Bones and Dr House Aquas?

Greetings from Belgium! I have 4 friends, 1 boss and 1 sister-in-law who are Aqua. I love them dearly and wish them all the best in their hopes and dreams.
Everytime I watch Bones and Dr. House, I can't help but recognizing characteristics of my Aqua interactions.

I am fascinated how the series projects Bones and House versus other persons. Bones solves cases, House saves lives...Great humor, helping others, very talented, and yet they flabbergast or hurt those surrounding them regularly.
Rational and result oriented vs. emotions and living the moment. I can appreciate this shutting out the pains and joys is useful for self-control, but I can't help thinking it also takes away the soul food, which for me being a female Leo, feels like depriving yourself from the essence of life.

Do you Aquas recognize yourselves in the Bones and Dr. House character and can you relate on how the neutralizing of your emotions impacts other human beings?

I love house MD and yes he's the king of the Aquarians. I think Foreman is also an Aquarius, Cuddy a Gemini, and Wilson is a Libra. And its not that hOuse doen'st have feeling as you can see he's got a thing for Cuddy and he feels passonate about what he does. He just decides to live in his head and not have to deal with the emotional net of caring for people. Why cuase it hurts too much. As Leo you use your heart all the time and maybe not so much your head. An aquaiurs is the other way around it. My sister is a leo she lives for love i'm an aquarius and i live to lean. I would have to say Cameon onthe show is a Leo caue she's all about love and caring about people. I see a lot of myself in House Md tha'ts why I like the show so much.

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And its not that hOuse doen'st have feeling as you can see he's got a thing for Cuddy and he feels passonate about what he does. He just decides to live in his head and not have to deal with the emotional net of caring for people. Why cuase it hurts too much.
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Yes, House has indeed feeling but is the decision of living in his head not making him miss what he craves?
If we take the Cuddy example... even the head cannot deny the fact that Cuddy jumps in for House all the time and accomodates his mood swings out of her love for him? Where is the hurt? Because of possible future pushing away by Cuddy? But isn't this a twisted logic ? Keeping people at distance can only accelerate the process of loosing them forever? Aren't Aquas thus creating and maintaining their own hurt? Maybe the level of pain is lower than when loosing somebody forever, but still...why living in pain in stead of taking the risk of trusting the love other people are able to feel and show for Aquas?

that's just the thing as an Aqua we don't live in pain cause we can just Detach. I might be hard for other poeple to realize that an Aquarius can have another life all in their mind and choose not tolive in a physical world where there is emotional pain. If house pushes Cuddy away it won't bother him because his life will stay the same as miserable as he might be he is happy being alone, happy solving cases, happy not have the responsibility to have to cater to someone else. YOu might think that relationships are so easy and freindship are the sure thing and best thing in life but for an aqua we really don't feel like that all the time. Freindships and relationships are just more things to take away from our lives. It hard to be your true self around other people no matte how accepting they are of you. Which is why house stays alone. Alone he can do what ever he wants. He can be himself wild reckless, carefree, moody, and not have his judgement clogged by emotions. We've seen house be a nice guy when he was on Methadone and his overly niceness cost a patient their life. So this is another world that most people don't understand. But aquas can simply live in thier own little mental world where realityjust doesn't compare.

i'm guessing you are a Leo BelgianLioness
and it would be really hard for you to understand becuse as leo you crave people, you are not yourself unless you are around people. My sister Leo is the same way. I use to look at her life as a waste of time going out and hanging with freinds every night but that is who she is. She wonders how I can spend so muich time alone. I tell her it doens't bother me. I get to do what I want. I do enjoy socializing its just kind of hard to find people that are interesting enough and not have to deal with all thier bad habits like griping or complaining about life. Leo's are all about love and fun, aquarians forget how to have fun sometiems cause we're so busy solving the world's problems.

Tigerzen,
As all human beings have a body, brains, ego, heart, soul, it is only logic the components need appropriate feeding to ensure optimal shape. The importance of each component or type of food each individual applies to manage its wellbeing may differ for various reasons... culture, personality, Zodiac sign, education, defense mechanisms, etc....
I feel my soul is the driving force determining my destination. My heart provides the fuel, my body is the vehicle, my brain is the steering wheel and my ego is the GPS (sometimes indicating the best way, sometime leading me astray).

I feed, rest and exercise my body to optimize my vehicle's machinery. I feed my heart with beauty and warmth I find in fun, hobbies and relationships to ensure a full quality fuel tank. I stimulate my brain with reading, discussions and intellectual knowledge to apply flexible steering methods. My ego is fed with accomplishments in professional and personal relationships to avoid dead end streets and pointless deviations.
All of the above makes my soul the happy Driver, confident to go wherever and do whatever it wants, creating strength to enjoy my own company or share it with other people, be it in lending a helping hand or celebrating the joys of life with others.

As a Leo, I do not crave people's attention, but I am grateful for the mental, emotional, and mirroring stimulation I receive from people and which fuel the Leo zest for life . .. It's only fair to return the gift.. This bartering concept creates Leo's generosity and love towards others. Some Zodiac signs seem to understand the benefits and naturally reciprocate. Aquas seem to be drawn to this Leo trusting and thrusting of intellectual and emotional intensity but reciprocating the emotional part is a bridge too far because of their brain taking overall control.

This is just a Leo perspective, but whenever I listen to the Aquas surrounding me, I detect a kind of longing or frustration on not having access to all of life's goodies...where I cannot help but see the fences they build for themselves. But as you say, they detach quickly. Aquas claim it is from the pain. Others experiece it as personal rejection and blaim Aquas for the hurt which makes Aqua even more detach.
If House/an Aqua process all of the human components purely through the brain, I fear malnutrition may cause them physical discomfort, unsatisfactionary relationships and restlest souls, which they really do not deserve.