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and the guys that even order for the girl lolol wtf even is that


That, Libra Moon, is one of the hottest things ever. But up until...6 years ago I would have had the same reaction.

I was coming back towards our table on this first date after I went to the ladies' room...when I saw this mysterious chickentail in front of me. We were at a place that has no menu and you will just ask them to mix whatever drinks you want for chickentails.

So I look at him and go "Uhm what is this?"

"Oh I took the liberty to order for you. You can have whatever you want too but if you'll just taste it? I'm really curious if I got it right...I guessed at what I would like".

The sequence of events in my head:

"how DARE he? that's some nerve!"
"Hmm I gotta respect the nerve though"
"I kinda like his nerve"
"-.-"
"What is this new feeling that I'm experiencing"
"treetrunk I feel girly and all vulnerable."
"I kinda enjoy this feeling"
"DAMN I LOVE THIS FEELING"

...and I haven't looked back since.

Doesn't even matter if I would like it or not...the act of it speaks somewhere in my subconscious as a dominant move. A nice dominant move, not some fifty shades of grey kind of butter.

I'd recommend it used only for drinks though cuz food allergies are numerous and tastes are picky and if you don't like it you'd feel bad if you set it aside. But a drink, my sheer curiosity will have me down that.



My first thought would by why did he wait for me to leave to order that drink? My second thought, he roofied my drink I'm not drinking that.



Both of these is because that move would not really work with a water sun on a first date because paranoia/distrust rules you peeps. She'd have to have known the guy for a while to bypass a legit concern.

It's not so much because I'm a water sign but because it's happened to me before. ALWAYS watch the drink go from the bartenders/servers hand to yours.
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This reminds me of my Aries friend that has had numerous mini heart attacks from hearing stories of me getting into cars with strangers. I'm just entirely Sag rising this life
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I have moon conjuct mars.

Cheesy stuff is risky business with me (on receiving end). I've either found it endearing or absolutely gag-inducing...lol





Lmao, I'm the same way. Extremes.

Once you are teh apple of my eye, you can go all out on cheesiness. My Cancer Venus kicks in and I'm like awwwwwwww you are sweet baby, maybe ugh but still awwwwww.

But before?



Yeah.

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and the guys that even order for the girl lolol wtf even is that


That, Libra Moon, is one of the hottest things ever. But up until...6 years ago I would have had the same reaction.

I was coming back towards our table on this first date after I went to the ladies' room...when I saw this mysterious chickentail in front of me. We were at a place that has no menu and you will just ask them to mix whatever drinks you want for chickentails.

So I look at him and go "Uhm what is this?"

"Oh I took the liberty to order for you. You can have whatever you want too but if you'll just taste it? I'm really curious if I got it right...I guessed at what I would like".

The sequence of events in my head:

"how DARE he? that's some nerve!"
"Hmm I gotta respect the nerve though"
"I kinda like his nerve"
"-.-"
"What is this new feeling that I'm experiencing"
"treetrunk I feel girly and all vulnerable."
"I kinda enjoy this feeling"
"DAMN I LOVE THIS FEELING"

...and I haven't looked back since.

Doesn't even matter if I would like it or not...the act of it speaks somewhere in my subconscious as a dominant move. A nice dominant move, not some fifty shades of grey kind of butter.

I'd recommend it used only for drinks though cuz food allergies are numerous and tastes are picky and if you don't like it you'd feel bad if you set it aside. But a drink, my sheer curiosity will have me down that.



My first thought would by why did he wait for me to leave to order that drink? My second thought, he roofied my drink I'm not drinking that.

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Both of these is because that move would not really work with a water sun on a first date because paranoia/distrust rules you peeps. She'd have to have known the guy for a while to bypass a legit concern.
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and the guys that even order for the girl lolol wtf even is that


That, Libra Moon, is one of the hottest things ever. But up until...6 years ago I would have had the same reaction.

I was coming back towards our table on this first date after I went to the ladies' room...when I saw this mysterious chickentail in front of me. We were at a place that has no menu and you will just ask them to mix whatever drinks you want for chickentails.

