Posted by FireStarter3. Please only participate if you know you'll actually be online to play. If you're busy during the gift giving time, msg me your gift and I'll post it to your giftee with your name.
I will create the gift giving forum on 12/21/18 gifts can be given from then till the 25th.(final)

So this mean we get to post between the 21st and 25th right? I can post prior to 25th? (I would post on the 22nd)

If yes, I'm in. (looking @ all you Aries moons who should sign up for this)

Posted by rejuvenatedheart
What would ever convince you to continue dating someone who cheated on you?

Nothing. Just a matter of timing on how swift or calculated my exit would be.

Posted by rejuvenatedheartWhat would you consider to fall under the cheating category?

Every moment past the point where you checked out of "us" yet didn't inform me of it. Doesn't have to be physical or anything yet, If you know in your heart we're over and then you bide your time..that biding cheats me of my time. Like a crime with acts of preparation beforehand. Those acts = cheating

Posted by rejuvenatedheartGive your Moon, Venus and Mars placements... Forgot to request that lol

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Aries, Cancer, Aries

I feel Sun conjuct Lilith would make someone very into their own ways and at ease with loneliness than cheating.

I mean Lilith never bowed to Adam let alone carry the facade with cheating. Then again there were no other men around.

He's straight up confused.

When you said he asked jokingly if you really like him..dude, not a joke. That's classic Virgo for "I have no treetrunking clue where I stand on your list". No way he will go deeper after being told to back off in the beginning AND respecting that AND not receiving the emotional validation implied in that question.

Confusion in Virgos => overthinking => detachment to overthink some more.

That detachment will make a water moon feel a connection as being sporadic. As a side note I can count on one hand the number of times water moons friends actually had epiphanies that their moodiness might treetrunk up a connection and it's not always about how other people make THEM feel.

If you feel you cannot invest until a connection is on all the time, you're at a standstill here. I know this isnt a test to you nor some obstacle you conjured here...yet it basically forces the other party to invest more while you hold the prerogative to use ratios for your own investment. That's not really fair to him.

Easy, friendly, light connections are more Arian and I feel they don't vibe well with Scorpios because they are presumed to be surface level. Smoldering seduction is not our way, it's cheap and cliche with us. But us giggling and being foolish? You're in deep with us.

Maybe this is all about calibrating emotional cues. I'd give it a bit more time and less rational approaches, see if he meets you on an instinctive level. Rationality doesnt actually make us fall deeper..cuz it's like same ole for us. Shortcircuits will tell you if the flame is sustainable here or not.

Disclaimer in the PC DXP world 2k18: obviously making assumptions, obviously projecting a bit, take whatever resonates and leave the rest.

*coming back to this tomorrow*

My SN is in Virgo, conjunct Sun.

Can confirm, my relationship with myself is difficult.

( 70% in jest, 30% in truth)

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Disagree. I feel Aries Moon, on paper, actually has to force themselves to get along with other's way of seeing things at a young age since it's such a weak Moon as far as energy goes.

But once they stop doing that and find their own way of getting their message across, they are gold. One of the few Moons in astrology that is good in relationships imo.

i don't think it's bad in relationships.. but it irks me in arguments though it's probably coz of my dodgy approach and need to start something, change my mind in the middle of it then suddenly set aside whatever it is.. basically i'm pushing just as relentlessly but in between long intervals while they're off to settle things in one go and i'm rarely about that life

but still.. the pushiness can't be denied

Really I'm just speaking about on-paper astro from my pov but not trying to deny your real life situation, don't get me wrong.

I think with Fire Moons/Fire people in general, they get blackballed in web astrology by writers or people who think too literal.

i see your point though.. i've libra mars and tbh i feel like i always get what i want coz i've observed that libra placements tend to frame things in a way that you'd have no real choice but to agree yet it's 'your choice' (lol) and that's instant gratification.. i can only imagine that aries energy tends to get things.. 'eventually' which i guess they prefer so good for them

realized that when someone pointed out to me that: 'you probably don't have a lot of people disagreeing with you, huh?'

well yeah coz i don't surround myself with disagreeable poeple.. hmm, maybe it's just that they just fight harder to get their point across and i interpret this as 'close-minded'..

I wonder if that's Virgo or Libra energy, because that reminds me of Eusebio Di Francesco. One of the greatest Virgos in my book, bias because I'm a Roma fan.

He says things that can be taken as arrogant but he knows he's put in a ton of work into the details, before he presents anyone on his team with their "choice". From that point, they can either decide to do things his way or be wrong.

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I can relate.

Feeling vindicated with the rest of the Virgos who always point out that if we care we are actively in your life, supporting you and being proud of you.

P-angel used to diss us over many things but always said we are rock solid in this and we will accept and believe in you.

Anything less that this, a virgo is not into you. (minus his emojis tbh, i'm not as saccharine)

Testimonials like these is why I say Pisces are disconnected emotionally and overrate their perception.

So all of that happens...and the best 2 words you could think of were "stay positive"? Like really? ofc he lost his temper because that's straight up insulting at this point.

Seconds from when I realize it to when I verbalize it.

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Posted by Damnata
Iluminati
Air sign
Pluto is a home for Virgo

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Laughed hardest at those 3 parts.

is it magnetovirgo?

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Nah, he's from way back. He used to believe he was a Leo and adamant about it. Remember P-angel getting into it with him.