Texting Capricorn Woman, Not sure if she's interested HELP! #wlw

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Hey guys! So quick info to start off I'm a 21-year-old CANCER woman. I am a college student, and since I'm graduating next semester I have been putting myself out there more. YIKES! I've decided that I am ready for a relationship and I'm looking for the one (and I like to take things sloooow).

I've been using the dating app HER for a few months. I hate it though, I'd rather text people personally. I matched with a Cap woman (SHE LIKED ME FIRST) who's a year younger than me. We matched last month but she never messaged me, and I'm pretty shy and most likely won't make the first move. I had other girls messaging me at the time and I got into it with another girl but I quickly realized that we lacked a lot of similarities, so we remained friends but nothing more.

*(This is where it starts with the Cap) So two weeks ago I messaged the Cap woman and she messaged me back two days later, which is normal I know Capricorns aren't really on their phones often. And I'll admit it sometimes you forget to check dating apps, it's common. We were texting back and forth for a few days and she'd take longer to answer but her responses kept the conversation going. On Saturday was the last time we spoke and she hasn't answered my text. I am just curious on how I should approach texting her again. I want to start a new conversation and I want her to feel compelled to answer. I also want to get her number since I think we will have a better chance of talking on the phone instead of through an app, which she barely uses. BUT I also don't want to seem too desperate and like I'm moving fast. I honestly just want to get to know her better because we have things in common. I want her to notice that I like her and I want her to potentially give me a chance. How can I approach a new conversation without scaring away the Cap woman?

**Also we live in different states like 50 miles apart. Do you think long distance would be a problem for a Cap woman? I would drive the distance to see her, for me its no problem.

*Please leave me any tips for texting a Cap woman! Leave some DO's & DONT'S!!! If you're a Cap woman or know Cap womens let me know what interests you in a person! I just really see something so great in her and I think she would be an amazing person to have in my life.
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Posted by -Damous

50 miles isn’t too bad. A cap woman I dated and I lived 250 apart. Granted I was in a great position to see her a lot. They’ll make the effort for you if they feel you’re worth it/it’s a good time.

I ain’t read your whole post 😂😂


HAHAHAHA yea I tend to write a lot.. sorry! But ok that makes me feel a lot better because I'm worried that she won't want to do the distance, even if it is less than a two-hour drive.
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Caps women do not get scared away unless you become demanding or sexual too soon.

So wanting to get her number is not a big deal...

DO:

- talk about your passions

- your family

- show your interest in her

DON'T:

- be demanding with asking for communication back

-get sexual too fast (without developing some real emotional intimacy first)

I can't think of anything else for now...
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I suck at texting people back no matter if I’ve known them forever, or just met them. I think a lot of Capricorn’s have that same issue sadly :/ so try not to take it too personally!

If you like them and start getting the conversation going again, maybe try calling them. They’ll probably be incredibly nervous and awkward, but if they like you they’ll start to warm up a bit. I always prefer a phone call to texting.