A Cappy and her sexy Aqua problem!

Hey guys,

New here. I'm capricorn, interested in an aquarius man. I think we would be terribly mismatched as a couple, but I find him so sexy. He was interested when we first met and pursued me relentlessly, and I succumbed to him so much so I let him to come to bed with me - three times. The sex was explosive and new, each time! Unfortunately now, I think he feels he's done figuring me out and has decided to flit away for adventures anew. I'm aware that the introverted cappy personality may not be as interesting to an aqua, and I would accept if he told me in my face he's not interested anymore, but he hasn't, although it shows.

Any suggestions on how I can renew his interest in me? I'm not particularly interested in a long lasting relationship and marriage, but I'd like to be buddies, and the occasional sex wouldn't hurt. 😉

Rule #1: RESPECT yourself girl. You deserve to have a man because you are a beautiful mysterious creature that no man can ever fully understand. No your quirks, respect yourself for them, and be happy just being you.

Then if you are interested in this guy still after you can face yourself in the mirror and say "I'm beautiful, smart, sexy and I deserve to be in love with a man whose XYZ" (XYZ to me is intelligent, available and attractive to me.) And your own skin makes you smile just because you are you, then you can communicate to him that he was beeping the best thing in his life and he'd be stupid to walk away.

You need to have to believe in yourself first! And your post makes me wonder if you do. You deserve the fairy tale, so why settle for what a man will dole out?!?

know your quirks... I had one to many long island iced teas last night and I never drink.

How the fuck did you manage to misspell your username?

"The Aquarius is intrigued by the Capricorn and, in return, so is The Capricorn."

I can vouch for that as I'm dating a difficult, introverted, but sweet Capricorn man.

yes, i agree that having sex with an aqua man too quickly is a NO, NO!!!
it's funny though b/c the aqua girls that i know seem to give it up pretty quickly, without thinking twice. in fact, my one aqua girlfriend had sex with her bf on their second date and they are still together, in fact they are happily engaged now. so, it is different for everyone i guess...but aqua men need a challenge. and they will have no respect for a woman that gives it up that easily...

"they will have no respect for a woman that gives it up that easily..."

I don't know about this. I am not dating an aqua man. But I am an aqua female, and I know that I don't put respect in the bedroom or the playful in the moment stuff. Respect is something that is earned in being true to yourself and knowing who you are and sharing it with a friend, potential lover, etc.

I know that this sounds corny but you know the hillary duff movie with Heather Locklear. SOmeone says 'love is like friendship on fire.' I think that this expression says alot and is kind of true.

I do not preach free love at all or any hippie expression. I'm the most conservative liberal there is. But sex is not the end of the world if it happens. In the moment is in the moment and how you act before and after that is where the character is. I can't see a man holding it against a girl.

But I can see a guy moving onto greener pastures if the girl is so easy to conquer. Where's the fun then?

Hey guys!

Thanks for your thoughts. Yeah in hindsight I guess I gave it up too easily. Won't bore u with excuses. Long story.

Anyway, my quarry and I had a chat last night (he called after I sent him a sexy text - aquarians love this I think) and as we were chatting and re-establishing communication after a while of disinterest on his part, I said that "I think we'd make a crap couple" and I wanted to remain friends. I sensed a sigh of relief. I discovered that his disengagement was because he felt that I was developing feelings for him (partly true), but I think I put him at ease when I said that and he says that he too wanted to remain friends (so typical aquarius, right?!). In spite of this, he was eager to do dirty talk. I played along for a while but cut it short. I think it was too much, too soon.

I am bound to see him again (we have mutual friends). This new "friendship" tag on our relationship gives us both comfortable space between each other I think, and a platform upon which I can perhaps reignite an interest. I must remind myself to keep my capricorn cool, but at the same time surprise him with my intellect somehow. And slide away when he makes a physical move, to compound his intrigue.

Reading your replies has made me re-examine this 'thing' I have for him. I think I want the challenge of seducing him. Having said this, I don't intend to lead him him on. I am genuinely interested in this guy, but I would like to at least give ourselves a chance to get to know each other, in a non-sexual context, if possible. He's a prick for doing what he did. I was a slut for doing what I did. But who knows where this may lead?

"I was a slut for doing what I did. "

No, you're human.