Texts and Taurus emotions...I am so confused!

I am a little confused here and I would love some 411. I have friend who is a Taurus male, great wonderful person. We both are busy and do not talk on a regular basis, but when we do it is as though no time has passed. Always very cordial, and for the most part no boundaries cross. As with all the Taurus who I know or have known this guy is quiet, somewhat shy,or seems to be until he has a few drinks. Then the man gets quite vocal.

Long story short, I get this txt, he has had a few and is talkative. Ends up asking me what would happen if he made a move. Tells me how nice i am to him. It is basically the same thing I hear from a few Taurus who I have known, this one seems to be a little more forceful than most, but not by much. Funny right?, I can not even distinguish them sometimes on this instance. So whatI can not figure out is why say this to me when you are under the influence {ok duh they drink and get talkative} but should I even pay attention to any of that?

Afterwards the person gets secluded and whisked away by the job. My automatic response is...Forget about it, he's been drinking, but this has bothered me for a while, and always happens. Am I a fool?

Thanks

No. Not a fool. Defenses are dropped when imbibing and liquid courage is at the fore. Sober there is that niggling doubt of rejection. He is still politely asking for permission basically. Not dipping his toe in enough that he can't fob it off with a joke if you reacted negatively. We really are quite insecure beings from time to time.

That's exactly what I was going to say when I read it a few minutes ago,but was to tired to respond.
Liquid courage. 🙂
What was your answer moon?
Hello btw,long time no see. 😉

Heya Bella! I know right! super long time.

Well ladies my response was friendly, kind of flirty I would like to think. I said Id love to see him and that it would be fun to go shmooze around, ie hang out and socialize.
Problem is I think he is hung up on someone atm, man has been having relationship issues. What is it with Taurus men and relationships, they get hurt so much prob as much as us cancer ladies. I just wanna grab him and give him a big freakin hug. Then again that is nearly all Taurus. I would hug the hell out of you people.

I know why he responds while drinking but it still bothers me that the only real conversation {and there is good sensible conversations} that happen are when drinking. Makes me feel like the only time I can have some man talk to me is if he is drinking. Beer goggles-no woman is ugly. lol idk. I am prob overanalyzing.

Yes you are, you're lovely. 🙂 I'm guilty of it too.

Just keep in mind the way the relationship starts out takes presendence into the future of it. If he needs Liquor to talk to you initially. Then thats what he will be needing to do going into it. If he can't communicate sober thats something to think about. Because unless he is a drunk there will be times when he will be sober and you will need him to communicate with you. Taurus's are stubborn rarely change how they deal with things. IJS something to think about going into it..

Nah,once we know you want us we're fine.It's that initial fear of rejection we need to get past.I have a stellium in Taurus,and I communicate quite well in relationship.


He's not a drunk is he moonie? That's my only concern.

He can he is just super shy. No he is not a drunk I would never ever put up with that friends or relationships. I actually stopped being friends with some because they went into the drunk area and sadly still are.