Aquarius/Pisces Cusp Man - Sex or Love?

I am a Gemini woman and, for the most part, match what is said about them. A few differences are there due to life experience. I AM able to commit to the right relationship and am usually very loyal.

Right now I'm in the wrong relationship. It was okay at first, but after awhile the differences between me and my Sagittarius boyfriend became too much for either of us to be truly happy. It won't last much longer but we currently stay together for financial reasons.

About 1 1/2 yrs ago I met (online) an Aquarius/Pisces cusp (Feb 22) and the connection was instant on my side and his. He was/is in an unhappy marriage that will lead to divorce soon. They have split up and lived apart many times since I've known him and before, but he always goes back to her (for normalcy, financial reasons, or the kids). We played an online game together and even after neither of us has much interest in the game any longer we are still talking almost daily in texts and private messages. He seems to be able to make me push the lines of what I will do. LOL i.e. sending pics and videos of a sexual nature and 'sexting'. We have been doing this on and off for a lot of the time we've known eachother. Both of us have had times when we swear to stop and try to stay away from eachother or just be friends. And while our friendship is a constant and unaffected by whatever else we do, we always seem to go back to the sexual relationship eventually. If I'm honest I am as much in love with him as you can be with someone you have not actually met in person. And a part of me believes he feels the same way, but has a much harder time dealing with the feelings he has for me. He says things like "I'm so hooked on you" and that I turn him on more than anyone ever has. He has also told me before that he wanted to tell me so much that he loved me, but then back peddles when it sets in and tries to separate it and make it only sexual and fun. Lately though, he has seemed to be different. He's told me in the past that he doesn't get jealous or possessive and doesn't get attached to people, but now he is saying things that go against all that. He has referred to me as "his" on more than one occasion and has hinted he would like to take things to the next step...meeting up and paving the way for something more.

My fear is that my feelings for him are much stronger than his for me, romantically speaking, which makes me afraid to take it to the next step for fear of getting hurt.

Advice need

I have not been to the forum for a few weeks but came back today and saw this. I am in a similar situation. Married man, not in a happy marriage but i respect whatever his choices are and his family. He treats me with respect as well so i dont feel led on...etc.. I am a pises/Aqua cusp and he is a feb. Pisces. What really helps is knowing the rest of his chart. He does not know his hour of his birth and the only thing constant is his Venus, which is in Aries, like mine. That helped me to understand the nature of our attraction. I know that unless she divorces him, he will not leave her and i dont wish for that. I would not leave my husband for same reasons. Do not ever think he will leave her. Aqua men are loyal and once they love you they will not leave you for nothing. Enjoy what you have with this man and dont expect anything.