Aquarius Man Stalking Scorpio Woman

OK, a few months ago, I told you Aquarians about my Aquarian co-worker whom I developed a serious crush on. At first i wasn't into him but after he gave me a mssage I developed the hots for him. Well, to cut to the chase I ended up giving him oral sex in the bathroom at our workplace(after he begged and pleaded with me to do this.) He was very unemotional and after I finished, I had to ask him for a hug. Anyway, he wants to have sexual intercourse with me but I am put off by him big time. As the days go by I see what an inconsiderate selfish jacjass he is. He expects me to give him his freedom and do what he has to without any interruptions but when I have somethimg to do he expects me todrop everything and tend to his knees. Anyway, he tried to get me to have sex in his jeep for the last few days now. I refused, but the other day he literally chased me through the streets after work and followed me in his jeep. This creeped me out big time and made me feel extremely uncomfortable. I felt like crying. I even asked him if I sleep with you will you be my boyfriend? And ehe said no. He just wants sex from me. When we're at work and in the brak roo, he grabs my crotch or ass. Should i tell the boss what he's doing? How do I deal with this Aquarius man?

First of all, this is not abogus post. Everything I've posted has been the absolute truth. I feel terrible about giving him oral sex in the bathroom, but we women are known to do stupid stuff when it comes to men regardless of zodiac signs. He actually wanted sexual intercourse while we were in the bathroom but he didn't have a conodm so i gave him oral. I felt terrible about doing that, especially the way he acted towards me while I was doing it and afterwards. Just because I did this for him doesn't mean that he can treat me this way. As I stated before, he talks down to me. Mybe he lost respect for me after what I did but he's so hansome. He resembles Dwayne The Rock Johnson and it's hard to resist someone that handsome. But anyway, I am a strong woman. that's why I want nothing to do with hiom. He's the one who won't stop bothering me. He 's asking me for some when I'm in the break room. He's calling me at all hours of the day asking to come over to my place, and literally chasing me through the halls of the ofice building whenm I leave for work. With the way he's acting, you'd think he was a Scorpio or Aries. I thought Aquarians were supposed to be kind hearted and loving? Anyway, is there anyone who can offer me some adxice on how to deal with this Aquarian man.

1. He's treating you this way b/c you gave him the impression that you didn't deserve his respect. You gave this man oral sex w/o barely knowing him. How much respect do you expect for him to have for you? Your actions resembled that of a woman who is "fast" or "easy" & just in case you haven't noticed, men who mess around with women they consider fast/easy don't typically tend to have alot of respect for them.

2. I'm not gonna say that you shouldn't tell your boss. BUT if you're gonna tell, tell the whole story. Understand that you'll be making yourself look just as bad & risk losing your job the same way he would. Had he raped you or forced you to do something you didn't consent for him to do, that'd be 1 thing. But since you encouraged it & consented, don't expect for your boss to necessarily feel you're a victim of any sort.

3. This guy is creepy. I get that some guys naturally want more of the goods whenever it's given to them, but if this dude is literally begging, no offense, but I doubt he's doing so b/c you were just that good. This guy has got some impulse-control problems. This guy is crossing so many boundaries that I've lost count already!

4. He can tell that you only like him on a physical basis, which is why his need for you in return is only on a physical basis. Were you joking when you asked this dude to wife you up & be your boyfriend?! Please tell me you were joking! Even guys who are complete tools aren't crazy enough to wife up a woman he didn't even have to work for. All he had to do was show up & there you were ready to give it all up to him. Can you really blaim him for NOT seeing you as girlfriend material? I mean come on!

5. If you're truly done & feel like reporting him, be done completely. That means no more flirting with him. No more blowjobs in the bathroom (or anywhere). No more giving in to him when you're "in the mood." No more sending him signals that you're 1 to be disrespected or mistreated. No more lusting heavily over this guy.

6.Good looks aint worth a shxt if a man won't respect you. And if you're that shallow that looks alone will make you drop your panties, then atleast go find a hot guy that will ATLEAST treat you with some respect.

7. If you don't want a man to treat you like you're his whxre, STOP being/acting like his whxre.

If you're going to report him, do so because you truly feel harassed. Don't do it because you all of sudden regret doing what you did and now feel like a "ho" (no offense).

In all reality, there's nothing wrong with what you did and no one should judge you for it either. We all have done things (sexual or not) that was impulsive and probably not in our best interest. Just don't try and subconsciously retaliate against him because he's not giving you what you want. He's creeping you out, but yet you asked him for a relationship...this doesn't make sense.

I think you feel creeped out by the way he's treating you based on how YOU feel of your own actions in retrospect. You might feel he's treating you inappropriately because maybe looking back you feel that what you did was something now wrong. But ask yourself that if he said yes to whatever relationship you wanted with him and was also still treating you that way around the office, would you still be mad or "creeped" out?

@Candyapples: Good advice!

I hope the poster didn't take my response to mean that I was judging her. It just drives me crazy when people do the same things & yet expect different results. If she wants to give the man a blow job in the bathroom, that's her business & you're right, no one can judge her for that whether any of us have done the same or not. BUT, it is what it is. If you put yourself out there like a slxt, people will treat you accordingly. Same goes for anything else in life. In other words, don't hate the player, hate the game (the very game that YOU were a willing participant in)