This is my very first post, so patience please 🙂 I've been dating a Virgo for some time now. But have noticed a pattern of the 'little white lies' and for the most part, they are little white lies of nothingness...lies about nothing really...stupid things...I am confused as to why my Virg does this...is this a familiar trait in Virgo's? Should I worry? Does this mean Virg's litle white lies 'may' turn into full out lies? Can my Virgo be trusted?
When I call him on it, he gets angry (has some demons & major anger issues already), and he shuts down - goes silent. How do I deal with an 'angry' Virgo?
Hey Virg_goki, thanks so much for your input! I am not put off at all, but appreciate your honesty and you are so right - we may all be guilty of it. I guess I was pulling thoughts from my past experiences and bringing forth negative limiting thoughts thinking that the little white lies will ge worse & the lies bigger...so thank you for the clarification.
I will take it as it is then & just leave it alone. Since you are a 23 year old male, and my Virg is 25 yrs old, I'm sure you know better! Thanks again!
Human beings lie. it's one of our skills. so no, this is not a trait specific to virgos.
yes, the lie could turn into a full out lie but since you are so good at catching him with the little ones, i dont think he will be conscious..
i will like to point out that Virgos do have problems with being corrected (maybe because it highlights an imperfection). my advise is to correct him lightly, in a jokingly manner.being caught and called a liar is a difficult thing to get over especially if it is from a lover.
Very well said! Human nature for sure. Totally agree that he is conscious & aware that I may find out... 🙂 Thank you for the insight on Virgo's having problems being corrected...I WILL keep that in mind. ...but wow, it all makes sense to me now!! - as my approach most times is very direct and I'm sure he takes offence and then gets his back-up, get angry...hence the shutting me out, silent treatment etc...WOW!! Totally makes sense now!
Well, I know you are gettign a bunch of human being lie, let me tell you from a Virgal we are perfectionist and critisize ourselves horribly and we NEVER want someone to see us being unperfect so that may be the reason for the little lies. I don't think it means he will tell big ones I think he is just trying to make sure he looks perfect to you. He probably gets mad because when you catch him in a lie, he is being seen as unperfect.
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nothing really...stupid things...I am confused as to why my Virg does this...is this a familiar trait in Virgo's?
Should I worry? Does this mean Virg's litle white lies 'may' turn into full out lies? Can my Virgo be trusted?
When I call him on it, he gets angry (has some demons & major anger issues already), and he shuts down - goes silent.
How do I deal with an 'angry' Virgo?
Please Help!! 😢