Do Aqua males like to be chased/play games?

Ok I have heard that Aqua's tend to blow hot and cold, but do they like to play games? I suppose that as they are pretty blunt I assumed that would mean they say what they mean all the time.

I just get the impression from the guy I like that there is always something he wants to say but doesnt. For example when he texts me, i feel he only texts back if I gave him the reply he wanted. Like he will ask how I am, but really he means can he come over, so if I just say how I am and ask if he's been ok NO REPLY! Yet if I say, come over, then he will. If he wants to come round why doesnt he just say—

Also I am not one to chase a guy, I have told him I like him, so to me there is nothing more for me to do, its all on him now. Im not playing no chasing game, im too old for this. If he wanted my attention he can have as much as he likes of it, all he has to do is ask lol. When he didnt text back i used to send him a "fine ignore me then" text but I cant be bothered anymore, maybe he thinks I dont care because I dont send them anymore, I just leave him to it.

With this guy I just feel I'm damned if I do and im damned if i dont! lol

Gurl!!!!! I know what u mean! My guy is the same way. Seems to me he wants me to beg for his time n loven! fuck that! I am the woman & i am not chasing any man! I don't care how FINE he is!!! Well maybe Johnny Depp!!! I

Well I don't necessarily think that Aquas go about things in an articulate manner to get chased persay. BUT they generally ARE looking for a certain response/reaction from you.

We like for things to be in moderation. We don't like doing ALL the chasing but then again we don't want the other person doing all the chasing either b/c we'll see it as them being too clingy, too aggressive or too persistent....in other words, it'll give us the PERFECT opportunity to question their intentions, especially when someone seems a little TOO eager to please us/chase after us.

If we throw the bait 1 minute, we might want you to throw the bait the next minute, BUT we do this as our way of "testing" to see if the friendship/relationship is equal. It's almost like we give random "quizzes." We'll chase you & open completely up to you 1 minute, BUT then we'll PURPOSELY become detached just to see if the other person is just as willing to open up & chase us in return. Some call this a "mind game" while others (cough: Aquas!) consider this "Doing what they've gotta do" to test the measure of loyalty/admiration in a friendship/relationship.

Aquas have hot/dry moments. Sometimes we are extremely aggressive, while other times we are perhaps shy & expect for the other person to somehow be able to "read our minds." Sometimes we get shy or passive-aggressive b/c of our fear of coming on too strong or aggressive to the other person. We'd hate to be seen as clingy, too emotional, too expressive or too attached when things aren't mutual. So sometimes we purposely make the other person show us THEIR vulnerabilities & willingness to "go 1st" all so that it'll help us feel more comfortable; this helps to lower our guards a tad bit

Thanks for very in depth response as usual krysrenee 🙂

@firegurl I agree my guys nice but he is no johnny depp! lol

@scorpio Yes he is exactly the same, especially with the opening up thing, then hearing nothing! We had a 4 hour conversation about his life, he text me as soon as I dropped him off home saying how nice it was to talk to me and how much it means to him, then nothing. He just disappears, then reappears and acts as though nothing is different, thats why I wonder if he's playing games? But then again im starting to think that he is just oblivious to the fact the its strange behavior. Just when I decide to move on, its like he some how senses this and gets in touch.

I just wish they would say what they mean, my psychic/mind reading powers need more work before I can indlulge in such games lol.