Aqua chick and twitter

Well ive been seeing this aqua girl for about a year now and it seems as if she doesnt care.I hear about this trait alot when it comes to an aquarius girls.Anyway,if we are suppose to meet up or if i initiate a phone call or somethin and she doesnt reply or plans dont go through i just totally ignore her and i never ask for an explanation.i need to know if im doing the right thing or not because when i do this,she tweets all these different guys in my face like shes trying to send a subliminal message.Shes never good with talking about the obvious so i dont bring it up.I would say i go about 3 or 4 days sometimes even a week without saying anything but when im ready to call and talk she would answer and sounds excited to hear from me.I tell her i love her and she tells me back,so could someone tell me if im doing the right thing or let me know if there are some things i need to fix or do?

i also have abuncha different girls i tweet too,so is this like a retaliation thing or a game were playing?Do aqua girls like to snoop or stay on a guys twitter page to see what hes writing or who?

Firstly, during any relationship you will hear from me everyday, I use everything that is available to me. You will certainly see me on a regular basis too. So this whole "not hearing from her in 3/4 days" really baffles me. I see that a lot around here and I'm scratching my head at why people let their partners get away with that behaviour. If a girl did that to me in a relationship then I would be consider ditching her. I just don't understand it at all. When you are in a relationship with someone you have to communicate and you have to do it well. In the modern world there really are no excuses for not doing so. We have too much available to us.

I don't use Twitter but what has she been saying exactly? I agree that none of us can't pass judgement until we've seen the tweets and what the content actually is. It could be harmless after all. But I'm doubtful that it is harmless judging by what you said.

Also, she takes time out to Tweet but she goes quiet on you for many days? You really have to fix the communication because it isn't good enough to go 3/4 days (sometimes a week) without talking.

I agree with all of LittleAquanots post. But the part about talking to your girlfriend is the part that I myself would encourage. Really, she can only give you the answers that you need. And again, it goes back to communication and the importance of it. If you don't communicate then you don't go very far. It really is that simple.

Posted by Aquaguy7
Firstly, during any relationship you will hear from me everyday, I use everything that is available to me. You will certainly see me on a regular basis too. So this whole "not hearing from her in 3/4 days" really baffles me. I see that a lot around here and I'm scratching my head at why people let their partners get away with that behaviour.

Sooooooooooooooo true.

I accepted it for a long time even though it felt SO not right. Soooooo not right.

It seems like a simple equation, doesn't it? If two people like eachother...you'd think they'd want to feel connected. I'm not sure why so many of us overcomplicate such easy stuff.

Sorry...back to the OP.

If you like her...talk to her about how you feel and then just kind of back away and give her time (and space) to think about it. I don't mean walk away and leave her alone...I mean say it and drop it. Revisit it another time, but only when you're in a good place together.