Aries & VirGO??

I've been casually dating a Virgo for quite sometime... And I wouldn't have ever thought I'd like him so much, lol. Usually I find Virgos rather boring.. sry 😭.

BUT THIS VIRGO!!!
He knows everything I'm about to say or I'm thinking about...
Aries females.. OR *this one* loves uncomplicated relationships..
Just two people that make each other happy... MR. Virgo respects my space... Knows when I might have taken something he has said negatively... And immediately apologizes. I tend to hold things in... And he helps me to voice what I'm feeling. He doesn't argue with me... He talks to me like I'm his baby (I'm trying to say gently...). He worries a lot and I try to help him understand that the future is inevitable... So just do what you know is right.

We aren't *TOGETHER* and I'm sure he is talking to other people... But he has this spell over me... Usually I would never accept these circumstances... LOL... Childish, dumb aries girl,,, =/... We just shared our first kiss and it's been eight months... I want a deeper relationship with him... But he told me he isn't ready and he has to make some changes in his life..

I really enjoy this Virgo male... He is perfect-0. But obliviously slow in progress.. lol... I'm not sure if this is an aries trait.. But I told him he needs to make moves, because when I'm interested in someone I see no one else... And I'd hate to give someone else attention, only to move on... Am I wrong?

aries & virGO = a big no-no

lol

when did i ever say that? that doesn't sound like something i'd say.

The other day I bumped into my aries ex, what was supposed to be just a casual "catch up chat" turned into dinner together (I guess the fact that my girlfriend is on a trip abroad isnt that bad after all lol!) we didnt kiss or anything though but there were those really akward moments, Im glad I didnt do anything wrong because I love my Virgirl but Im afraid I still have feelings for that aries and she even suggested to get together again..and I know its wrong but I feel tempted, as much as I like the Virgirl, I love the fun I had with the aries, I miss her unpredictable ways, but of course I know things wouldnt last long (like they didnt when we were dating) if we get together again, help! Im kind of confused

Oh dear, don't do it Shaka 😢 That type of behavior isn't part of your nature. You just miss the fun you use to have with your Ex-Aries. Honestly, at least from what I've seen in 'real life' Aries/Virgo relationships do not hold up well for the long-term. It's kind of like the capricorn/cancer combination -- it's only good during high times, but once the energy levels drop slightly below 99% , all sort of problems will arise.

I'm not saying this is a bad combination, and as far as just being human, I'm not saying that you shouldn't still have feelings for her ... BUT you two broke up for a reason my dear 🙂 If it's only been six months ago, then things probably haven't changed that much. You will just be walking back to old vomit and no one once to do that 😉

Stick with your virgo girl, if things don't work out there, move on to someone new, not someone you already have history with.

""everytime a thread such as this comes up, you are quick to jump in the middle of it, and say how much Virgos is incompatible with whatever sign. ""

ummm, not really. i doubt you could provide any evidence of that. if i ever said anyone was going to rot and die alone, it was probably directed at you, and you alone. just because you happen to be a virgo doesn't mean my comments toward you reflect those with whom you share a birth month.


::tips hat::

nice try though.



loser.

ok.

Evan_Kanh said: "I suppose the fact that things with Virgirl are very stable (something that never ceases to surprise me..) Im starting to miss the explosive factor of the relationship I had with the Aries, but believe me, its hard not to fall into temptation, all I have to do is look into her eyes and I'll find myself in a vortex of doubt and nostalgia "

I am having this same fight within myself Evan. I found someone I can be stable with and I am not use to being stable because I am use to opposing my men regarding their feelings for me. But, I'm no fool either, so I am staying put, no matter how may Scorps (ex or potentials) come my way. How I do love the Scorps but I love being happy more. Hang in there Evan, don't rob yourself because you're on the right path. 🙂

Im afraid I have no arguments to refute your thinking in any way, and why would I? it just makes perfect sense..
I suppose the fact that things with Virgirl are very stable (something that never ceases to surprise me..) Im starting to miss the explosive factor of the relationship I had with the Aries, but believe me, its hard not to fall into temptation, all I have to do is look into her eyes and I'll find myself in a vortex of doubt and nostalgia LOL! in the larger scheme of things, stability does reward more than unpredictability and a false sense of excitement, being happy with what I have..have to work at that

YAY!!! You are "thinking" now 😉

HAHAHAHA!!!!! Yes Miss Strings, I make a ton a typos 😛 You should see some of my longer writings. LOL, those are terrible LOL!!!