I am the only Gemini lady that ........

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by coumari on Monday, September 26, 2011 and has 48 replies.

Understanding Gemini and Cancer Relationship Dynamics

Gemini women may experience challenges when a Cancer partner withdraws or cuts communication. Rebuilding trust or hope depends on the circumstances and mutual willingness to reconnect. Patience and open communication are key to resolving misunderstandings and fostering reconciliation if both parties are interested.

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@coumari
14 Years

my ex-cancern guy left nd removed me from both facebook and Msn ?
2 weeks ago this happened !!
thou i sent FR . nd no reply.

U think any hope he wud accpt —

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@littlearcher
14 Years

i don't think you should have sent the request.
i think you need to give him time to decide if he wants to add you back, since he is the one that deleted you.

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@littlearcher
14 Years

not if it's totally over for them.
then they can cut you off for good....

that happened to me with a cancer guy earlier this year.

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@CrabbyTwins
14 Years

Posted by coumari
my ex-cancern guy left nd removed me from both facebook and Msn ?
2 weeks ago this happened !!
thou i sent FR . nd no reply.

U think any hope he wud accpt —

It all depends on what happened?

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@HighTide
14 Years500+ Posts

As a Cancer Man, I eventually get burned out by the Gemini woman as you never feel they never take certain things we say seriously enough,especially emotional concepts we hold dear. Cancers are very serious people on how we go about things and have an ideology about life. Gemini's seem to question this mentality at every turn as sort of a devil's advocate type role. Gemini's like the uncertain things in life and crave new adventures, which is why they are better suited for an Aquarius IMHO.

The two different personalities of Gemini's make good communication very hard to do for a Cancer. There was usually one personality that I really liked, then there was the one that I despised. I could never get them fully balanced in my head to the point where I felt comfortable.

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@coumari
14 Years

It did hurt me nd yet hurting why he removed me from both places —
Why he wasnt like other cancer's to stay friends !!!!Thou,i luv him loadsssss

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@coumari
14 Years

He have no right to do such after one and half years of friendship !!
why was it easy for him to do such !!!!
He is so selfish bcs he never boader if he got to hurt others !!

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@littlearcher
14 Years

you are making a lot of assumptions here
maybe he deleted you because talking to you hurts him right now and he's not ready for it

that's not selfish...it's just being protective.

a real friendship can only occur if both people are ready for it....especially after a break up.

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@coumari
14 Years

Thats why i said he is selfish !!Talking to me hurts him.Instead removing me dosent hurt me ?
so did what was best for him without thinking he might hurt others !!

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@coumari
14 Years

Am doing everything and he never goes from my mind.
I knew him for one and half years.time to time,we met and made chat for several hrs in facebook.we never met in real.
He once asked me to marry him,when i didnt reply,he said he is joking.Then,after few days,he sent me email saying he removed me.and when he dont feel good when he talks with me.

I feel i did hurt him maybe.and i do love him lotssss but not to marry him at same time.
and am sure he is lying about he dont feel good when he is talking with me !!!

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@coumari
14 Years

No littlearcher,I adore him instead.
thou he added me abd i dont need him to say Goodbye forever !!
I dont mind even if he did hurt me.But,i wount like to be the reason to that hurts him !!

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@littlearcher
14 Years

well how you feel is up to you.
you can adore him all you want.
but you should respect what he wants and needs if you do love him.

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@littlearcher
14 Years

it's not easy to let go, but if you never actually met i think maybe you are holding on to an idea of this person rather than really knowing the real person.

that doesn't mean it doesn't hurt...but, maybe if you can let go of that idea, it might be easier to get past this.

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@CrabbyTwins
14 Years

Posted by littlearcher
it's not easy to let go, but if you never actually met i think maybe you are holding on to an idea of this person rather than really knowing the real person.

that doesn't mean it doesn't hurt...but, maybe if you can let go of that idea, it might be easier to get past this.

I agree......Just try not to let it get to stalker mode..........bcuz thats what it is starting to sound like......
Stay occupied.....

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@GemsRaGalsBestPal
16 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

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@GemsRaGalsBestPal
16 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

This reeks of someone trying to get your best Maddy.....

A person this obsessed over someonetheynevermet? Maybe their daddy didn't hug them enough? Maybe their inner CODEPENDENT took over and is doing all the typing? Maybe the mail order bride is pissed the dude didn't make the final payment and ship over her visa and passport?

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@OceanDeep
15 Years1,000+ Posts

I had to block her from my emails. I warned her already she was acting needy and overbearing, etc. Tried to help, she continued on and on. I made a positive comment, and apparently didn't get back to her fast enough as to what or why I would say that about him and her. I was gone over the weekend and excuse me for having a life, and not being on dxp 24/7. I came back from being gone for those four days, and had four emails wanting to know why I hadn't replied yet. The last one was her telling me "For Gods sake, repond to me already!!!, etc She's in need of some help. Seriously. Honestly, I'm thinking we're seeing a taste of what Mr. Cancer saw. She's a cracked pot, and obsessed. If she freaks on people this much, what does she do for a guy she doesnt' know what she wants with and actually "knows". He blocked her cuz he saw what we're seeing now.

Have no idea what she's even saying on here, just reading y'all responses. Warning to any and all, do not let her email you. My best thing I did was tell her in her first attempted thread to find me on here for my help was not give her my personal email. Whew, dodged a bullet. I hate to be this mean, but I've never in my life...seriously, not worth the hassle over a 27 yoa female who seems to have complexes, or maybe some problems that go beyond our help.

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@littlearcher
14 Years

i don't understand how creating more threads on here is going to help you get this guy back that you have no way to contact because he blocked you...