Y DO US WOMEN HAVE TO PROVE OURSELVES TO TAURUS ME

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sunshine101562
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Hi Crystal tears33,

Im a Libra dating a Taurus male and if you've been around this board, you have seen my confused questions over and over. Im not sure if I am right on this or if this is exactly what your looking for but I'll give it a shot. I had to prove myself to my Taurus man as well but not in tangible way. It was more of him seeing if he could trust that I would be around and if he should put his feelings into it. He never verbally said "prove yourself to me" but it was even unspoken it was as large as life. The people on this board have been so helpful answering questions and have helped me understand my Taurus guy. I hope this helps, I think that Taurus's want to be sure they are not going to get hurt or rejected. That is just what I've been through. Once he felt safe everything changed for the better, so be patient if this is what you want. Taurus's are a very special breed, well at least for Libras. Good luck!

Sunshine...
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Taurus rarely have the right words and I just hate that sometimes we cause these ugly misunderstandings that we for some reason just won't fix or aren't able to fix. Anywho, the words "prove yourself" probably sound very uggghh... I agree and I'd love to smack him upside the head 🙂 I doubt any bull means you'd have to be perfect at all in order for you to be worthy which is probably the ugly perception here huh? hah! I'd say most of us don't like perfection which works oh so well since it doesn't exist. As a matter of fact we may even smile at some of your ugly traits simply because you are the one we love and how more perfect could you be? it's already you!
What 'prove' yourself really means probably has more to do with us! Yeah, we are trying to find out if you're willing to be there for us, be faithful, be honest, if we can trust you, feel comfortable with you, it has to do more with our reactions towards you. It all just means - give it time. We just want to make sure that you stand up to a few of our expectations (not many, not big ones) and everyone's got them so I know we're not horrible ppl for having them. And all this is just so we can open up to you and with time give you all we can and love you all we can and just feel safe to max ourselves out on you- even if not so apparent on the surface. Well I've gotta run! Hope I make sense and if I don't he's your x-lover so u wouldn't care but hope I solved a mystery 🙂