So I look at him and go "Uhm what is this?"

"Oh I took the liberty to order for you. You can have whatever you want too but if you'll just taste it? I'm really curious if I got it right...I guessed at what I would like".

The sequence of events in my head:

"how DARE he? that's some nerve!"
"Hmm I gotta respect the nerve though"
"I kinda like his nerve"
"-.-"
"What is this new feeling that I'm experiencing"
"treetrunk I feel girly and all vulnerable."
"I kinda enjoy this feeling"
"DAMN I LOVE THIS FEELING"

...and I haven't looked back since.

Doesn't even matter if I would like it or not...the act of it speaks somewhere in my subconscious as a dominant move. A nice dominant move, not some fifty shades of grey kind of butter.

I'd recommend it used only for drinks though cuz food allergies are numerous and tastes are picky and if you don't like it you'd feel bad if you set it aside. But a drink, my sheer curiosity will have me down that.



It's interesting how some things are simply a mundane (albeit still special) fact of life.

My father always ordered on my mother's behalf. It's a cultural norm, almost to the point that it isn't worth special attention. When I see this sort of thing being discussed, as if it were an alien dissection, my eyes glaze over. When one just does something as a matter of course – as a natural, harmless reflex, it's odd to witness a discussion about it. It's like being fascinated with your own shoelaces.
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Y'all don't understand the struggles of being a Virgo -.-
Posted by TerramineLightvoid
What my complaints around DXP have been. Is more centered around the subliminal double standard latent within the fact that nobody is saying "women should have to try to woo and earn men".

Men are told they have to /earn/ a woman. Whereas women are told they are just entitled to it because they can get men willy nilly.


That's fair criticism.

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and the guys that even order for the girl lolol wtf even is that


That, Libra Moon, is one of the hottest things ever. But up until...6 years ago I would have had the same reaction.

I was coming back towards our table on this first date after I went to the ladies' room...when I saw this mysterious chickentail in front of me. We were at a place that has no menu and you will just ask them to mix whatever drinks you want for chickentails.

So I look at him and go "Uhm what is this?"

"Oh I took the liberty to order for you. You can have whatever you want too but if you'll just taste it? I'm really curious if I got it right...I guessed at what I would like".

The sequence of events in my head:

"how DARE he? that's some nerve!"
"Hmm I gotta respect the nerve though"
"I kinda like his nerve"
"-.-"
"What is this new feeling that I'm experiencing"
"treetrunk I feel girly and all vulnerable."
"I kinda enjoy this feeling"
"DAMN I LOVE THIS FEELING"

...and I haven't looked back since.

Doesn't even matter if I would like it or not...the act of it speaks somewhere in my subconscious as a dominant move. A nice dominant move, not some fifty shades of grey kind of butter.

I'd recommend it used only for drinks though cuz food allergies are numerous and tastes are picky and if you don't like it you'd feel bad if you set it aside. But a drink, my sheer curiosity will have me down that.

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I'd rather do it but Im not gonna argue about it. If they give me the cliche "you're not paying for mine" I will prolly say yes I am once, but after that then she can just pay for whatever portion she wants.

I used to wait tables and sometimes saw couples get into legit squabbles about who would be paying. Idk who has time for that crap. Arguing in public is the worst. Libra moon would rather die.


You know what I see a lot of?

Birthday people paying for the entire dinner.

"WE'RE OUT CELEBRATING. IT'S HIS/HER BIRTHDAY LOL!!!"

*watches birthday person pay for themselves or the entire table*

... It makes me sad.
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I find difference in cultures fascinating.

That is the way things go here. It's seen as "It's my birthday so I am celebrating the day I was born so I will repay the luck I've had with running into you folks in this life."

It's disrespectful to pay for the person whose birthday is, as is to want to pay for yourself. What you can do is bring a gift. But even without the gift, even if you just run into someone and tell them happy birthday they will invite you for a drink.
If you're a fire moon woman...it's a long walk uphill in having to explain yourself as far as teasing and what we call compliments go -.- . Any man you think you tease will see it as an insult...either a mild one at best or blatant hatred at worst. It's just ridic.

