this Taurus guy ..

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ksaquayve
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Your guy's chart is identical to the chart of someone I went out with for 3 months but I don't know the time of birth of that guy. I met him in a climbing class and he showed interest, I reciprocated. Things were fast and died down even faster. Now we just see each other in the class. He's extremely serious and not cool but COLD. talking to him is like taking a test, you gotta get your answers right. Or you can literally see your approval rate plummeting. I can tell his mind is observing and judging whatever I do or say, even till this moment when we're no longer in a romantic relationship. He has huge ego and will never apologize. I found it very stressful and I didn't know what to say at all, feeling he was judging me. Very passive.... Wouldn't hold my hand unless I held his... Same for kissing. No idea why he became so cold once I showed him interest. Like he could stop working hard once he had me. I feel like he wanted to look like I cared for him more than he did me, so he could have the upper hand.

Btw, I have Aquarius sun, sadge moon, cap mercury, pisces venus, pisces mars and libra asc.
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Talking about age difference. He's 10 years older. I still like him a lot for how quietly sweet he was at the beginning. To be honest, he brought this really nice calming effect to me and I felt grounded. My pisces venus made me wanna do a lot for him to gain his affection but my Aquarius sun asked me not to bother. He wanted to one - sidedly shut me out of his life completely because of some silly misunderstanding. Didn't even want to be friends. I told him how I felt (which is very hard for an aquarius), he said let's focus on being friends and see how it goes. So that's what we are now. I've found him very confusing and maybe you can help me understand him better. I dunno ๐Ÿ˜ข
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Posted by ksaquayve
Your guy's chart is identical to the chart of someone I went out with for 3 months but I don't know the time of birth of that guy. I met him in a climbing class and he showed interest, I reciprocated. Things were fast and died down even faster. Now we just see each other in the class. He's extremely serious and not cool but COLD. talking to him is like taking a test, you gotta get your answers right. Or you can literally see your approval rate plummeting. I can tell his mind is observing and judging whatever I do or say, even till this moment when we're no longer in a romantic relationship. He has huge ego and will never apologize. I found it very stressful and I didn't know what to say at all, feeling he was judging me. Very passive.... Wouldn't hold my hand unless I held his... Same for kissing. No idea why he became so cold once I showed him interest. Like he could stop working hard once he had me. I feel like he wanted to look like I cared for him more than he did me, so he could have the upper hand.

Btw, I have Aquarius sun, sadge moon, cap mercury, pisces venus, pisces mars and libra asc.

do all taureans at like that ... they want it to seem like we care more for them than us ...he observes alot of things...i even catch him following my eyes.... he also seems like he has a short attention span...
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Posted by ksaquayve
Talking about age difference. He's 10 years older. I still like him a lot for how quietly sweet he was at the beginning. To be honest, he brought this really nice calming effect to me and I felt grounded. My pisces venus made me wanna do a lot for him to gain his affection but my Aquarius sun asked me not to bother. He wanted to one - sidedly shut me out of his life completely because of some silly misunderstanding. Didn't even want to be friends. I told him how I felt (which is very hard for an aquarius), he said let's focus on being friends and see how it goes. So that's what we are now. I've found him very confusing and maybe you can help me understand him better. I dunno ๐Ÿ˜ข

mines confuses me aswell...he told one of my close family member that he liked me but didn't if i felt the same ...he started showing it . But then it's like he backed away... so maybe i'm thinking he's not ready
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The Taurus guy I know thinks a lot, weighs the pros and cons a lot, so much that when he was with me, he was not enjoying our time together or trying to increase the understanding of each other, instead he was thinking about how he could get some answers to complete his checklist. Does she like children? Checked, good cook? Checked, does sports but not boyish?_?good, healthy diet? Good, not extravagant? Great, educated? Very important, stable income? Excellent.

