Baffled

I know Aqua men just wander off, but do they ever NOT come back without explaination? Do they talk about the future just to get sex like, say Aries? When they are 'taking their time', do they not want to be contacted at all or would the occassional hello feel as if they are being pushed? I'm truly baffled, but not in a bad way. I just want to understand. I spoke to my aqua today in a very casual, nothing sort of way. Now, I just want to know more.

"Do they ever NOT come back without explaination?"
Yes, depending on the situation with you & your Aqua, it can be perfectly normal for him all of the sudden disappear w/o a trace, BUT they will normally come back within a few days. Most of the time this "distance" spell has nothing to do with the other person. Now on the other hand, if they've been dealing with you for a long period of time, have gotten to thoroughly get to know you & see something in you that they do not like or have strong negative feelings about, it's also normal for an Aqua to just up & walk away w/o any explanation. But in those cases, someone would definetely know WHY their Aqua suddenly bailed. It's not like Aquas just up, leave & never turn back to the people they love. Someone would have to really betray or hurt an Aqua in order for them to walk away for GOOD w/o an explanation. And yes, when they are done with someone, they WILL walk aawy without an explanation b/c 99% of the time, had the other person paid attention or listened, they would've saw the signs coming. But that's a whole 'nother conversation. If you & your Aqua are good friends & were just fine days ago, you should have NOTHING to worry about.

"Do they talk about the future just to get sex like, say Aries?"
Well it depends. If he's talking about a future with YOU, then no, Aqua men won't try to use "future" talk as a means of getting into your panties. Aqua men are very creative & have no use for playing mind games when it comes to who they REALLY want in their futures. If he says he wants you in his future, he probably means it. Aquas don't look at sex in the traditional way that other signs do. Yes, they still love sex & do things like other people, but as far as mindset goes, if they just wanted sex from you, they def. wouldn't lead you on. They'd come up with more creative ways to get into your pants. Aquas don't tease or play about commitment. Commitment is one of the things they take very seriously.

"When they are 'taking their time', do they not want to be contacted at all or would the occassional hello feel as if they are being pushed?"

When an Aqua male is in his "distant" mode, they def. don't want the contact to be at it's normal rate, BUT they also don't want their friends/partners to just completely disappear either. Aquas expect for their partners/friends to be creative enough to find a way to show them that you respect their need for space while at the SAME TIME, showing them that they are just around the corner if they need you. It's kind of tricky. And sometimes Aqua men will purposely retreat into their shells just to test how the other person will react, if at all. If you don't give him enough distance & space, it can & will turn him off. But on the other hand, if when he says he needs his space & you completely disappear, w/o calling him once or ever letting him know that you are still alive, he can & sometimes will def. take a mental note of this. Depending on how strong the friendship/relationship & bond is & depending on how well you too know eachother can make the difference though in this kind of situation. If you two know eachother very well & if you both have established a very strong foundation in friendship, your Aqua is less likely to come out swinging b/c you didn't contact him. But, if you two just met or haven't known eachother for long, know that he even though he is in his own world when in his shell, he is STILL watching you. He wants you to say "hello" & "I hope you're ok" every once in a while, BUT he doesn't want you to pressure him into talking about what's wrong with him or make him feel guilty for retreating into his shell. Plus, it also depends on what's wrong with him and/or what caused him to be distant. If it's you, yes, still say hello. At the time, he may pretend like it didn't make any difference but TRUST ME it does & he probably won't tell you so until later. But if he's distant b/c of a circumstance going on in his life outside of you then reminding him that you're still there for him won't push him away AS LONG AS you let him know that he can explain when he's READY to. Alot of people try to force or pressure their Aquas into explaining themselves during this time & THAT'S when the problems begin.

You're best bet would be to use your common sense in this situation. If it appears that he has a problem with you in particular (the reason for his distance) then of course there's no harm in you trying to poke into what the problem is. Even if he's not ready to explain he WILL take a mental note that you atleast tried to understand him & he'll appreciate that you took the time to notice the change in his behavior. If you feel that you have said or done something to piss him off, then just back off for a few days & hope that everything will get straightened out when he comes back. If his problem is with you & yet he NEVER comes back, either 1. You didn't pay attention to the "signs" that all Aquas display when they're about to bail (and I say this b/c it sometimes takes a longgg time for Aquas to actually leave b/c of how much mental & emotional energy they put into their decisions) or 2. The situation was sooo bad that the felt it only fair to the both of you that he bail immediately. Understand that when Aquas make decisions to depart from a friendship/relationship, it's usually final.
On the OTHER hand, if he's being distant b/c he's going through alot in her personal life or just b/c he quite frankly wants to, then your best bet would be to still keep the contact with him BUT just not as much as you normally do. For example, if you two normally talk 5 times a day, limit that to just 1 or 2 times a day. That way, he knows that while yes you do respect his need for space, you ALSO want him to know that you're just a phone call away & that you still care. It's all about moderation. If you show him that you still care, but yet still respect his need for space & actually HONOR his need for space, he should come back. And when & if he does, things will be back to normal & as if the distance never happend. Confusing, I know, but hey that's how Aquas are. If he actually TELLS you why he needed his space, once he comes back, that's an even BETTER sign that it wasn't you that made him distance himself

Thank you for reaffirming the conclusions I'd come to. I am a Taurus with a Gemini Rising and Libra Moon and if this all rings true, this sounds like it could be the perfect relationship for me. I love having my space and full life. I'm fine as long as I know where I stand, anything goes. And the sparks...Oh, Lordy, the sparks. Never felt them like this before. I'm just far too used to Aries and Leo's who disappear for good with no explaination and no intention of coming back after lies and empty promises. I could get spoiled by all this you know.