2 Aquas? BAD MOVE!

Don't get me wrong, I LOVEEEEE Aquarians! Hell, I AM one. BUT, I don't see alot of Aqua-Aqua relationships going very smoothly, especially in the beginning! Friendship-wise, 2 Aquas can make their friendship last forever, BUT relationship wise? Ha!

While Aquas tend to look for those who "tick" similar to how they do, it's NOT necessarily a good thing to date your twin!

(Examples):
1. If BOTH Aquas live by the "YOU go 1st" creed, then who goes 1st? If 2 people who are both too prideful to make the 1st move, start dating there will be a LONNNNNG PAUSE/WAIT!

2. If BOTH Aquas are slow to commitment, it's NO WONDER the Aquas that are with other Aquas were usually friends for a longggggggggggggggggggggggg time before they made their relationship official. 2 insecure/detached Aquas might naturally understand why the other person is the way they are (game recognize game), BUT things being this way can def. RUIN a relationship OR atleast make it very rocky.

3. If BOTH Aquas expect for the other person to reveal their feelings & to be open up front, what happens when 2 Aquas start loving 1 another? Aquas may not like to go 1st or be open with their emotions up front, BUT we ALSO expect/want the other person to know how to. So it's kind of a BAD thing when 2 people who are TOO Much alike in CERTAIN areas, get together!

2 Aquas together are BOTH stubborn! They BOTH have a lot of pride. They BOTH analyze everything too death! They BOTH are slow to reveal/open up about their emotions! They BOTH like to test others but yet hate being tested! They BOTH can't take criticism! They BOTH prefer long-term friendships, but yet still want someone who will bring them to a comfort for an actual commitment.

They BOTH are ALOT alike in alot of BAD ways! It's 1 thing to like the same music or foods. BUT it's another thing when 2 people both share the SAME FLAWS in common! That's why Aquas normally last longer with those who are DIFFERENT than they are. Yes, we HOPE that other person understands how we "tick" BUT that doesn't mean that we want someone else to be EXACTLY like we are! Hell, we need someone whose diff/ b/c it allows us to piggyback off of the qualities in them that WE DON'T have.

When it comes to areas of communication, fighting/arguments, flaws, & expectations/intentions, this is where 2 people who are EXACTLY alike can clash!

2 Aquas together in the beginning is often a relationship that is VERY ROCKY & filled with lots of confusion!

1. We don't think anything of it when we ignore others or when we get into our little "moods" where we feel like isolating ourselves from others. BUT, we can't take/handle it when others do this to us!

2. We like being the 1 that is the most different/odd. We like being the 1 to stand out & intrigue others simply b/c we're different! Welp, although we may feel a STRONGER/BETTER connection with another Aqua b/c we are both intellectually compatible, this can also be annoying b/c it takes away each Aqua's chance at feeling they can intrigue or impress the other person.

3. We want the OTHER person to go 1st, when it comes to revealing feelings & sharing the past. It's very annoying to date someone who thinks the SAME & is waiting on ME to go 1st when hell, I'm waiting on THEM to go 1st!

4. Although it's awesome to have a connection with another Aqua b/c we BOTH automatically/naturally understand how the other "ticks," it's often ANNOYING when the other person is hip to all of our mindgames & analyzing! Aquas kind of LIKE the fact that others can't figure them out! 2 Aquas together can ALWAYS see straight through eachother & even though this is not necessarily a BAD thing, it can also be frustrating for each Aqua, who sort of thrives off of concealing the tricks they use to get what they want out of the other person.

5. While we love other Aquas who can hold a deep & long-lasting coversation with us, it's also kind of ANNOYING to be with someone who talks JUST AS MUCH as you do!

6. An Aqua whose been hurt or who feels confused might detach or distance themselves, BUT we hate for others to do this to us. Welp, 2 Aquas who are fighting/going through a rough patch, might BOTH be at home, waiting on the other person to apologize or come back. This can be a problem in the communication department. It's NEVER a good thing when BOTH people shut down. There should ALWAYS be the 1 person whose willing to put their pride down, step up & be the bigger person!

2 Aquas together? HA! Sure, once the relationship has finally taken off, it will last for a LONNNNNG time but oh boy, in the beginning, it can be VERY rocky!

Posted by zerox

You will face the same block if not more from other signs . Nobody is here to cater to aqua whims and fancies . you talk as if other signs will put up with all this ego/game playin behavior .
maybe pisces or something but not fiexd and most cardinals .

First off, I NOT once implied that ANYONE should put up with anything Aquas do. This isn't a conversation about what another person should put up with. Hell, there are flaws in EVERY sign, so technically we'd all be SINGLE if that's what it were about. Whereas I might consider certain things about us a good thing OR tolerable thing, others might see it as a bad thing. To you, you may see our differences as something you're not willing to accept & that's fine. BUT to others, they may not see it like that!

Aquas actually hold VERY STRONG & long-lasting friendships with other mixed signs b/c they all have alot in common. We are taught to accept our friends, flaws & all, BUT when it comes to relationships, we are taught to only accept CERTAIN things. Plus, there's a different STANDARD/EXPECTATION that people hold their friends to vs. those they actually want to be in a relationship with.

