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Reaction to a Taurus Woman's attempt to incite jea
How a Taurus Woman Reacts to Jealousy Tactics
A Taurus woman may test your feelings by provoking jealousy but often values stability and loyalty. Her actions suggest she is interested but also seeks reassurance. Respond with confidence and honesty to build trust instead of playing games. Understanding her need for security can strengthen your connection.
ehhh, after posting this, part of me doesn't even want to ask her on that date anymore. I'm just so not into games and the last thing I want to do is play into her games. Anyways, I appreciate any advice you guys have to offer, but I think what I'll end up doing is just hanging out with friends this weekend and don't even let my mind think about any of this
Because I was but then realizing that I am affected by it to the point where I'm wondering about it to such a degree that I'm willing to take anonymous internet advice....
...well, I value myself more than that.
Thanks for your advice, though, scorchedearth. next time i'll throw you a peanut
Are you sure she likes you? If I called a guy a sweetheart, that would not indicate attraction, but friendship. And as long as the touch is not intimate I am unlikely to push someone's hand off me. Hand on the back is OK with me.
you are extremely unpleasant.
*throws peanut*
Posted by BossMode
you are extremely unpleasant.*throws peanut*
LOL
Posted by scorchedearth
tls you can eat a penis too.
AAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA...why are you on a rampage today scorched?
I'm just enjoying the show. Whole thread is hilarious.
LostBull-
I am very certain, 100% positive she is interested in me. Very interested. I don't want to justify that claim though - that's not why I posted.
My question is, how do I react to this? I get the feeling it's sink or swim time - we've been flirting and dealing with tension for awhile now and I feel like it's time to make a move. Are Tauruses really that monogamous? Do you really put all your eggs in one basket? That's what I want but, well, you know how the start of romances can be, particularly when young, inexperienced people are involved.
So, how do I react? Do I confront her, or ignore the fact and state my interest and intentions?
ah, jesus, just ask her out! it's just a date, you aren't buying a puppy together.
Posted by BossMode
LostBull-I am very certain, 100% positive she is interested in me. Very interested. I don't want to justify that claim though - that's not why I posted.
My question is, how do I react to this? I get the feeling it's sink or swim time - we've been flirting and dealing with tension for awhile now and I feel like it's time to make a move. Are Tauruses really that monogamous? Do you really put all your eggs in one basket? That's what I want but, well, you know how the start of romances can be, particularly when young, inexperienced people are involved.
So, how do I react? Do I confront her, or ignore the fact and state my interest and intentions?
Yes, I would say they are that monogamous, but she probably is used to being a little more jealous and single-minded in love than many of her partners, particularly bc she's a Taurus *woman* and most men in general look around a lot. You can't expect her to really understand your crazy intense super high Scorpio expectations, and live up to them right off the bat. If she actually knew how you felt, how serious you were, how different you are, etc., then she probably would have no trouble at all conforming to that. When people are young especially, there's always at least a *little* bit of gaming involved (though this is NOT necessarily that at all), so you can't have such high expectations man. Plus, as jealous of a person as I am, sometimes stuff like this - seeing that the other person is desired, etc. - makes things a little more fun, arouses the passions. I've often read that Scorps will indulge a duel for a partner, and often enjoy it. So have fun.
Scorched Earth, do you really think that's the whole story? Wrong. I just thought those were examples to show but apparently including any information is a distraction.
Anyways, I appreciate your opinion on avoiding drama. I agree with you there. Is it typical of tauruses to be dramatic?
*rereads scorched earth's posts*
Yes. Yes it is. Am I wrong?
Oh and I'm still interested because that's exactly what, I'm interested. More interested in a girl than I have been in literal years.
Posted by scorchedearth
delusional scorpios irritate me. nothing in the thread shows at all that she's interested in him. or that she's trying to make him jealous. but he's a scorpio so he assumes everyone in the world wants him.tls read the op and tell me you think she's interested.
Hahaha...No, I was thinking what you are thinking. I just thought it was hilarious how you responded so quickly with the ego check.
Still though, that confidence even if it really is arrogance is attractive to a lot of women, no? I've seen a lot of Scorp men, who really are just average Joes, but THINK they are the shit, get a lot of women that I would think were out of their league.
TauruslovesScorpio,
Very insightful and exactly what I needed to read. You took the seriousness out of my thoughts and now I'm in competition mode. What do you suggest I do, though? Ask her on a date, or wait and see her next week?
I feel like it's sink or swim time, so I'm leaning towards trying to see her this weekend. Just an fyi, we've been showing interest to eachother since January (II know you Taurus like to take your sweet, sweet time) and I'd say things culminated a few nights ago (she told me it was a big night for her)
Posted by BossMode
TauruslovesScorpio,Very insightful and exactly what I needed to read. You took the seriousness out of my thoughts and now I'm in competition mode. What do you suggest I do, though? Ask her on a date, or wait and see her next week?
I feel like it's sink or swim time, so I'm leaning towards trying to see her this weekend. Just an fyi, we've been showing interest to eachother since January (II know you Taurus like to take your sweet, sweet time) and I'd say things culminated a few nights ago (she told me it was a big night for her)
Yes, I think you should ask her on a date. Why not? If you think there is mutual chemistry, no point in waiting any longer really. Best way to really make an impression on a sensual Taurus is with your physical presence. Put your self around them. Don't be the Scorp that stalks mysteriously from a distance. Someone needs to make a move, in this pairing especially. The sooner you can get to that place where you both feel comfortable around each other, the better.
