If someone always mentioning that you are a good person. Neither when you talk to them on the phone or by e-mail. Does that mean he thinks he is not worthy of love. Yes he Taurus.
No dumb ass, Tiamat. I was wondering if he is saying this becasue he thinks less of himslef and he doesn't derserve some who is a good person. Again, your rude and blunt, and your opinion didn't help.
I thought I was supposed to be the rude one and the "dumb ass".Seriously stop holding grudges just because I said you deserve it when you play guilt trips on people because "they hurt you" when they most likely don't even know whatever it is was done.
Again,I think you need to get off the superiority issue and look at it mundanely!Maybe he's saying hey I like you MORE because you are a good person if there is another motive behind it.People who like to think theres something wrong with everyone else and nothing wrong with them fall hard when or if they choose to deal with themselves and thier own weaknesses.Ignorance must be bless to you otherwise.
lol,yeah,TG,I have issues with people telling me im a good person too because I know theres things that make me evil too*ahem*unlike other people of certain a starsign who never likes to admit they're wrong so they choose to run away instead of deal with thier problems.The rest of us can admit when we're/they're wrong so we don't let it get to our already big heads.
I've noticed that people that claim to be "good people" are usually trying to get assurance from you because they know they did something "wrong" or "bad".
My question is; what do people get out of being a good person? Do people find inner peace by knowing that they are better than other people? I find little solace in thinking that I am a good person. Will I get old and look back thinking, I'm glad I remained a good person? When I am lying on my deathbed, staring at my ceiling fan, will it comfort me? Would I be happier remembering a score of conquests involving things like gluttony and lust or, being a good, perfect person, which is impossible anyways. This is a conflict between our mind and our soul. Our souls seek the life which is right for us, to love humanity seek justice and be sensible; but our minds desire satisfaction for the moment. What does it all matter in the end, or in the grand scheme of life what do my actions really matter?
So who are we to judge, and most importantly who are we to ourselves? Friedrich Nietzsche writes ?...the source of the concept "good" has been sought and established in the wrong place: the judgment "good" did not originate with those to whom "goodness" was shown! Rather it was "the good" themselves, that is to say, the noble, powerful, high-stationed and high-minded, who felt and established themselves and their actions as good...It was out of this pathos of distance that they first seized the right to create values and to coin names for values... that is the origin of the antithesis "good" and "bad."
Another way of seeing things would be to say that we are all bad in comparison. We've all done things that we don't even approve of by our own standards in addition to the many things we've done wrong to each other. I think what makes us either good or bad is what we do when we come into that realization. We can give up and go on causing more evil or we can do the best we can to change.
I don't think theres such a thing as a good or bad person.Okay everyone has thier POV on what is good and what is bad,I think it's ego that makes people decide what is right or wrong when it comes to judging other people.Someone who concentrates on what is good or bad about a person and only those things is overlooking the other half of it.It's like the ying yang,theres a bit of bad in good and a bit of good in bad so niether is better or worse than the other because it's all nature.I think admitting your right and wrong together is what makes you completely honest with yourself which wouldn't make you anything aside from yourself.And yeah,I agree with you,bad things that happen to you doesn't give you the right away to mess with other people and that actually leans into lame excuses for people to use thier past to justify thier actions which somehow clashes with what DD thinks so yeah,thats whats going on in case anyones wondering and thats my own POV on right or wrong.She doesn't seem to want to give me a reason to see things her way though without resorting to "starsign" theorys to put out insults though.The same old,same old scorps are evil crap first,now it's sag bashing with the rude and blunt stuff still apparently.
lol,thats part of my thing is just honesty,I was acting like it was something to be defensive about when my manager tried to give me a tip when I thought I didn't have anything to do with the tip lol.He had to tell me what it was for before I took it because I only seen him ring up a coke and no food carried out with it when he turned around and tried to give it to me.Thats the thing with me is you have to prove to me that it's deserved and not just expected or anything,I never said I was normal(maybe stupid for worrying about that before I would just "ooo money" and take it😛)but its my morals and principles to act on it rather than just talk the talk but do the opposite.Thats one of my bad sides is I jump before I ask so means im not a good person because of that to some but others and myself will see it as a good thing as well.So yeah actions over talk is more important to me to make someone else a "good person" too but they will still have thier flaws and such which will make them not too "good".It's the realist factor that matters most cause it's not "really" that black and white in the world.
Seriously daydreamer,look at your situation and then answer me what this question is looking like.It looks like you want him to think of you that way because you aren't "happy" but you won't leave the situation.What is that?He doesn't sound like hes into getting serious and not trying to hurt you but still does because hes not ready and you KNOW this.
I wouldn?t be sure that he wants me out of the situation. I think it is both us that don?t want to leave each other life. We do have a history together. If he is a true Taurus, he wouldn?t just drop his old friends.
I know he is not ready and there was never any pressure on my part to make him feel he should be ready. I?m just letting him know I care about him and I?m a friend he can depend on. Isn?t that how many great relationships are built from?
Back to my question I?ve posted. I wouldn?t say he is in the happiest time of his life nor has the cleanest life style s. So, I wonder with the way his life style s been, if he felt undeserving of love and a ?good person? don?t deserve to be with him because of less than good life style s.
About my happiest, I never had been happier in life! This year, I have many things to look forward to. Just because a person you hope to be with one day isn?t ready, doesn?t mean your life should be put on hold waiting for them. I already found peace, love, and happiest within my self, and that is something I want him to understand and to find for himself. Loyally and consistency is what makes a friendship built into a fulfilling and blissful relationship. Slowly but surely it is coming around.
Ask him what its about then,relationships are built on communication as well as the loyalty and perserverance.The only thing anyone(including me) here can do is guess at what it is,so that will be either having him come out looking pitiful or some kind of jerk which may not be the case,thats why Im telling you to take it as it is and nothing more.It's your relationship so you have to be the one thats active in it,not us cause you'll end up misunderstanding something about this person until you get it straight from him.Theres too many people relying on "starsigns" to solve thier relationship problems which won't do much in the long run or solve anything.The only thing I can tell you from having a taurus moon is plain old means plain old,its there and nothing else,understand what I mean by the original post now?Im always rude but it's not always mindless spouting and is generally too "lazy" to type everything out.Thats what I am.
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