Aquarius tried to make me jealous?

So I had a huge argument with this Aquarius man I've been seeing over something irrelevant which was a total misinderstanding. I drove him home and told him to get out my car. He storms off to then sit in a lay by near my house messaging me for almost 2 hours. The messages were pretty mean and included things like just because he's nice to me it don't mean s@@t, he doesn't want a relationship, etc etc. Then proceeds to send me pictures of all the girls names on his phone and tells me he now he has more time not seeing me that he can persue them. Along with a comment about his tinder followers and some random girl we had been arguing about. I told him that's fine I'm meeting xxxxx on Sunday. He laughed and said don't try and make me jealous it won't work I have no feelings. Nearly 2 hours later he then proceeds to delete me off all social media.

sounds like a jerk but nice story

The opposite of love/affection isn't hate, it's indifference. If he truly had no feelings, then he wouldn't waste his time messaging you nonstop for 2 hours. He'd just act like you don't exist. Tell him this:

Are you trying to convince me or yourself?

I really don't know anymore. When we're together he's so sweet and loving. Then he turns into a total jerk says horrible stuff and deletes me off everything. This can last from 2 days to 2 weeks. It's been going on 5 months now. Should I see it out? I've told him to come back when he decides he wants more that's if it isn't too late by then x

I've been in the same position as you. Except when he burst, I didn't fuel into his fire. So when he was done spewing hateful words at me, and realized (only a few days after) just how much of a prick he was, he came running back. Except you fed into it, and I don't think he'll come running back - which is probably for the best anyways because like me, who gave my guy a second chance, you'll probably just do a full circle and end up in the exact position you're in now. He won't change, move on.

Posted by Zlarb
I've been in the same position as you. Except when he burst, I didn't fuel into his fire. So when he was done spewing hateful words at me, and realized (only a few days after) just how much of a prick he was, he came running back. Except you fed into it, and I don't think he'll come running back - which is probably for the best anyways because like me, who gave my guy a second chance, you'll probably just do a full circle and end up in the exact position you're in now. He won't change, move on.

Thanks for your reply yes this isn't the first time for me either. It's week after week on and off since July. He seems to have this way to trick girls into liking him. It's all words and actions. Then he does a total u turn says some really really horrible things and disappears, then he comes back with th sorrys and it starts all over again. I'm a little immature I admit I'm only 18 but what's his excuse at 22? I'm not sure he's ever had someone stand up to him like I did maybe that angered him but I won't be called a liar when all that comes out his mouth is bullsh@@t. x

Posted by aquarius_beauty
He's really immature. I wouldn't entertain the idea of continuing a relationship with him unless you get a thrill of these highs and los.

I also have to agree with a Poster above. He's obviously hurt and angry and vented out in frustration to you to get a reaction out of you.

**In re-reading your OP I have concluded you both sound really immature. A person with maturity doesn't stoop down to his level. Which is what you did**

I did try not to be but he infuriates me to whole new level with the endless paragraphs of rubbish he was sending to me. Most I didn't respond to just sent sound or ok. I'm only 18 so I am a little immature but he's 22 with a child. He told me his aim was to sleep with me as he had set his mind on it. Luckily I never gave in x