aquas randomly proposing??

hey all

are aquas known to randomly propose? ive never come across an aquarius before that i know of, and now theyre coming out of the woodworks lol

so i started talking with this dude, got on great, always had something to talk about, told him up front i wasnt interested in anything ,had enough on my plate and if he wanted to be friends, that was cool. he agreed.

then out of the blue he proposed and let me tell you i was completely taken by suprise. being an aries we usually take things in our stride, but this really threw me lol so do you think he actually means it? or is it one of those spur of the moment things?

i dont want to marry him, but i am curious about the motive/thinking behind this? if there is one?

i take his friendship seriously, as i do with all my friends, but he hasnt talked to me since? so is the friendship over? should i try to contact him or leave it be?

also, are aquas possessive/protective? he knew about the issues i was going through with a scorpio ex, and wanted to "deal" with him. not that id allow anyone else to fight my battles hehe

and i like how you guys end the conversation on the phone and txt so suddenly lol its usually aries who do that, so refreshing to have it done to aries hehe not in a rude way, just blunt and frank, as if nothing else need be said 🙂but plz dont do that here, cos i really need some advice! 😉

thank you 🙂

FireyAries85, yes he did seem serious, almost adamant, which is what confuses me so. i though they didnt do stuff like that?... tho i dont know much about aquarius so i cant say.

he seemed upset after i said my bit, do you think i should contact him? make sure hes ok? or will that make it worse??

Dewsh Stew, im an aries i dont lie, just tell it like it is. thanks for the words of advice tho, il keep it in mind hehe

i wonder why this bugs u so? because it doesnt fit your theory of how aquas should act? anyway think what you like, no skin off my nose 😄

FireyAries85, no he didnt say the "L" word, which im grateful for. i know that might sound horrible, but ive been married and divorced before and im so not ready to go into that direction again, probably not ever 😢

plus i have only known him for a few months, which really made me doubt his intentions, but he seemed so serious i believed he was being honest.....i dont know....

aww nice to hear about your sitaution 🙂 yes theyre very lovely people arent they?! every time i talked to him, it seemed like id known him all my life, and could tell him anything! 🙂

what concerns me at the mo is the friendship thing, i dont want to lose him as a friend, and i sure as hell dont want to hurt him in anyway. (too late for that i hear u say, but that couldnt be helped)

its been a few days since the last contact, i do miss him. maybe i should txt right now, so he has a nice txt to wake up to??

Wow that's nuts. I think he was dead serious and you crushed him.

CookiePusher, that wasnt my intention. im still confused to the reasoning behind it lol its not like he knew me that well, or me him


BUT ALL IS GOOD!!

i sent him a txt, he replied after 2 hours, which i didnt get until later because i forgot to check my phone lol but by then he'd already spoken to me on msn, and its all good now. i did make it clear i still dont want anything but friendship, and hes ok with that, so wer cool and im happy! 😄