Aqua Male Relationships/Friendships

I have observed the following about Aqua Male Relationships/Friendships:

1. Aqua males have four (4) basic categories of women in their lives:
a. "Platonic Friends"- They have the utmost respect for i.e. a sister or mother figure. No physical attraction but, there is a mental and emotional connection.
b. "Once In A Lifetime Women"- They have a mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional connection to. These are the women whom they pursue or think about pursuing. Sometimes, the Aqua male never quite gets the courage up to pursue this type of woman but, he will lurk around in her life.
c. "Placeholder Women" whom they settle for whilst getting their act together. Aqua males view these women as respectable and presentable enough to be in a relationship with but, there is not a true love connection. Sometimes, they will marry these women at a young age but, it rarely lasts.
d. "Randoms, Personal Assistants, Toxic Exes, and Other Strays"- These women are part of the Aqua males "go-to" harem. The Random woman never questions his disappearances because she doesn't want to upset him. Personal Assistants lavish him with gifts, money, and sex all in the hopes of being promoted to his girlfriend. Toxic Exes are around solely for his amusement and to quench his thirst for Nostalgia. Other Strays are an Aquas charity projects whom he is trying to save from themselves.

My advice to women is to know which role the Aqua has cast you in and decide if it is acceptable to you.

Anyone else have any observations.

Is this really an Aqua thing or male thing I know plenty of guys of other signs that do this.

Posted by WheresWally
^that

But I'm curious ...what's your advice for the other 11 guys?

As for the, be a man an go after the soul mate and stop having all these other women.

Makes perfect sense to Ladies wanting an Aqua guy. I won't defend aquas here because there are some that can't seem to distinguish the difference, I'm guilty of that sometimes too. I think for the most part I know what I want now.

I will say this for me personally there's only two types:

1. Friends - obviously I like what I see in you, if you're my friend I've probably evaluated you but nowadays I really don't waste time with people I don't think can get along with me. Platonic or not I may develop more feelings for you later on or I might not it just depends and it doesn't really matter if you're not that attractive, suffice to say as long as you look after yourself.

2. You're special - something about you that just attracts me to you.

I don't really have placeholder women in my life nor do I string women along nor have toxic exes. I make pretty clean cuts once I realise you have no place in my life and I don't involve people that I can't be with long term not only as a defense but the other person's feelings as well. Probably just my placements.

Sounds like you got led on by an aqua. We tend to take forever to decide if your a freind, love, or nothing. During this period mixed signals can occur. I personally have not gone out to hurt anyone.

Posted by EvilTurtle
Sounds like you got led on by an aqua. We tend to take forever to decide if your a freind, love, or nothing. During this period mixed signals can occur. I personally have not gone out to hurt anyone.

I have never been "led on" by an Aqua man. More like my Aqua Ex disappointed me and no matter how much he begged...I couldn't marry him. However, he taught me a lot about the world some good and some bad. I am happily dating a new Aqua and he is more in my wheelhouse. Anyway, I created this post based on my personal observations to help some of the ladies better understand Aqua men. Also, I have been the sounding board for many women dating (attempting to date 🙂 an Aqua man.

fair enough 🙂 Odd question are you and ex still friendly and how long did the new aqua open up to you. Just curious

Posted by EvilTurtle
fair enough 🙂 Odd question are you and ex still friendly and how long did the new aqua open up to you. Just curious

The Ex and are not friendly per se. We don't contact each other or anything like that. But, we are "cool" with one another.

The new Aqua opened up to me like on our first date. We've been together for 6 months but, we grew up together. We never dated back then, but we had a lot of mutual friends.
We have a lot in common but, we are also very different which keeps things fresh and exciting. I understand his need for space and he respects my individuality.