Aquarian spontaneity?

My lover man has called twice the day after a date, begging me to come over and see him *that day*. I've refused him both times because I have a life (daughters) and also because I am usually pretty tired after our adventures.

I also don't expect to be seeing a man every day this early in the relationship, but perhaps the Aquarius guy upends every expectation. Is this usual? I also don't hold with "same day" dates; I expect to make plans, but again, perhaps he's doing his "friendly" thing, seeing me first as a friend and then as a lover.

I certainly understand the need for "going with the flow" -- I'm the same way. He cancelled a date on the same day as well, and I was actually glad as I didn't feel like seeing anyone that day.

Thoughts, anyone? Does he need his spontaneous moments, and is it okay to go along?

Don't worry about it, it's not really a spontaneous moment kind of thing the guy just wants to be around you. He can't help it if he feels that way. Just go along when both of you have the time to be with each other. Be honest with the guy and tell him that you have major responsibilities raising two girls and that you have a life, he'll understand.

Yeah, but what about cancelling a date on the same day? I was actually pre-menstrual so glad to go along with it, but perhaps I should now pull back.....