I need advice. I'm a scorpio female and I know scorpios and aquarius don't go together but I'm pretty much in love with 2 aquarius men- one born feb 1, the other feb 7. According to Gary Goldschneider, I am in the week of depth, and these guys are in the week of youth and ease. I have a little bit of aquarius in my chart (very little) and I can understand the friendship first approach and the need for independence/space. I really do understand it and love it. I love aquarians for so many reasons. However, I am tortured. My controlling side needs them to feel for me the way I feel for them. I know I can never own an aquarius and I give as much freedom as they want. It sucks cuz we'll have some intense conversations together, followed by them disappearing or seeming less interested.
The worst part is, I see the one BORN ON FEB 7 at least once or twice a week at work. We've never hooked up and we're trying to keep it on a friendship level, but we both know it feels like more than that. We have these intense philosophical conversations about life that he starts when I'm trying to be professional and talk about work. And the vibration and eye contact is intense as well as the tone of voice. Sometimes, I really feel like we're ready to make out. But every time I act interested in him as well, he backs off. So I back off, then he becomes interested again.
Main question: Should I just permanently act uninterested? I don't know with you aquarians! When do I cave in? Because I know you'll just leave, I don't know when or if its ever safe to act intimate. If me and this guy (feb 7) ever end up hooking up, which we might not, then...how do I act afterwards? the same? more physical? more friendly? confused.
oh, I'm so sorry to hear that 69 virgo! That was definitely not the answer I was expecting, but hey, if that were to happen (which I'm open and hopeful, but more doubtful) then that would be so amazing! Thank you for your insight 🙂
Do the Feb 1st guy a favour and don't act interested in him because clearly you're more interested in Feb 7th, so it's not fair to treat the Feb 1st guy as if you care when your heart/eyes are elsewhere.
If feb 7th doesn't want you - it's a risk you took, but for the love of God, stop playing one off against the other, neither will appreciate it and neither would you if it were being done to you.
Astrology aside, it's a shitty thing to do to play one off against the other.
Act uninterested...I've been in a few relationships with aquarius men and my current bf is an aquarius and believe me they love it when you act like you're not all that into them...they migmight not ever admit up to It but they do...they love a mystery...
Act uninterested...I've been in a few relationships with aquarius men and my current bf is an aquarius and believe me they love it when you act like you're not all that into them...they migmight not ever admit up to It but they do...they love a mystery...
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The worst part is, I see the one BORN ON FEB 7 at least once or twice a week at work. We've never hooked up and we're trying to keep it on a friendship level, but we both know it feels like more than that. We have these intense philosophical conversations about life that he starts when I'm trying to be professional and talk about work. And the vibration and eye contact is intense as well as the tone of voice. Sometimes, I really feel like we're ready to make out. But every time I act interested in him as well, he backs off. So I back off, then he becomes interested again.
Main question: Should I just permanently act uninterested? I don't know with you aquarians! When do I cave in? Because I know you'll just leave, I don't know when or if its ever safe to act intimate. If me and this guy (feb 7) ever end up hooking up, which we might not, then...how do I act afterwards? the same? more physical? more friendly? confused.