Now that we're just friends, he texts me once in a while. But I'm not sure if I should open myself up to him again. I don't wanna be vulnerable and feel like he's very capable of hurting me.
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Posted by ksaquayve
The Taurus guy I know thinks a lot, weighs the pros and cons a lot, so much that when he was with me, he was not enjoying our time together or trying to increase the understanding of each other, instead he was thinking about how he could get some answers to complete his checklist. Does she like children? Checked, good cook? Checked, does sports but not boyish?_?good, healthy diet? Good, not extravagant? Great, educated? Very important, stable income? Excellent.

Now that we're just friends, he texts me once in a while. But I'm not sure if I should open myself up to him again. I don't wanna be vulnerable and feel like he's very capable of hurting me.

that's EXACTLY how i feel ..
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13 Years

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Similar chart to my guy except mine has a Leo rising. Ksaquayve could have described mine perfectly.
Perfect guy in the beginning. He was very persistent in the beginning. Seemed to do everything right. He had a lot of patience and understanding and loved to please. He had a calming effect on me and always said the right things. He seemed too good to be true and yes things died down very quickly. Then came the lying, the mind games, empty promises, and hot and cold behaviour. Now he is a mixture of what he was in the beginning and the person he has now become. What keeps me hanging on is when we are good it is a relationship to be envied but it does not last long. After a week or two he shuts down and becomes moody, withdrawn, critical, argumentative.....I cannot figure it out whatsoever. He develops these bad habits that are hard to break out of and he is soo selfish. I agree can be passive at times. He has stopped initiating sex most times when he is always horny. He cant keep his hands off of himself. He has conversations with me but they are played out in his head. He has convinced himself that I dont want sex or whatever random excuse he makes up with himself not to come to me. He holds all the cards and does not care one bit if something he does hurts me. His answer is always that he has a problem or lying telling me he is going to start doing etc. but never does smh... but it goes in circles after awhile we are back good again. I have been tired of this merry go round that is taurus but I get hopping back on the ride! But there are soo many good things about him I could name too. He is like my best friend but he frustrates me with the back and forthness. Just when I think we on track BAM he changes up.
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12 Years

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Posted by AquaLuv
Similar chart to my guy except mine has a Leo rising. Ksaquayve could have described mine perfectly.
Perfect guy in the beginning. He was very persistent in the beginning. Seemed to do everything right. He had a lot of patience and understanding and loved to please. He had a calming effect on me and always said the right things. He seemed too good to be true and yes things died down very quickly. Then came the lying, the mind games, empty promises, and hot and cold behaviour. Now he is a mixture of what he was in the beginning and the person he has now become. What keeps me hanging on is when we are good it is a relationship to be envied but it does not last long. After a week or two he shuts down and becomes moody, withdrawn, critical, argumentative.....I cannot figure it out whatsoever. He develops these bad habits that are hard to break out of and he is soo selfish. I agree can be passive at times. He has stopped initiating sex most times when he is always horny. He cant keep his hands off of himself. He has conversations with me but they are played out in his head. He has convinced himself that I dont want sex or whatever random excuse he makes up with himself not to come to me. He holds all the cards and does not care one bit if something he does hurts me. His answer is always that he has a problem or lying telling me he is going to start doing etc. but never does smh... but it goes in circles after awhile we are back good again. I have been tired of this merry go round that is taurus but I get hopping back on the ride! But there are soo many good things about him I could name too. He is like my best friend but he frustrates me with the back and forthness. Just when I think we on track BAM he changes up.

