What experiences did you have with Cancer men

Hi,
What kind of experiences did you have with Cancer men? I read that it is a match made in heaven. When I met a nice, sweet and caring Cancer I was so happy.
Now after 4 months it is over and I feel disappointed.
My Cancer man liked to go out to bars and restaurants and had many women friends. When he took a trip to Florida, he went out to a bar with two women. He did not see anything wrong with it. He was never verbally affectionate. In the bedroom, he was only interested in doing one position and really was not into a lot of touching/foreplay.
I was blind for a while because at the beginning, he was romantic, sweet, caring and very into me. I did not bring the bedroom think for a while because he was also very insecure in the bedroom, so I did not want to make him even more insecure.
When I brought up issues and told him I needed more connection, communication , openness and touch, he disappeared for 8 days and refused to talk to me.

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Hi,
What kind of experiences did you have with Cancer men? I read that it is a match made in heaven. When I met a nice, sweet and caring Cancer I was so happy.
Now after 4 months it is over and I feel disappointed.
My Cancer man liked to go out to bars and restaurants and had many women friends. When he took a trip to Florida, he went out to a bar with two women. He did not see anything wrong with it. He was never verbally affectionate. In the bedroom, he was only interested in doing one position and really was not into a lot of touching/foreplay.
I was blind for a while because at the beginning, he was romantic, sweet, caring and very into me. I did not bring the bedroom think for a while because he was also very insecure in the bedroom, so I did not want to make him even more insecure.
When I brought up issues and told him I needed more connection, communication , openness and touch, he disappeared for 8 days and refused to talk to me.

As a Cancer girl, all I can tell you is this: every Cancer is different. What is really worthy of thought is when a Cancer is not well, you can tell because their deeds do not match their words. We are very observant people (whether we like it or not) and we share one thing with Taurus: when pushed to far, we pull back trying to protect ourselves. It's silly, I know.

This guy in particular seems to be ignorant of others wishes on purpose, meaning that he's been hurt a lot in the past so he thinks that by wearing the player mask will lead the way yet he's just trying not to get that much involved. He's not even close to ready.

My experience with Cancer men, they are boring and not open minded. At first they showed a lot of attention then it died down. It was like they gave up or didn't care.dated 2 cancer guys, do yourself a favor and find someone better.

Currently with a Cancer, going through it as we speak. When its good, its great! But we are currently long distance. When he was here, it was perfect...since he moved, its a trainwreck at times - but I think thats due to both our insecurities.

But overall, its been worth the experience. Lots of communication issues. I think I kinda was ahead of the game by learning stuff about Cancers, so I almost felt prepped a little (dealing with mood swings and stuff like that).

But if you're looking for a smooth easy predictable ride...Cancers are not it. But in my personal experience (so far), if you get a good one, they are worth the work.

I have been dating a Cancer man for a few months now - and it was great until today. Today we had a conflict about his behavior in certain date app, and now we're both hurt/anxious. I think he lied to me and it seems he thinks I'm trying to push us too much too soon.

He seems to be moody - one day he can be really sunny person, next day he might be more distant. But my Cancer is prone to depression so that might be also why this happens sometimes. He is more often funny and joyful than he is gloomy. It seems that he wants to initiate intimacy rather than me initiating it, not sure why. He's really good at reading other people's feelings, but during those gloomy days he doesn't care as much if his actions or words are hurtful. At this point he is still quite secretive about his inner feelings, protecting himself.

He has this motherly/fatherly side definitely, he likes to cook for me for example. Or suddenly washes my back in shower or starts massaging me gently.

It also seems he enjoys going to eat to familiar places, or staying home watching Netflix movies or something. He does have a social life and he goes for gym, but he isn't a party animal anymore (he's 28).

When it comes to sex, I'm not sure yet. He wants to take those steps quite slowly, first getting to know me and to build trust between us. He has told me he's OK with some kinks, and he's really into my boobs 😄 So at least with him, it's true what they say about Cancer men and breasts. He wants to stare into my eyes during an act, which is really cute. He doesn't kiss that much, but when he does it's really sweet. He seems to like more cuddling and staring into my eyes than kissing. I guess he likes BJs a lot too, but what guy doesn't? I think he is really gentle and he makes love, rather than has sex, so it's not that... exciting, but you feel really loved.

But as I said, right now things are really not that good and I'm truly afraid of losing him 😢

The first cancer guy I ever met was moody, clingy, and overly emotional.

For the longest time I just took from that, and assumed that was how most cancer men are.

Then I met fiance's best friend, he is HILARIOUS, reserved, and a true sweetheart. We even seem to have the same sense of humor 🙂