Taurus Men & Women Opinions and experience needed!

I need your own personal opinions and/or experiences.. When you find yourself falling in love but have fears of committing due to failed and hurtful relationships from the past.. Do you distance yourself from the person your falling for.. fear of the same thing happening again? How do you deal with this situation?

Hi bellalove! How are you? To answer ur question I'm gonna speak for my experiences...when I find myself falling in love of course I enjoy the feeling it's like spring all fresh and new but then if the other side is falling too quick too soon and rushing, I back off tho it's still nice to have someone cares about me n love me. I need time to clear my head and get to know this person in terms of letting the relationship to grow. It here's only one person in my life whose I given him all my trusts and love but he cheated on me and got me in a lot of legal issues due to him. I found it so hard to open myself since n I must admit I regret that I don't give enough to the new guy I met earlier and it all went down the drain. It has been killing me inside since n still can't let it go yet.

What about u if u don't mind me asking?

Sorry I posted it twice so I hid the second one.

Hello 🙂 I feel like I am dealing with a taurus guy who has a fear of committing due to being hurt in the past.. that's why I wanted opinions..

Totally agree with TaureanAries. No rushing no pushing more small talk and food will keep us happy hehe 🙂

Posted by bellalove
I need your own personal opinions and/or experiences.. When you find yourself falling in love but have fears of committing due to failed and hurtful relationships from the past.. Do you distance yourself from the person your falling for.. fear of the same thing happening again? How do you deal with this situation?

From my personal experience....

When I find myself falling in love...
I do not commit right away.
I need to be reassured that this potential partner isn't going to rip my heart out my chest...
Laugh in my face...
And feed it to the wolves.
So I assess this potential mate.
But I need time to myself so I can do so.
Call it a segregation of the mind and the heart.
But when I'm in his presence, and still feeling a sense of warmth and comfort...
I let the feeling consume me to the point of feeling butterflies in my stomach.

However...

I still keep my bullsh*t detector in check.

If I sense the slightest inconsistency, phoniness, lies or hint of rudeness...

I will fall back completely.

If I'm in limbo.
I'm incognito for a few days/weeks.

If I'm 100 percent sure and feel absolute trust and total safety with this individual...
Then I'm his!

Posted by TaureanAries


My advice for anyone persuing a Taurus is to just integrate yourself slowly, don't push too hard and never ever give them reason to doubt you. We take our time.

THIS!

Posted by KittyKnitter
Be patient with a Taurus who is getting to know you. They don't like making mistakes and if they have been hurt, they are determined not to do it again. Even if it takes forever for them to tell you they are crazy about you, it's worth the wait. So they watch, assess, analyze, and watch some more, lol. But just be who you are and in time they will know that you are real and they can let go of their fears of rejection or being hurt.

Thank You.
Well stated!