Virgo/Leo Drama

I talked about this a little while ago on the scorp board asking their advice on what they would do, my play cousin/good friend she is a leo and she is dating a virgo, they have been dating since like Nov 2009 and it's not serious yet(confuse) they have been on and off several times and at the begining of this relationship the virgo tried to talk to my Cousin who is an Cappy. The Cappy told my sister about it knowing I might tell the leo since we are close but I haven't said anything I don't want to get in the middle of this mess and the cappy she dates like a different man every couples of months so I knew she didn't like the virgo but the leo she is in love and crazy about the virgo. The Cappy told my sister if I was the leo I wouldn't put my all into the virgo he is just dealing with her to have something to do but he is not at all serious about her and now I am starting to believe the cappy it is so evident in how he is treating the leo. I am going to break down the relationship and can you Virgo give me your take on it, like I said they meet in Nov 2009 and they went to highschool together so they were familiar with each other so that Nov he ask her to go to Vegas and they did and had a good time then when they got back he said he had a live in girlfriend (Who the cappy said didn't exist he just said that so the leo wouldn't get serious). The leo was upset but she still continue to see him then he said he broke up with the girl and they continue to talk and every so oftern during these times they would get into it because she said it would be times he would go days without calling her and his attitude was bad sometimes so he took her to L.A in august for her birthday he went on a cruise with my sister, me and her and on the cruise to mexico I promise they fought the whole time and she said they didn't have sex not one night(that's crazy). then this past nov she went with him to Vegas again so they are always doing things together even though from what I witness they don't get along on trips and the last thing that happen two weeks ago is she check his phone and he was telling some girl he would come give her a hug and they got into it and he said that he needed some space. I hope I cover all the details but what do the virgos guys think of his attitude is he just playing her? or virgo ladies what do you think also.

Posted by 25thDecan
Nothing. They both are immature for all the arguing. Seems like a volatile relationship for them both. Why take her out of town to argue with her? Why argue with someone who just took you out of town and spent an arm and a leg? They should stay together.....so no one else has to run into either of them....

LOL, IKR........

It's crazy and like I said I witness it first hand how can you be in mexico with somebody and just fight and argue that ish is crazy. Decan would you constanly invite someone on vacation with you if you didn't have some type of feeling? I think he is confuse or he just want to have his cake and eat it too......

A leo and virgo relationship is going to be crazy any way that you slice it. Virgos are not very good at displaying emotions. Leos need constant attention and adoration. If the virgo guy is not aware of what a leo needs then she will feel unfulfilled. Let me tell you, that leo friend of yours is probably getting on the virgos nerves. She is checking his phone and raising hell. Virgos do not like it when someone is helplessly pursuing them. It makes them feel like the one pursuing them is desperate, making it look as though she can't get another man except him. The arguing and stuff, that is what is making him not call for a few days. That is a bad sign. If a virgo is really into a person, they will call them more often than not. The key is for her to take care of herself first and foremost. She needs to appear more confident. If he asks what she's been doing for the past couple of days, she shouldn't say that she hasn't been doing anything. She needs to make her life seem more interesting than it is and when he asks her out, don't always say yes. He needs to feel like he is missing something and that he isn't the only thing going on in her life. That will be a dose of reality for his a $ $ .

Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
That will be a dose of reality for his a $ $ .

LOL

Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
A leo and virgo relationship is going to be crazy any way that you slice it. Virgos are not very good at displaying emotions. Leos need constant attention and adoration. If the virgo guy is not aware of what a leo needs then she will feel unfulfilled. Let me tell you, that leo friend of yours is probably getting on the virgos nerves.

I'm Virgo female just got out of relationship w/ Leo male and this is so true! I found him draining and a bit of a drama queen. Pouty or put on a display of sorts when his feelings would get hurt - which was frequently & I wouldnt even know what I'd said or done. It was way too much work and not "natural" at all. We were SO DIFFERENT! And yes, he even got mad at me for not responding to tragic events in a sufficiently emotional way.

Crazy indeed. However, I've noticed our differences spark enough conflict to keep me from getting bored, which is good. Ahh, I love my lioness.

Well I talk to her the other day and she didn't say anything about him but I heard from another cousin that the leo went to St. Louis for the weekend with the virgo so I assume it's all good now or for now. Like everyone has said with this pairing it's difficult a constant struggle which it what I see with this couple.