light on when they are dating, isn't it hard for them to say Love you? I read that it takes a really long time for Taurus to warm up to someone and say such a thing. Is that true? Can I as a f buddy ever become more than just a f buddy?

Haha I see what you did there.

You heard him say that he loves you and now you want to know for sure if it has value. Not just some random thing he said to keep you close and in his fuckbuddy rotation. Yes they have multiple partners sometimes, it's like dating a few people at the same time and the one that wins the most rounds, get to move up a few places. At some point you'll end up on top alone, whilst all the other contestants don't even matter anymore.

The problem here is that you'r a FUCK buddy, so by definition you're not relationship material. You've been doing this with him for over a year, mind you why on earth are you fucking someone with a boyfriend? I won't hassle you for the age difference, but I will call you out on actively participating in cheating. You might 'love' him, but he has a partner.. so why are you sticking around? Are you hoping that by fucking him, he'll sooner or later turn around and make you his boyfriend?

Cause that's where this is going isn't it? You want to be more to him and you want us to help you figure out if he really loves you. Yet you started as the extra toy they both occasionally use for fun. This will end in tears I tell you. Say he does love you,what about his current boyfriend? You think he'll just take it laying down whilst you take over his man? Are you going for a threesome relationship here?

We need honest answers from you and don't try to fool me (or us) 😛

Thanks for the great insight guyals. I understand he may just be taking advantage of my age and naivete but I can't help but feel enticed by his romantic moves. Like he takes me on dates and stuff that it makes me think he would want me to JOIN his relationship. As I mentioned before I fuck him and his partner. Oh I didn't mention that they are a gay couple with an "open relationship" that's why I've been allowed into their lives. But now its like becoming more intimate so not sure if he's wanting to string me along or actually want to include me in his life.

Dnt taureans have a hard time being emotional and actually saying they love someone?
Im thinking this is the case that's why I'm a little excited with his confession
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And yea I guess I'm not really expecting anyone to solve my problem just wanted to vent my thoughts and see.what other like-minds think 🙂 thx for putting up with me haha

Posted by nothingtohide
Thanks for the great insight guyals. I understand he may just be taking advantage of my age and naivete but I can't help but feel enticed by his romantic moves. Like he takes me on dates and stuff that it makes me think he would want me to JOIN his relationship. As I mentioned before I fuck him and his partner. Oh I didn't mention that they are a gay couple with an "open relationship" that's why I've been allowed into their lives. But now its like becoming more intimate so not sure if he's wanting to string me along or actually want to include me in his life.

Dnt taureans have a hard time being emotional and actually saying they love someone?
Im thinking this is the case that's why I'm a little excited with his confession
.
And yea I guess I'm not really expecting anyone to solve my problem just wanted to vent my thoughts and see.what other like-minds think 🙂 thx for putting up with me haha

You can fix this really easily. Just outright ask him 'why do you love me?'.
He's had over a year to get used to you and knows you inside & outside.
Just ask, don't try to comprehend.

Bah open relationships are not for me, they're bound to make someone jealous sooner or later.
You entered the picture and you're young. Do you have any idea how you're the one in control here, cause he cannot find someone new fast, but you sure can. So to prevent the whole gay drama about 'does he love me for a threesome relationship' and just ask him point blank.

The time factor for him is no longer valid. If he doesn't know after more than a year then you need to cut him off. Just be warned, three people in a relationship is VERY complicated and never works out. Don't say I didn't warn you.

Posted by BullGem
Oh, Ormas I love you!!! That was well said. Very well said.

I'd like to add to the OP, that say this taurus man chooses you as his boyfriend now. Say he dumps the other guy and makes you his #1...what exactly do you have as proof that he wouldn't invite someone else in your bed, THEN 'fall in love' with them and in the process, dump you?

It is so very clear that you are a toy he is playing with. I'm gonna call the age card here...and say that he is taking advantage of your naivete.

You were right to call Ormas when you did BullGem ! Whew !

Personally... I think a 'man?ge des trois' could work... but it would have to be started as three simultaneously... difficult to add another egg to an already baked cake, no ? THIS is NOT going to end well... and it doesn't matter if it is MFM, FMF, FFF, MMM... that third egg just isn't going to mix... and to try... well... this is only going to ruin the cake... but I am not sure nothingtohide is really concerned about any of that.

Thanks for the advice again guys. I think I will just be straight and ask him what he meant and intends. I don't think my getting involved is a problem in their relationship because I know they do other people on the side as well. Might be problematic if it were a triad but yea from what you guys are saying it doesn't really sound that great. Ill probably just ask to stay as friends and enjoy the hot sex 🙂