Whereas I don't mind a stubborn best friend, I might not be able to handle a HUSBAND that is too stubborn. Whereas I don't mind my Aqua friend disappearing for 2 weeks at a time, that'd be a PROBLEM if my Aqua BOYFRIEND disappeared for 2 weeks w/o communicating with me!

Posted by zerox
um why should others go first ? Is it because you are a treetrunking coward ? your wittle heart needs more protection than others feeling ? or because you think you are better than others ? stupid woman .

Wow, how old are we again? It's quite TACKY to do the name calling over the internet. If you ask me, anyone who resorts to name calling behind a computer screen is the COWARD!

An Aqua PREFERRING the other person to go 1st is no different than some women OR men who prefer to be chased 1st. What, are all the women who PREFER for the man to make the 1st move, cowards? NO. That's just how it is. The woman who very well expects the man to chase her could very well have more & BIGGER balls than he does. The same goes for Aquas. The Aqua who prefers for the other person to go 1st could very well be more emotionally SECURE & confident than the person who does go 1st.

@Zerox: You've got it all wrong. The point was that certain similarities in certain areas can cause a CLASH moreso than bond 2 people closer together! That's the dynmaic PERIOD of how alot of relationships work. I was just using Aquarians as a specific example.

The same would go for any other sign! Aries likes to be the dominant & aggressive one. It doesn't mean that this about them makes them insecure or afraid of any competition.

Same with Cancers. They live strictly through their emotions. Them dating someone who is the EXACT same way could cause a clash. A Cancer might not realize how annoying certain traits can be until they end up with someone exactly LIKE them.

Virgos prefer to be the more observant & criticizing one. They may not necessarily admire in the same way their partner IF their partner is the exact same way.

The same goes for masculinity vs. femininity. 2 masculine people together might clash simply b/c they're BOTH the same way. & vice versa.

Posted by zerox
lol what does age have to do with it ? And its not name calling as much as an observation from the ay you talk . you make aquas sound like gods who won't open up first . Also you say things like you can ignore others but others can't ignore you ?!


Aquas are cowards . you are co ruled by saturn who rules insecurity and fear . YOu are deathly SCARED of getting hurt and that;s why you are so detached to stop this HURT . I know very well about cowards like you .

There are def. some insecure Aquarians just like there are insecure people of ANY sign. NOT all Aquarians are insecure simply b/c they're Aquarians. Hell you might have a penis but I'm sure I've met WOMEN with BIGGER BALLS than you!

There are plenty of people who actually prefer to go 1st who end up just as afraid of rejection & hurt! There are people who go 1st even if they aren't sure that they should. There are people who jump head 1st into things with all the faith in the WORLD! That doesn't mean that going 1st is always the BEST option.

There's nothing wrong with fearing certain things as long as the fear doesn't overly consume you. The people who fear being taken advantage of aren't cowards simply b/c they won't give all their money to the 1st person asking! Hell, they're SMART for being careful. I'd rather be a coward & yet still have my heart than be desperate, all in the sake of proving that I'm NOT a coward & end up broke!

It's no secret that alot of the people who jump HEAD-FIRST into situations realize doing so backfired on them. The very SAME people who prefer to go FIRST can end up just as insecure, cowardly, etc as the person who didn't make a move at all.

Hell, only ONE person can go 1st. With that being said, there's always going to be the cat & there's always got to be the mouse. It's NOT even that Aquas REFUSE to go 1st. It's just that we PREFER for the other person to go 1st. And if the other person doesn't, it's not like we'll just sit back & risk losing a good thing. Aquas, like most people in GENERAL will do what they have to do!

If I as an Aqua end up with someone who prefers to go 1st before I do, then I won't necessarily STOP that person from going 1st. If they prefer to speak up on Monday, that's fine! That doesn't make me a coward or any less of a content human being all b/c I preferred to speak up on Tuesday! That'd be a dumb move. I actually don't mind going 1st so your argument about ALL Aquarians being insecure cowards is VOID right now. Me NOT being this way just proved you wrong & shows you that NOT ALL Aquarians are the same way.

Posted by ScorpioDreamer
Damn....there goes my dreams of wanting to hear it first.

AHAHAHAHAHAHA!

If you weren't being funny, I apologise, but ma-han that was hilarious.

You know when you can actually hear the person say it as you read? Yeah - so funny.

Aquas OWN all the other signs, especially leos like zerox 😉

Now jump through this firey hoop you beast! King of the jungle my ass (all jokes, mate - hail leos)

Aquas are the best at everything!!! sucks for the other men of the zodiac!!! Get OVER it!!! LOL And Aquas are not cowards! My Aqua told me he was madly in love with me after 1 month! That was very brave of him. I'm an Aries and I would NEVER tell a man i wanted him 1st! I am fearless but, I am a woman and would NEVER chase a man!! Unless it was Johnny Depp!!!!! Yummy!