What Could Possibly Be Up With This Taurus Male?

I met this Taurus guy back last July. When I first met him, it was very obvious he was trying to get into a relationship with me, even after only knowing him for about a week.

Then a few months went by and we talked again. I can't describe it, but it seemed like he was really interested in me.

So, a few months ago he took a trip somewhere for a few months, came back and asked to see me again. Except this time he doesn't seem like he doesn't want to have anything serious anymore. Not only that, but he always tells me he wants to see me, but will never text/call. I have to call him first. He tells me he wants something special with me, but it doesn't seem like it. Like several times he's mentioned being my boyfriend, but it's like he never makes an effort to try to become that. It's kinda like he's playing mind games. I cannot tell if he really wants something with me, because he doesn't act like but, he tells me he does. And he tells me how much he likes me and how he feels "something" is between us, but he never makes any effort.

I've been dealing with something similar with my Taurus- actually, if you dig around on this forum, you'll see that a lot of people have different variations of the same story to tell about bulls. What are his other placements, such as his moon, venus, mars, etc? This is a very typical Taurus thing to do. Honestly, it depends entirely on how you want to deal with it. My association with the Taurus guy I was seeing hasn't been that long, but as someone who doesn't want to be dragged around without a guarantee from him and without him making any efforts to see me at all, I decided I'd just back off and see what happens. I'm an Aqua with a venus in Pisces and moon in Leo, and I'm very, very careful about love now after my experiences. Focus on yourself and your life, even though I can understand that's easier said than done. Any man who wants to be with you will make an effort to show it. If he doesn't then it's probably not worth it. Pressuring these guys does nothing but drive them away, so you have to adopt a tricky combination of being indifferent yet friendly, and actually stop being affected by every little thing they do.

Posted by sfd144
Focus on yourself and your life, even though I can understand that's easier said than done. Any man who wants to be with you will make an effort to show it. If he doesn't then it's probably not worth it. Pressuring these guys does nothing but drive them away, so you have to adopt a tricky combination of being indifferent yet friendly, and actually stop being affected by every little thing they do.

^^^Great advice. I'm trying to do this myself right now.

Posted by GreenBean
I met this Taurus guy back last July. When I first met him, it was very obvious he was trying to get into a relationship with me, even after only knowing him for about a week.

Did he tell you he wanted a relationship with you verbatim? Or did you assume he was trying to get into a relationship with you?

Posted by GreenBean
Then a few months went by and we talked again. I can't describe it, but it seemed like he was really interested in me.

What happened between those months? Did he pursue you? Did you respond/reciprocate?

Posted by GreenBean
Except this time he doesn't seem like he doesn't want to have anything serious anymore.

This ^^^

Posted by GreenBean
He tells me he wants something special with me, but it doesn't seem like it.

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Contradicts this^^^^

There is too much vaguness with this thread.....TOO CLOUDY!

Vaguness = Vagueness

I don't understand how it's "cloudy". This is literally his attitude.

Posted by GreenBean
I don't understand how it's "cloudy". This is literally his attitude.

The inconsistencies do not lie with his attitude.
The discrepancies lie with your story.