i think that's how mines will act ...
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Posted by AquaLuv
Similar chart to my guy except mine has a Leo rising. Ksaquayve could have described mine perfectly.
Perfect guy in the beginning. He was very persistent in the beginning. Seemed to do everything right. He had a lot of patience and understanding and loved to please. He had a calming effect on me and always said the right things. He seemed too good to be true and yes things died down very quickly. Then came the lying, the mind games, empty promises, and hot and cold behaviour. Now he is a mixture of what he was in the beginning and the person he has now become. What keeps me hanging on is when we are good it is a relationship to be envied but it does not last long. After a week or two he shuts down and becomes moody, withdrawn, critical, argumentative.....I cannot figure it out whatsoever. He develops these bad habits that are hard to break out of and he is soo selfish. I agree can be passive at times. He has stopped initiating sex most times when he is always horny. He cant keep his hands off of himself. He has conversations with me but they are played out in his head. He has convinced himself that I dont want sex or whatever random excuse he makes up with himself not to come to me. He holds all the cards and does not care one bit if something he does hurts me. His answer is always that he has a problem or lying telling me he is going to start doing etc. but never does smh... but it goes in circles after awhile we are back good again. I have been tired of this merry go round that is taurus but I get hopping back on the ride! But there are soo many good things about him I could name too. He is like my best friend but he frustrates me with the back and forthness. Just when I think we on track BAM he changes up.



How long have you been with your taurus?
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13 Years

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Posted by AquaLuv
Similar chart to my guy except mine has a Leo rising. Ksaquayve could have described mine perfectly.
Perfect guy in the beginning. He was very persistent in the beginning. Seemed to do everything right. He had a lot of patience and understanding and loved to please. He had a calming effect on me and always said the right things. He seemed too good to be true and yes things died down very quickly. Then came the lying, the mind games, empty promises, and hot and cold behaviour. Now he is a mixture of what he was in the beginning and the person he has now become. What keeps me hanging on is when we are good it is a relationship to be envied but it does not last long. After a week or two he shuts down and becomes moody, withdrawn, critical, argumentative.....I cannot figure it out whatsoever. He develops these bad habits that are hard to break out of and he is soo selfish. I agree can be passive at times. He has stopped initiating sex most times when he is always horny. He cant keep his hands off of himself. He has conversations with me but they are played out in his head. He has convinced himself that I dont want sex or whatever random excuse he makes up with himself not to come to me. He holds all the cards and does not care one bit if something he does hurts me. His answer is always that he has a problem or lying telling me he is going to start doing etc. but never does smh... but it goes in circles after awhile we are back good again. I have been tired of this merry go round that is taurus but I get hopping back on the ride! But there are soo many good things about him I could name too. He is like my best friend but he frustrates me with the back and forthness. Just when I think we on track BAM he changes up.



How long have you been with your taurus?
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Over 6 years.
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13 Years

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Posted by AquaLuv
Similar chart to my guy except mine has a Leo rising. Ksaquayve could have described mine perfectly.
Perfect guy in the beginning. He was very persistent in the beginning. Seemed to do everything right. He had a lot of patience and understanding and loved to please. He had a calming effect on me and always said the right things. He seemed too good to be true and yes things died down very quickly. Then came the lying, the mind games, empty promises, and hot and cold behaviour. Now he is a mixture of what he was in the beginning and the person he has now become. What keeps me hanging on is when we are good it is a relationship to be envied but it does not last long. After a week or two he shuts down and becomes moody, withdrawn, critical, argumentative.....I cannot figure it out whatsoever. He develops these bad habits that are hard to break out of and he is soo selfish. I agree can be passive at times. He has stopped initiating sex most times when he is always horny. He cant keep his hands off of himself. He has conversations with me but they are played out in his head. He has convinced himself that I dont want sex or whatever random excuse he makes up with himself not to come to me. He holds all the cards and does not care one bit if something he does hurts me. His answer is always that he has a problem or lying telling me he is going to start doing etc. but never does smh... but it goes in circles after awhile we are back good again. I have been tired of this merry go round that is taurus but I get hopping back on the ride! But there are soo many good things about him I could name too. He is like my best friend but he frustrates me with the back and forthness. Just when I think we on track BAM he changes up.

i think that's how mines will act ...
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Put on your seatbelt girlie because it is going to be a long ride before you see the rainbow again.