Confused aqua girl with another aqua

Well my aqua man just broke it off yesterday with me I'm not sure what to do he just wants to be friends as things were getting too intense between us, I have to admit I gave my heart to him, not sure what to do, I went for coffee at his place today and it was so awkward he didn't want to touch me didn't feel like he wanted me to be there at all even though he invited me, he said new year fresh start we have to go cold turkey but before he couldn't keep his hands off me when I broke it off before, do I stay friends or will he come back around? It's like he lost all feelings for me over night think I failed his tests

Aquas tend to run away once feelings get involved. Try your best to stay as friends, but don't involve feelings.

Ok thank you for your reply, I think I ran the last time because my feelings got involved I fell in love that's why I broke up with him, he wasn't ready for a relationship at the time but then he came back saying he was, now it's back to square one, never felt so bad about someone because we had such a great Christmas together I thought he was testing me by getting his friends to try flirt with me so I confronted him about it and asked for space to think then when I got in contact to resolve it he dumped me said he was thinking we were getting too serious and it would end at some point he was worried we would get hurt, said this was the mature thing to do and just be friends he doesn't want to lose that, so will I just carry on like nothing has happened or wait for him to contact me? This aqua is the strangest one I've met and being one myself it's got me confused

Posted by Aquascottish
Ok thank you for your reply, I think I ran the last time because my feelings got involved I fell in love that's why I broke up with him, he wasn't ready for a relationship at the time but then he came back saying he was, now it's back to square one, never felt so bad about someone because we had such a great Christmas together I thought he was testing me by getting his friends to try flirt with me so I confronted him about it and asked for space to think then when I got in contact to resolve it he dumped me said he was thinking we were getting too serious and it would end at some point he was worried we would get hurt, said this was the mature thing to do and just be friends he doesn't want to lose that, so will I just carry on like nothing has happened or wait for him to contact me? This aqua is the strangest one I've met and being one myself it's got me confused

Ok..... do you know your mans birth chart? When is his birthday? I'm asking b/c this is how my Aqua guy acted when we first got together. When we first started dating, he liked me so much that he kept telling me that we need to just be friends, that we should stop while we are ahead b/c someone can get hurt. I am a Cap woman and my Aqua was born on Feb. 6th.

The thing with him is that he would block me for a day and come right back. He would tell me that we need to just be friends but he would show me otherwise that he wanted more from me. When we first had sex, sex that was so good, afterwards, on my way home he told me that he will never do this again with me and that we are moving too fast and that he needs time to think. He blocked me from his phone for 3 DAYS! Then unblocked me and got back in contact with me. Of course I had to put my foot down with him that he can't keep doing me like this. It's not right and I can't deal with that. He explained to me why he did and said what he said and we have been together since then. No blocking, no crazy talk of how he need his space. Instead he has been communicating to me his feelings. Stuff like how he wants to be with me, how he enjoys my company, etc etc.

I do believe that when Aquas are falling for someone they tend to back off from you. My advice in your situation is that he is probably trying to see how he can cool things down b/w the two of you. He may need time to think but he cares for you so he wants to not have it be so serious b/w u two like a relationship. In an Aqua brain, this is the RIGHT thing to do. Aquas are very logical and they handle everything logically. Like it has to make sense. If stuff do t make sense, then their antennas go up as to tap into what needs to be corrected or put into its proper place. He does care for you that's why he invited you over. It even shows that he wants you in his life. And that's suuuuuch a good thing girl! My Aqua would speak "FRIENDS" but would always SHOW ME he wanted me more on a different level. When you play the cards he deal right, when you shift when he shift, you will pass his tests. And Im telling you this part b/c you said that you have fallen for him hard. So stick around him. Aquas believe in friendship first anyway. And they dont friend (closely) anyone like that. With me and my Aqua, I look at our relationship like a book: him and I write a page everyday waiting to see how everyday will turn out.

Here's his chart he's Feb 12



Sun Aquarius 23°29'

Moon Aries 5°36'

Mercury Pisces 2°20'

Venus Aquarius 29°13'

Mars Sagittarius 6°01'

Jupiter Aquarius 28°03'

Saturn Sagittarius 8°42'

Uranus Sagittarius 21°35'

Neptune Capricorn 5°02'

Pluto Scorpio 7°21' R

Lilith Taurus 28°26'

Asc node Taurus 2°39'

Here's mine Feb 9th

Sun Aquarius 20°27'

Moon Aquarius 26°18'

Mercury Aquarius 26°53'

Venus Aquarius 25°28'

Mars Sagittarius 4°16'

Jupiter Aquarius 27°20'

Saturn Sagittarius 8°31'

Uranus Sagittarius 21°28'

Neptune Capricorn 4°57'

Pluto Scorpio 7°21' R

Lilith Taurus 28°06'

