Express Yourself

This is a continuation of Crudemood's thread: Damn Push and Pull

In that thread, shyness was mentioned as a reason why Virgo men tend to pull you close and then push you away.

Yes, I've been around Virgo guys, but I never understood this logic. A Virgo ex did the same thing to me, I was pulled really close then pushed away drastically ? I was told that he cared about me very much, but yet he became distant ? maybe it's because we were both young.

However, I'm afraid this (may) happen again with another Virgo male interest. I've known him for three years, and he's always been shy ? I guess that's why we haven't spoken much until recently. He drops hints and talks in ?codes? about how he feels about me; he has even enlisted a friend to help him. However, he seems to have a problem expressing himself.

Is shyness really that enabling to Virgo males? I thought Cancer men had this sort of problem ? but I guess I'm wrong.

If Virgo men can be so bold in other areas of their lives, why is shyness such a factor in their lovelifes?

Hmmm, now I understand why it's hard for caps and virgo to connect at an emotional level. LOL, no wonder when they do connect, it scares the virgo to death.

I was young when I was in my last 'real' relationship with a Virgo, so I really didn't pay attention to that stuff -- plus, that was no DXP either 😉

branh0913 I completely agree with you when it comes to love we can never truely give someone our all because that means we might lose control. Virgos cant handle not having control and being able to predict an outcome.

One thing i dont understand about virgos and caps is why when we see someone were intrested we tend to act like assholes. I dont know what is it when my crush comes over sometimes i'm so mean to her i dont mean to be but i really do come off as being an asshole. I miss her dearly and when she comes around i act like a little kid. I usually stop this behavior after a while when i get warm to her but i hate that i do that to her, and i know she HATES when i act like that.

what is a marker? In personal relationships?

Please describe. Sometimes I do not seem to know all of these definitions.

Its becox Virgos would rather be single that commit to formal relationships > this is what I suspect.

Virgos prabably have a paranoia about permanent commitment.

what is a marker? In personal relationships?

u cant cuss on dxp so marker means a-hole the site changes any cuss word. I.e mf = treetrunk. it just slipped my mind and i should have shorten the cuss word.

The title of this thread reminded me of a song by Charles Wright and the 103rd Street Band. Made me chuckle, lol.