Ok. Thank you. One last question before I get back in the driver's seat:
Call her tonight, and plan for tomorrow, or see her briefly at the work-like environment and see if she can do anything later that evening? I feel the phone call is the way to go but your comment on physical presence is making me reconsider.
Posted by BossMode
Ok. Thank you. One last question before I get back in the driver's seat:Call her tonight, and plan for tomorrow, or see her briefly at the work-like environment and see if she can do anything later that evening? I feel the phone call is the way to go but your comment on physical presence is making me reconsider.
At this point, with at least how you seem to feel the connection/attraction has progressed and where it is at, the mode you ask her in shouldn't matter. You're not really taking a risk; she should say "yes" regardless, right? The time spent around her, in her presence, building trust and comfort, is what matters IMO, not how you ask.
Posted by scorchedearth
oh tls.... you build scorpios up so much on this board. you're like the pied piper dude. it's kind of hilarious actually.
LOL@the pied piper....Are the Scorps the rats or the children? I dunno...there have been a few fire Moon Scorps that have come through acting like total fools....I've done my share of tearing down. I obviously have a bias though. My Scorp dad is my favorite person in the world, and really such a good dude. I tend to see some of him in other Scorps.
I'd say definitely take the bull by the horns and ask her out. If you feel she's interested in you then she probably is. To what degree she's interested is another question but the only way to take it forward is to ask her out.
Be confident but not arrogant about it.
I'm not sure about a phone call or asking while at work. If you feel a phone call then go with your gut. The advantage of a phone call out of work hours means you've made the special effort. Asking at work might be awkward although you would be face to face which would be helpful but maybe face to face might be a little too pressured for her. I guess it depends on the dynamic you both have together.
Maybe have an alternative day or plan under your belt and don't be discouraged if she says no initially. She might say no for a good reason so listen to her but brush it off and then maybe you can work out a different approach if needed!
You wouldn't want the other fella getting in there. That would be letting our Scorp side down 😉 but equally it's her decision.
Good luck, fingers crossed!!
Posted by scorchedearth
oh tls.... you build scorpios up so much on this board. you're like the pied piper dude. it's kind of hilarious actually.LOL@the pied piper....Are the Scorps the rats or the children? I dunno... there have been a few fire Moon Scorps that have come through acting like total fools ....I've done my share of tearing down. I obviously have a bias though. My Scorp dad is my favorite person in the world, and really such a good dude. I tend to see some of him in other Scorps.
😐 oh... Really?!?!
OP... Pass me the peanuts...
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NOT YOU! LOL....And I'm not saying anything bad about fire moon scorps in general of course. Just noting that a couple of the Aries/Leo Moon scorps have been kinda nutty. There was one guy talking about raping his dead girlfriend's corpse. And another dude who was also really full of himself and rapish.
And stop throwing peanuts at scorched! Hahahhaha...
Here's what I'm referring to:
"They say we're a feminine sign & that obviously implies why we are "The Dream Man" of most women. Haha!
We have a woman living in our mind; part-woman part-man. Part-hell, part-heaven.
We are the best & worst of both worlds & everything in between. Black, White & Grey.
"My first love at the age of 14 had sex with another man while she was in a relationship with me. I also lost my virginity to her. This led to the creation of an inner evil that fantasizes about seducing women & drinking her blood after having rough, forced bdsm sex with her dead beautiful, naked body. I'll stop right here because... I think you know why. "
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/this-one-s-for-the-sexiest-men-in-the-universe-5307630/
According to all these other Taurus/Scorpio threads, apparently this is just the beginning and your 2 souls plan to torment each other well into the future. So you might as well ask her out
LOL, exactly....
I have two very good friends: a Scorp man and a Taurus woman. They both liked each other in college but NOTHING really happened because they would both get nervous with each other in front Of the other. It was long and sad to see.
As soon as he got another girl, she liked him even more because she was finally able to see how he took charge and was protective and "manly". He didn't show that in front of her bc he was always nervous.
click to expandHaha this is so me and my coworker(crush). I get beyond nervous and speechless around him, it's painful to watch lol
Posted by BossMode
Just an fyi, we've been showing interest to eachother since January (II know you Taurus like to take your sweet, sweet time)
sweet, sweet time? That sounds like 100 years of solitude to you?
dude, it's March.
/dead @ that statement.
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A taurus woman I am smitten with is trying to make me jealous. I know she likes me, when we met up a few days ago, she let me touch her and put my hand on her back, I let her know I think she is attractive, she thinks I'm a sweetheart, yada yada yada.
I am a Scorpio male and at times I can't help but to attract other women. I see the taurus woman in question on a regular basis in a work-like environment. Today, a new face was at the work-like environment and she showed interest in me, touching my arm while talking, smiling, flirting. I reacted kindly but uninterestedly.
I then see the taurus woman I like, at a later time, leaving the building with the guy I am competing with for her. Just a few days ago, when we met up, she said that guy was being mean to me, and that I should go and yell at him. Now she is getting coffee with him?
I haven't done anything yet, but I am planning on calling her and asking her on a date tomorrow night. I am planning on not even mentioning or acknowledging the fact she left the building with my competitor.
What say you, DXP?