@leo91111
10 Years
My Aqua says I am special and that I am number one!
No.
Aquas are so used to women not putting up with their ways that they expect us to leave. He is trying to 1) prepare himself for the possibility that you might leave, and 2) letting you know that he's ok with that if you ever wanted to.
As charming and as confident as they appear, they are VERY insecure in relationships and need reassurance that their woman isn't going anywhere.
I've been with mine for 24 years, and he still needs to know that I will be there for him.
he sounds adorable- keep him!
5 months?
I feel like he is just talking out of his arse atm. He obviously likes you but 5 months is way too soon (for me at least) to truly know someone.
Then you're special. Congratulations!
Posted by sultrykitty
No.Aquas are so used to women not putting up with their ways that they expect us to leave. He is trying to 1) prepare himself for the possibility that you might leave, and 2) letting you know that he's ok with that if you ever wanted to.
As charming and as confident as they appear, they are VERY insecure in relationships and need reassurance that their woman isn't going anywhere.
I've been with mine for 24 years, and he still needs to know that I will be there for him.
This ^^^
Aqua males tend to be on the slow side, for 5 months is like a speed demon for him, BUT, he could have other placements that makes this possible.
Posted by Flo
Posted by aquasnoz
5 months?I feel like he is just talking out of his arse atm. He obviously likes you but 5 months is way too soon (for me at least) to truly know someone.
It's too soon.
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He could still have other placements. Like Mars in Cancer *cringe* Or Venus in Aries. He could have some Leo.
Posted by Gennie
Posted by Flo
Posted by aquasnoz
5 months?I feel like he is just talking out of his arse atm. He obviously likes you but 5 months is way too soon (for me at least) to truly know someone.
It's too soon.
He could still have other placements. Like Mars in Cancer *cringe* Or Venus in Aries. He could have some Leo.
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I have a moon, venus and mars in pisces and even I don't fall that bloody quickly
Posted by aquasnoz
Posted by Gennie
Posted by Flo
Posted by aquasnoz
5 months?I feel like he is just talking out of his arse atm. He obviously likes you but 5 months is way too soon (for me at least) to truly know someone.
It's too soon.
He could still have other placements. Like Mars in Cancer *cringe* Or Venus in Aries. He could have some Leo.
I have a moon, venus and mars in pisces and even I don't fall that bloody quickly
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Venus in Aqua = falls in love easy, always, all the time, like its the love of their life.
smh.
Posted by Gennie
Posted by aquasnoz
Posted by Gennie
Posted by Flo
Posted by aquasnoz
5 months?I feel like he is just talking out of his arse atm. He obviously likes you but 5 months is way too soon (for me at least) to truly know someone.
It's too soon.
He could still have other placements. Like Mars in Cancer *cringe* Or Venus in Aries. He could have some Leo.
I have a moon, venus and mars in pisces and even I don't fall that bloody quickly
Venus in Aqua = falls in love easy, always, all the time, like its the love of their life.
smh.
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Hmmm. Mine's Venus in Aqua. He says he knew right away but it took him 10 years to utter the actual words with me.
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by Gennie
Posted by aquasnoz
Posted by Gennie
Posted by Flo
Posted by aquasnoz
5 months?I feel like he is just talking out of his arse atm. He obviously likes you but 5 months is way too soon (for me at least) to truly know someone.
It's too soon.
He could still have other placements. Like Mars in Cancer *cringe* Or Venus in Aries. He could have some Leo.
I have a moon, venus and mars in pisces and even I don't fall that bloody quickly
Venus in Aqua = falls in love easy, always, all the time, like its the love of their life.
smh.
Hmmm. Mine's Venus in Aqua. He says he knew right away but it took him 10 years to utter the actual words with me.
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Does your Aqua have earthy or fire placements?
Posted by Gennie
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by Gennie
Posted by aquasnoz
Posted by Gennie
Posted by Flo
Posted by aquasnoz
5 months?I feel like he is just talking out of his arse atm. He obviously likes you but 5 months is way too soon (for me at least) to truly know someone.
It's too soon.
He could still have other placements. Like Mars in Cancer *cringe* Or Venus in Aries. He could have some Leo.
I have a moon, venus and mars in pisces and even I don't fall that bloody quickly
Venus in Aqua = falls in love easy, always, all the time, like its the love of their life.
smh.
Hmmm. Mine's Venus in Aqua. He says he knew right away but it took him 10 years to utter the actual words with me.
Does your Aqua have earthy or fire placements?
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Yeah he does. But according to Pullen hes 49% air.
Taurus moon, Cap mercury, Virgo rising.
Aqua men with earthly placements are slow as dog turds, when its cold out at 7am and you're walking the dog, and you and fido know how its going to end, but he is just taking his sweet jackass time.
Posted by Gennie
Aqua men with earthly placements are slow as dog turds, when its cold out at 7am and you're walking the dog, and you and fido know how its going to end, but he is just taking his sweet jackass time.
LOL, yesssss.
Can be so annoying sometimes! Caused a lot of problems for us. He certainly taught me to find patience from wherever I could get it!😄
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I am a Leo female (26 yrs old). I have been dating my Aquarius man (32 yrs old) for 5 month and we get a long so so so so well. When he talks I understand his thoughts and his feelings. we spend most of our time together and we have common interests and hobbies. He tells me everything about the girls he talks to and I never tried to show jealousy (I was in the beginning but now after understanding him and reading about the aqua male I am fine with that especially that he shares what he tells them with me). He is always asking me for my opinion, tells me about his worries, family issues. We are more like best friends/lovers. He always tell me that my opinion matters for him.
Now the confusing part, he is looking for marriage and he is very comfortable around me, he likes me very much. Sometimes he hints that I will be his wife one day (I never make any comments back or reaction when he hints that) and then he goes and says "you never know who you will end up marrying, fate is a weird matter". Then he goes and tells me, with all the girls I know you are always number one, if you ever need me to stay beside you I will always be here and even if you get married to someone who is not me, I will always be your friend and will always be besides you.
Now, looking at his life situation, he is in debt and have loans to pay back. I can tell you 100% if he was financially free, he would be married by now, he is looking to make a family. but I get confused when he says that I will be the one, I am special and that he will always be besides me and then goes and says "we never know who we are going to marry". I get more confused when he tells me that regardless of all the girls I talk to, you are number one and you are special. Am I number one on the list to hang around and play? is he being a player?
when he makes such comment I feel like he is temporarily interested and will jump on to his new experience later. Not sure if my thinking is right!
what would the aqua male say?