I can't do the coy damsel in distress butter to save my life. The averting of eyes...I won't forget when I was in secondary school and one of my friends was like "You know, you are supposed to look at them then look away and blush then look at them again..not fixate on them". Well why would I look away if I like what I am seeing? Then that thing about playing with your hair..lmao. I remember I was in a date with a Libra dude and I decided to do that and I could just see myself from a third person perspective and I cracked up laughing at the image just when he was telling me a sad life stories. I have the best timing ever.

Anyway you will know I am flirting before I even realize it lmao.

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Posted by shakedown
Hmmm. You make an interesting point. However, we are not talking about meat. We are talking about the perpetual oppression of a certain group of people.


Does said friend actively inflict harm on said group of people? Not talking flaming FB posts or out there opinions..do they actually take a step in that direction..for example beating someone up because they are part of that group?

Yup, absolutely.

Different types of friendships and different levels of relating.
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I don't flirt but evil people like @-elle- and @justagirl claim otherwise.


I think you flirt as well 😉


Well you can join them in being wrong lmao.

Nah, I think this is just a personal hangup (?) of mine. When I was growing up...my mother is blatantly sexual so in my mind flirting is associated with hitting on sexually and I can't do that with a man to save my life.

But I grew up with more male friends than female friends and I am just friendly by nature. I guess I struggle with making the difference in my mind. Wherever I am at I will strike a convo and laugh and talk and be all up in their personal space. My friends just resigned to shaking their heads at me lmao.



Lol... I'm right, just that it's not quite how YOU perceive it.

You flirt and it is direct. Perhaps it's the Aries moon? But, I don't see it as sexual at all - I just see it as something very human. When you like someone, it clearly shows (to me anyway). And I find it to be a positive trait in you. One that you should learn to embrace and perhaps, redefine?

Don't be so hard on yourself for having feelings of that nature (liking someone) and clearly showing it. You might have your mothers blood in you, but you are not your mother. You are you - don't be afraid to be you 😘😘

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Aww, thank you.

I do admit you'd have to be blind to...well not necessarily see me flirting with you but just that I like you as a person to begin with. I always gravitate like a little cheerful satellite. I was actually watching a School of Life video on flirting and it said it should be seen as putting a smile on someone's face. After all we all need that in our day. Put it that way...then yeah maybe I will stop being reluctant to see it as flirting cuz I'd love it if that's what I actually did lol.

Very straight forward but very oblivious too lmao.
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I don't flirt but evil people like @-elle- and @justagirl claim otherwise.


I think you flirt as well 😉
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Well you can join them in being wrong lmao.

Nah, I think this is just a personal hangup (?) of mine. When I was growing up...my mother is blatantly sexual so in my mind flirting is associated with hitting on sexually and I can't do that with a man to save my life.

But I grew up with more male friends than female friends and I am just friendly by nature. I guess I struggle with making the difference in my mind. Wherever I am at I will strike a convo and laugh and talk and be all up in their personal space. My friends just resigned to shaking their heads at me lmao.

I agree on same sign pairings.

Two tauruses (the way he reacted when she won is swoon worthy. total partners in crime, zero drama to be found with them):









Two virgos:

I don't flirt but evil people like @-elle- and @justagirl claim otherwise.
Out of line entirely.

This is like someone calling you a bleep and you turning to someone else and punching them.

Not only it wasn't your friend's fault, you escalated it too. He shoved you so you punch him in the face? Women get by with this butter because if a guy punched you back you'd fall like glass.

Hopefully he picks better friends.
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I've always thought Libra and Pisces together is a good idea.


It starts off like a nice cozy attractive path...and ends in a trainwreck
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The pisces warning label:



always be stealing ideas from previous posted pics by Virgos.

WWPL?

(nice astrobeautymaxing2k17 tho)


yeah but u didnt make it

prolly stole it from yahoo answers
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buzzfeed lmao.

WWPL
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The pisces warning label:



always be stealing ideas from previous posted pics by Virgos.

WWPL?

(nice astrobeautymaxing2k17 tho)