Asc node Taurus

I'm not too sure how to read these still a newbie lol

Posted by CapLovinAquaz

Posted by Aquascottish
Ok thank you for your reply, I think I ran the last time because my feelings got involved I fell in love that's why I broke up with him, he wasn't ready for a relationship at the time but then he came back saying he was, now it's back to square one, never felt so bad about someone because we had such a great Christmas together I thought he was testing me by getting his friends to try flirt with me so I confronted him about it and asked for space to think then when I got in contact to resolve it he dumped me said he was thinking we were getting too serious and it would end at some point he was worried we would get hurt, said this was the mature thing to do and just be friends he doesn't want to lose that, so will I just carry on like nothing has happened or wait for him to contact me? This aqua is the strangest one I've met and being one myself it's got me confused

Ok..... do you know your mans birth chart? When is his birthday? I'm asking b/c this is how my Aqua guy acted when we first got together. When we first started dating, he liked me so much that he kept telling me that we need to just be friends, that we should stop while we are ahead b/c someone can get hurt. I am a Cap woman and my Aqua was born on Feb. 6th.

The thing with him is that he would block me for a day and come right back. He would tell me that we need to just be friends but he would show me otherwise that he wanted more from me. When we first had sex, sex that was so good, afterwards, on my way home he told me that he will never do this again with me and that we are moving too fast and that he needs time to think. He blocked me from his phone for 3 DAYS! Then unblocked me and got back in contact with me. Of course I had to put my foot down with him that he can't keep doing me like this. It's not right and I can't deal with that. He explained to me why he did and said what he said and we have been together since then. No blocking, no crazy talk of how he need his space. Instead he has been communicating to me his feelings. Stuff like how he wants to be with me, how he enjoys my company, etc etc.

I do believe that when Aquas are falling for someone they tend to back off from you. My advice in your situation is that he is probably trying to see how he can cool things down b/w the two of you. He may need time to think but he cares for you so he wants to not have it be so serious b/w u two like a relationship. In an Aqua brain, this is the RIGHT thing to do. Aquas are very logical and they handle everything logically. Like it has to make sense. If stuff do t make sense, then their antennas go up as to tap into what needs to be corrected or put into its proper place. He does care for you that's why he invited you over. It even shows that he wants you in his life. And that's suuuuuch a good thing girl! My Aqua would speak "FRIENDS" but would always SHOW ME he wanted me more on a different level. When you play the cards he deal right, when you shift when he shift, you will pass his tests. And Im telling you this part b/c you said that you have fallen for him hard. So stick around him. Aquas believe in friendship first anyway. And they dont friend (closely) anyone like that. With me and my Aqua, I look at our relationship like a book: him and I write a page everyday waiting to see how everyday will turn out.

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Thanks for your advice it's been really helpful, last night he had a little chat through text saying he did want me there just felt awkward being around me, but he agreed to a movie night in the new year just as friends as I said this is only awkward if you make it awkward but I would still like to hang out with him he agreed he would like that, I've been very platonic in my interactions with him wait for him to contact me first. Today he just sends me pics of his food for some weird reason thinks he knows I like to make sure he's eating healthy lol he knows I like to take care of him. Then I posted a reflection of my year on Facebook earlier being thankful for everything good and bad and referencing him without his name no one would know but him, he put a heart not his usual likes and jokes etc took that as a sign he cares he since went offline on all social media only does this when he's thinking, I'm going to stick with him on a friend level but back off slightly wait for him to come to me again, it's going to be hard with both our birthdays coming up soon I'm only 3 days older than him.

Ok well I am new too but looking at this chart you guys moons are different and your Venus is the same. You all have a lot in common too. The moon and the Venus is what I hear ppl talk about a lot. I don't know which one represents your emotion.

I bet he wants to spend his bday with you. He will even invite you too.

I don't know he usually spends it with his guy friends honestly I joke that they are secretly dating because they spend so much time together lol all the girlfriends never really get invited to any of their parties so doubt I will be, I don't know if we will still be as close to him by then we don't have the same friend group, it's not far away and I don't feel it will be enough time for him to come back we've not set a day for catching up again just in the new year which is a long year lol. Yeah I've heard moons play a big part in relationships don't know what they all mean might make another post see what some experts can tell me ?

Posted by Sarah_Smile34
Sun Aquarius 23°29'

Moon Aries 5°36'

Mercury Pisces 2°20'

Venus Aquarius 29°13'

Mars Sagittarius 6°01'

^^^^^

THIS

A mix of freedom loving, indecisive, wishy washy, impulsive and stubborn.

I pray for you...having to deal with this man. It will never be peaceful. He will definitely keep you on your toes emotionally. Good luck.

He definitely is indecisive I had to make all the decisions when we did go out even for a meal it's took us a day to decide where to eat once. He is extremely organised and OCD clean with everything but decision making is not his strong point lol wishy washy is how my friends describe him he can't keep to what ever he does decide, one minute he's all over me next he's distant, we are both stubborn but I can usually compromise, it's defo been a rollercoaster he's not easy to deal with all my friends said they would of gave up months ago, he's now decided that he's going to help me get my body more toned in the new year that's his job and he's all enthusiastic about it I had to cut him off 3 times last night because I was going to my bed, honestly I don't get this guy the attraction is unreal it feels like a puzzle I need to crack don't think I ever will though. Will see what next year has in store hope everyone has a great New Years! —