Signs of an Insecure Woman

ok, ladies and gentlemen,

let's define insecurity.

do you have it in loads? or in some?

I'll link some articles and let's see what you decide.

http://www.badassyoungmen.com/signs-of-insecurity.html

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Recognizing the signs of insecurity in a woman is useful way to be able to determine what is actually causing the relationship problems.

So you can then decide either to help her manage or that the relationship is toxic and it's move on.

Insecurity is obviously something that is not only felt by men.

Women manifest the signs of insecurity in slightly different ways to males.

For them it is far more emotional and less about sex. Understanding the way women think and their differences to men will help you significantly in your relationships.

Picking up on insecurity signs can help you understand whether your partner is being insecure and not just acting mean or irrational. This way you can support her rather than antagonizing her. It is also helpful when in a new relationship to consider whether or not you want to engage in a partnership with a very insecure woman. These are some of the key signs of insecurity in a woman"

She Gets Jealous

Jealousy is a result of insecurity. It is a reaction that is triggered by some external event, such as you talking to an attractive woman.

Being jealous is different to be insecure but it is one of the causes and signs of insecurity. A little bit of jealousy is nothing to worry about and is just a protective instinct. But highly emotional irrational jealousy is something to be concerned about and is a tell tale sign of insecurity.

She Needs Constant Validation And Reinforcement

Insecure people are not comfortable in their own skin. They derive they self esteem from other people's judgement not from any internal satisfaction with themselves. An insecure woman seeks constant reassurance that she is beautiful, valued and loved. This is why you find insecure people to be such attention seekers. They are looking for validation that they are acceptable as they are.

She Makes You Feel Guilty

If your woman has ever made you feel guilty for spending time with anyone other than her then she has an insecurity problem. Because she has low self esteem and invests herself far too heavily in the relationship she cannot handle the fact that you are deriving any sort of pleasure from anyone other than her.

Of course emotionally healthy people need to derive satisfaction from many areas of life and a relationship is just one of those. A secure partner understands this is does not command 100% attention nor make you feel

"depend on her and are on a mental leash.

She Cannot Handle Someone Who Doesn't Need Her

While we often tell our partners "I can't live without you" as a romantic gesture in reality we could all live without our partners if we had to. They might leave us or death might take them from us. Life would go on. It is not a pleasant thought but it is the reality. No person ever physically needs the other in a relationship.

Needy people are unattractive and those who are aloof and non needy are very attractive. While a woman may appear aloof and unneedy early on if she is inherently insecure it won't be long before these traits manifest themselves as one of the key signs of insecurity.

Had she shown them at the start of the relationship perhaps you would have run a mile, but now you don't. She subconsciously knows this which is why she hides it in the beginning, waiting until you have her trust before she unleashes the full fury of her insecurity.

Secure people understand that they don't ever need the other person. Even if they have been in a committed relationship for years they stay there by choice not by need. If you don't descend into this petty neediness she will try her full range of controlling, demeaning and authoritative behavior to try and get you to conform to her neediness.

Understanding the insecurity signs is one thing, dealing with an insure woman is another thing all together. It is easy to throw your hands up and say it's too hard and not your fault. Yet it is better to be proactive and try and make the best of the situation for yourself. I recommend the "Dealing With Difficult People" pack as a way to handle insecure women.


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some of these define me.

I'm JEALOUS, and want my man to need me and i need him!!!

i dont make my husband feel guilty though, thank god. 🙂 I know that's bad, and that's not my character.

I am definitely not interested in validation though. thats not me.

but i like reinforcement in subtle ways from my husband. I love giving him reinforcement but he has buttloads of it alone, but i like that he gives me the reinforcement in small ways.

i like this Guy's version, it's kind of funny. 😄

ok, this part:

She Makes You Feel Guilty

If your woman has ever made you feel guilty for spending time with anyone other than her then she has an insecurity problem. Because she has low self esteem and invests herself far too heavily in the relationship she cannot handle the fact that you are deriving any sort of pleasure from anyone other than her.

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while i dont like to make my man feel guilty. I believe that part bolded is because, something in the relationship is wrong.

you shouldn't have to TELL or NAG or make anyone feel guilty, but if your man is spending more time with other people than you, then there IS a problem. YOu don't have to say anything. but there is definitely a LACK.

it is alot deeper than that, so if there are problems in the relatinship, then obviously, he should take pleasure in YOUR company than most people.

the article sounds pretty much on point to me

Bullshit nothing wrong with 2 people needing each other and telling each other they love each other

it sounds like, the article suggests not to be involved in HEAVY relationships.

i mean, yeah be careful. but. oh well. whatever.

All women have a bit of insecurity, it's what makes us human females. Anyone who says they aren't insecure, are fooling themselves. As it said in the article, it's emotional.

A woman has to handle her emotions better, be it to attach from them, or logically rationalize a situation.

"Hey he checked out her ass, GRRRR! But it is a nice ass. How could he not have glanced?"



(Never said I blocked you, just talk to me in a normal manner.)

Posted by pennystealing123
All women have a bit of insecurity, it's what makes us human females. Anyone who says they aren't insecure, are fooling themselves. As it said in the article, it's emotional.

A woman has to handle her emotions better, be it to attach from them, or logically rationalize a situation.

"Hey he checked out her ass, GRRRR! But it is a nice ass. How could he not have glanced?"



(Never said I blocked you, just talk to me in a normal manner.)

normal manner?

you mean be proper?

listen, i just got bad vibes from you when you were complaining about some aqua guy who you gave 20 bucks for, and you know he's got lots of jobs and suffering due to his family problems. So, i got some bad vibes from you because of that. You complain way too much over 20 dollars, when this guy isn't rich at all. And you have plenty of money.

if you are complaining about money all the time, then go find a RICH MAN. not a man who is struggling then expect us to agree with you. Because i just don't.

thanks, humbleknight 🙂