aqua man ego and pride

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Posted by pinkheart0612
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Yeah, we have a big inflated ego.

I haven't apologized to one of my friend although I know I hurt him once by speaking rudely. Just the ego coming in between, although I feel bad for it. 😉

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how long has it been? Lol
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Been a week. He is acting normal. so I am happy and not bringing it up. 😄

On a serious note, try talking to him and see how he reacts.
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Posted by pinkheart0612
Posted by febaqua
Yeah, we have a big inflated ego.

I haven't apologized to one of my friend although I know I hurt him once by speaking rudely. Just the ego coming in between, although I feel bad for it. 😉

j
how long has it been? Lol
Been a week. He is acting normal. so I am happy and not bringing it up. 😄

On a serious note, try talking to him and see how he reacts.
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I did. I saw him he ignored me. Called..no answer. Texted...no answer smh
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Posted by pinkheart0612
My aqua man said something to make ME mad and knows he made me mad and now he is not talking to me. Lol
I tried to tell him why I'm mad and now he is just ignoring me. Smh
Is this what aqua men do—
He wanted it to be your fault you're not talking. He doesn't want to take responsibility by being the bad guy, so went about it in a cowardly way by making you be the bad guy.
Yeah, messed up thinking, but I've seen aquas do stuff like that in the past. Some can be afraid to rock the boat, so they set it up where other people will rock it instead. That way they get to keep their "good guy" status.
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Posted by pinkheart0612
My aqua man said something to make ME mad and knows he made me mad and now he is not talking to me. Lol
I tried to tell him why I'm mad and now he is just ignoring me. Smh
Is this what aqua men do—
He wanted it to be your fault you're not talking. He doesn't want to take responsibility by being the bad guy, so went about it in a cowardly way by making you be the bad guy.
Yeah, messed up thinking, but I've seen aquas do stuff like that in the past. Some can be afraid to rock the boat, so they set it up where other people will rock it instead. That way they get to keep their "good guy" status.
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Basically what sultrykitty said.
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Posted by pinkheart0612
My aqua man said something to make ME mad and knows he made me mad and now he is not talking to me. Lol
I tried to tell him why I'm mad and now he is just ignoring me. Smh
Is this what aqua men do—
He wanted it to be your fault you're not talking. He doesn't want to take responsibility by being the bad guy, so went about it in a cowardly way by making you be the bad guy.
Yeah, messed up thinking, but I've seen aquas do stuff like that in the past. Some can be afraid to rock the boat, so they set it up where other people will rock it instead. That way they get to keep their "good guy" status.
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I have done this in the past, only to regret my action. Its fine if it is not a close one, but never to a close one, I'll do this again.
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Posted by pinkheart0612
Posted by febaqua
Yeah, we have a big inflated ego.

I haven't apologized to one of my friend although I know I hurt him once by speaking rudely. Just the ego coming in between, although I feel bad for it. 😉

j
how long has it been? Lol
Been a week. He is acting normal. so I am happy and not bringing it up. 😄

On a serious note, try talking to him and see how he reacts.
Love, is that you? lol. J/k. Sounds like my bf. 😄 Sometimes I'm just too tired to argue the silly points so I drop it. But if it's really bad, I can't let it go and we go at it.
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That's what my close friends do, they know me very well that they let it go and things seem normal the next moment. 😛

Normally, when you hit back, it kinda shocks us Aqua men. We can't handle full fledged arguments with our loved ones.