Aquarius girl/gemini guy?

I have been "dating" a gemini for about 2 months now. We both agreed that we would not see anyone else but we can still do whatever we want (we hang out when we are not busy doing other things)I really like it this way, I usually end things with people when they become too "boyfriend like" but I just don't know what to think with him. When we are together we have such a good time but when we are apart it could be days before we talk again. Should I say anything or let it go. It is like a double edged sword. I want to say things so maybe he will call when he says he will but on the other hand I don't want to because maybe the appeal of the gemini is the fact that he can be so elusive at times? If any suggestions, let me know
katzy

Hello to you Aqua Katzy and welcome 🙂

Me thinks that YOU are the one that must decide what type of relationship that YOU desire. Do you want an "elusive" relationship with someone? ( for all intent and purpose here--an elusive rel. is just that..."friends") or do you want more? Please do not lose yourself Katzy in this friendship and do what you think you should to please him...if you do this, it will not work. This is about YOU and your needs...think about what will work for you and then go from there.

Best wishes to you and your Gemmie pal!

NeVVVVVer trust Gimini. Darl'en Been there done that more than once. got burned more than once. A male point of veiw.
Sorry Freebird ; ] just kind a true. From a AQ point of view.

You can trust me C-B 😉

Hey C-B...nothing to be sorry about my friend! I KNOW what you mean....as I have stated in another post...I was married to a Gem. and he proved to be very untrustworthy. Lies definately do not flow very well with an Aries..that is all it takes for me to end the relationship right there on the spot! If there is no trust...what is there?

Oh...and another thing! I have a male friend who is a Gem. and he is married...he keeps hitting on me telling me that he wants to get together...thinks I am the one for him. Well....already I do not trust him!!!! A relationship with him? Nah, it would be based upon lies...no thanks. This Free-bird will stay free and fly in the no "lie-zone"

Not all gemini males/females are like that, no one of the exact same sign is the same.

I think you've all bumped into the wrong geminis.
Frankly one whould assume that i am not ever close to being a gemini.

But i know what you guys are talking about, i know a gem
girl who used sex to get what she wanted, i personaly never trusted her since day one when i meet her, she had the that manipulative tone to her.

like all sign there are the good one and the bad ones
I've met a lot of egotistical leos while also meeting
smart not egostistical leos.

I guess it depends on whats in his/her chart,. My rissing is in capircorn, so i'm pretty quiet in termes of gemini's go.

If i may ask freebird did you do anything to draw his attention to you— I know several aries girls who drew my attention to them, but i never went the next step.

I'm sorta like that, you have to do something to draw my attention otherwise i whould have no real reason to hit on you.

He may seam elusive, but chances are if you pay close attention he will leave hints and clues.

Welcome to you, Thethirdben! What a cool name..what does it mean? Always fascinates me the names that we choose and why. Hope you don't mind me asking?

I agree totally with you in regards to not everyone being the same within their sign. All of us are different and thankfully so!!! I was just referring to the Gem's that I happened to know. You asked me what I thought I might have done for the Gemini to "hit" on me. Good question...I don't really know - I was just being me. He unfortunately is in an unhappy marriage and of coarse when we are in a situation that no longer serves us, we become depressed, sad, lonely...whatever. I am single and very much satisfied with my decision and my life - I am happy. 🙂 So, he desires to be with me because I make his life happy for those brief moments that we share talking. I have repeatidly suggested that he find happiness within himself and not look for it "outside" in someone else because this type of relationship will not work out. This man is not giving up - so he says. Once an Aries makes up her mind and knows in her heart...she will NOT change her mind.

So there ya have it thethirdben....hope you are well,

Freebird

Freebird, my real name is benjamin III, most people call me ben 3 or something with the number 3 in it.

Like i was saying you must have done something to draw him in.

for example the topic i posted.

"Theres this aqurious girl at my part-time job, she's finishing high school and i'm in my first year of college. She has a boyfriend and all but she
used to tease and flirt with me and of course with other employees.

she stopped when I ignored it and passed it off as typical aquarious behaviour, it drew me to her mentally, but i was never rally drawn to her because i knew she had a bf. As well she flirts and teases with everyone.

But she always tried to make sure that i notced it.

now it seams she does other methods, for example this method which typically works with geminis,
get them to talk. Unfortunitly its working.

I normally ignore her, but
everytime time i ignore her she tries other methods to get my attention.

another example i used to walkin with the typical don't say hi/ don't say bye and pretend she doesn't exisit
the next time i saw her she drew attention to herself.

what is she after friendship??Otherwise leave me alone..LoL.

The last time i saw her i was in my happy mood and i was nice to everyone and i said to her " i probible never should have said this, but in a way i consider you a freind
there"

she then seamed to be paying more attention to me like reading what i was typing on my palm pilot and other things like that.

i've meet other aquarious girls before however this girl is somewhat diffrent."

If you want him to back off try to make it seam like your not worth his time and effort then he will probible back off and think for a minute,

or if you know what he's looking for an you know you don't have what he's looking for go on a date and he will figure out your not what he wants.

My gemini friend was drawn to some libra girl, it went well until they went on a date it ended up with him saying "That not true I didn't say that"

or maybe because your single he thinks your there for the taking.

like that aquarious girl i was talking about she has we bafled and i'm still trying to figure it out.

She has me drawn to her however she has me confused, so i'm stoping here.

Yep, I second that....