Getting back with a taurus - possible? And how?

Why are you okay with guilting a man into being with you again?

You initiated contact. He would get angry and annoyed that you were making him talk to you. Going off of my experiences with Pisces, you probably played the victim and guilt tripped him. He then felt horrible.

"In the last conversation we had he started crying and feeling bad for what I had to go through/am partly still going through because of the break-up" So you throw all your woes at his feet and then act like you don't want him to feel bad? Whether you realize it or not you are guilt-tripping him in order to gain sympathy. It also seems like your trying to maintain some sort of emotional connection with him by appealing to his pity and sense of responsibility. MANIPULATING HIS EMOTIONS.

"He also calmly talked about why he broke it off and listened to my views too"

Hi heeleeya, I am trying to make amends with my taur,What i have learnt from this forum is Taurus are very loyal at the same time they need space,if he truly loves you he will come back to you. Good luck

I'm going to continue where RoseTheTaurus ended with her Taurus view on the matter, you're getting a fellow Pisces now.

Some Pisces people can be very needy in the emotional department and let me just outright say it that Taurus people DO NOT appreciate this. Sure there is a time and place to be mushy/emotional, but if you drown them in that ocean of feelings -you know we Pisces all have it- you will kill him.

He was in a very stressful situation and you cling to him like an octopus, preventing him from clearing his head and get things in order. This is something they do -and we do this too so you must understand this- in order to gain perspective and get a handle on sticky situations. I can imagine you just threw yourself at him and again, needy is SO NOT SEXY. If you want to be a high strung emotional drama queen, Taurus people are not for you. You must be able to control yourself a lot more. (look into yourself and notice where you can go way overboard in the emotional department, figure it out and fix it)

"In the last conversation we had he started crying and feeling bad for what I had to go through/am partly still going through because of the break-up"

Living with your head in the clouds, thinking that if you just share how you feel everything will get better again, is a long stretch from reality isn't it?

You said yourself that you LOST your independence, ever asked yourself why? Taurus people like Pisces if we can be slightly aloof, dependable, independent, but drop dead faithful. You became clingy, highly dependable, a source of drama and guilt and a constant reminder of that in every contact. You tell me how inviting that sounds?

Go head to head with him and ask him directly where he stands. If the answer is negative and he doesn't see you two back together, respect it even if it is hard. Playing the martyr will only limit your own happiness. Focus on fixing yourself and perhaps improving, cause there's always room for improvement -hell I'm doing it every day myself-.
But above all, respect HIM for a change and don't give in to that screaming 5 year old that wants to 'share how it feels' and making him feel horrible.

Great points Ormas!!! Puttin it into perspective! 🙂

It sounds like you are still emotionally dependent on him. It's probably best to hold off and let him come to you while you become more emotionally independent. If he doesn't there are other Bulls roaming the streets looking for a lady Fish. 🙂

Thank you for your input! It has offended me a bit at first but I'm realising there must be truth to it and am currently trying to analyse my own thinking processes. Break-ups are a good time to learn about yourself.
As for dependency, my circumstances have changed again and somehow it has made me think about him a lot less immediately. Perhaps that just indicates that I loved him more like a parent rather than a lover.