Aqua's,Weirdly Ready To Commit & Love

So,do you other aqua's were once ready to commit 100% for a relationship and just feel like sacrificing everything for the one you love?And once even be able to even say those 3 words to that special someone. I personally find it hurt to say these to anyone other then my first love,and my love for that fucker already vanished so for me,personally,it's kinda something "out-of-the-topic" to be close or emotional with someone.

Yet,my new aquarius boyfriend now is willing to do everything and already said those 3 words. This kind of fast commitment and affection is kind of scaring me , cause he wants me to meet his family and he see's a long long relationship. Which I am kinda scared of,lol.So this is an example.(Me no need advice for this,the topic is about YOU or your fellow aqua's 🙂 )


So...what is up with you and other aqua's ? Do you also weirdly automatically go romantic and commit to a person real quick when you feel a strong attraction for the person,or does it develop with time? Or did you ever feel kinda suffocated when a partner way too quick is making plans? I'm waiting to see all the other aqua's experiences,I'm damn curious if astrology sites are right on this or wrong 🙂

ps : i'm an aqua girl with an aqua boyfriend at the time,LOL , the apocalypse is coming,two weirdo's together,RAWR >🙂

I think Aquas tend to take things MORE slowly if they've been betrayed/hurt alot in the past. Aquas have a hard time psychologically letting go of any hurt/pain they've experienced b/c of someone else. Aquas don't ever forget it; in fact, we take those memories with us & use what we learned from past experiences to help us in making sure that we hopefully don't fall prey to someone again.

An Aqua whose been hurt before by someone they deeply loved might be a little more hesistant to say those words. It's not b/c it's impossible for us to feel/know we love someone quickly. BUT we understand the POWER of/in those 3 words. And if we can get by w/o saying those 3 words, we will if possible.

Personally, I tend to pre-maturely attach to someone quickly. BUT, only I know this, not them. I fall very quickly BUT I'm not quick to express that to the other person quickly. THAT's the difference. An Aqua can be in love with you 2 weeks later, BUT they'd never tell the other person UNLESS the other person said it 1st. We can't control how we feel BUT we CAN control how much of our feelings we make known to others, & if we can, we will. Well, we will atleast until we're comfortable telling that person how we REALLY feel.

There have been times when I've been madly in love with someone very quickly BUT I'd never tell them that. That person may be at home thinking I'm not even interested in them at all BUT that's b/c Aquas are very good at saving face--having our "poker faces" on.

I know that telling someone those 3 words is JUST AS POWERFUL as actually feeling love for someone. Sometimes it's NOT a person feeling love towards another person that messes everything up. It's when those feelings are SAID/professed that can sometimes change the dynamic of a friendship/relationship. When "I love you" is said OFFICIALLY, it DOES change things either for the good or the bad.

Saying those 3 words takes alot of guts out of me b/c I know that once I say it, I can't take it back. Plus, how a person REALLY feels about me (if the feeling is even mutual) will come to the surface the minute I say those 3 words. And since Aquas are terrified of rejection (we prefer doing the rejection lol), it's very nerve wrecking to say those words & just HOPE the other person feels the same way.

I am typically a VERY slow mover in relationships. In fact, I've been in 3 and 4 year relationships where I was always being pushed for more from the people I was dating. I used to have nightmares about getting married. It was horrible.

Then, six years ago I met someone. The first time we talked on the phone was for 7 hours. That night I fell in love and found the only man I've ever wanted to marry. Although, years have passed and we've both dated other people...I am still very much in that place with him. It never diminished.

My commitment, loyalty, certainty and desire for him is in my blood. Never felt anything like it before or since.

@Shadows: That's awesome! I def. agree that it's POSSIBLE for us to fall in love & to do so QUICKLY. BUT, it takes a certain/special kind of person to bring us to that point! It might be the person we just met last month OR it could be the person we've been dragging on a friendship with for 5 years. It all depends on that person.

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@Shadows: That's awesome! I def. agree that it's POSSIBLE for us to fall in love & to do so QUICKLY. BUT, it takes a certain/special kind of person to bring us to that point! It might be the person we just met last month OR it could be the person we've been dragging on a friendship with for 5 years. It all depends on that person.

Yup...I totally agree. For me, it was an instantaneous connection that felt like I've known him my entire life. Look, I've never believed in soul mates (or real love/romance/marriage for that matter) until I met this man.