Taurus women blowing hot and cold

Ok so here goes I was with my ex Taurus girl for 2 years we have a 7 month old son and were engaged but I hurt her and lost her trust... I told her I was going on holiday to Turkey when acuatlly I was going Ibiza, well she found out and hit the roof, and left me she moved out and took my son with her. So in anger I went to meet some people I meet Ibiza which she found out about after we split up. I dint sleep with anyone in Ibiza or when we meet up after I soley went as a wingman for my buddy who I went to Ibiza with... Ok so fast forward 2 months we start seeing each other again just kissing and dating no sex until yesterday we had sex now she is blowing cold again saying she is still hurt, I know I messed up, and I have been working my arse off to put things right and get my family back, I am a Taurus as well so I kind of understand her but if any of you kind Taurus women out there could shed some light on what is going on with that would be great. She says she is still hurt, still loves me and wishes I could take it back also she said she is unsure if she will ever move back please help?

I totally understand what u are saying, I am happy to wait but just confused with why she is doing this. Plus I was insanely bored with my work life and struggle with PTSD from Afghanistan, as we as the added stress of having a new born old issues arose and I need to get away. But she would not let me go as we had a baby. I know am in the wrong, but I never meant to hurt her.

Busyeyes you are brutally honest which is painful but very much right, I know I messed up, and I have been getting professional help for my problems. I lied becusse I didn't not have the back bone to tell her that I was struggling, I was a a man a father and I crumbled but can you be s little more gentle

Posted by Oct29Scorpio
I'm not a taurus but what do you expect from her? You have made a mistake and she left you which is very normal in my opinion. You've lost her trust...Congratulations!

Nice one ðŸ‘

Yes, she knows everything as we see each other everyday, as we have a son and have also been realsionship counciling, but then she will blow cold again, it is not doing my state of mind any good...

She will then say she doesn't want to talk about it...

lol clearly those where not my words

Posted by Impulsv
Sure u were a wingman.

That's was in her mind

That's half the battle

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by Adeno
Busyeyes you are brutally honest which is painful but very much right, I know I messed up, and I have been getting professional help for my problems. I lied becusse I didn't not have the back bone to tell her that I was struggling, I was a a man a father and I crumbled but can you be s little more gentle

Gentle?!!! Welcome to the school of hard knocks kiddo!!!! The world is not "gentle '! So I suggest you grow a backbone for future use as you are going to need it raise your family.

You messed up. And she has forgiven you and is making an effort to try and resolve rhings. What more do you want?

It's s long long road. You did the crime. And now you are going to do the time...

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Ok busy eyes although I value your comments please do not try and lecture me about hard knocks. Thanks tho your comments have been very valuable

@adeno in a nut shell you have committed the #1 "sin" in our book. We HATE liars. You have betrayed and destroy her trust so the only thing you can do is to have a LOT OF patience. You will have to accept her suspensions and outbursts. She will be in war with herself. I will warn you to not to pressure her into relationship or to make any big decisions. All you can do is SHOW her how great you can be to her and be an awesome father as well. U said that the pressure of fatherhood made u crack but try to just imagine how much stress and pressure she is undergoing. We as mothers do not show out hurt or stress esp when it comes to parenting. We do it with grace and remain strong and be the best mother we can be to that child. So with all due respect step up your game and be just as strong as she is. Parenthood, relationships, and life are not easy but you always should put her best foot forward. Gd luck

ughhh ur such a liar ...


good thing she left .. i dont even wish to read the rest of the story

Posted by Honeybunniie
@adeno in a nut shell you have committed the #1 "sin" in our book. We HATE liars. You have betrayed and destroy her trust so the only thing you can do is to have a LOT OF patience. You will have to accept her suspensions and outbursts. She will be in war with herself. I will warn you to not to pressure her into relationship or to make any big decisions. All you can do is SHOW her how great you can be to her and be an awesome father as well. U said that the pressure of fatherhood made u crack but try to just imagine how much stress and pressure she is undergoing. We as mothers do not show out hurt or stress esp when it comes to parenting. We do it with grace and remain strong and be the best mother we can be to that child. So with all due respect step up your game and be just as strong as she is. Parenthood, relationships, and life are not easy but you always should put her best foot forward. Gd luck

Thanks that is what I have been doing

OP you were better off being brutally honest with her. Lying is one of the most unpardonable offenses against a Taurus. It will take a long time to earn her forgiveness and you best believe if you ever do it again, you are done forever.