Do Aqua men have a hard time admitting interest?

He constantly texts me, this has been going on for almost 7 months. He tells me he dreams about me. We use to hookup casually and I told him I liked him more then that and the feeling was not mutual so maybe its a good idea if we just quit that and work on being friends. His response was I understand and even though the sex was amazing I enjoyed watching movies and chillen with you at your house but okay I am sorry and kept calling me all kinds of sweet nicknames like love, sweets, and all that. That response left me feeling a bit confused.

Then he continued to text me..saying things like you will make a great wingwomen and I bet you could pull some pretty hot chicks. I just went with it and told him I would totally be able to wingwomen you and hot chicks totally dig me.

Then he kept text and was saying how amazing our sex was and I just told him that its not going to happen anymore...and the only way it would is if we were only hooking up with each other...I personally don't want a relationship but would prefer a friend that we are only hooking up with each other. Yes I know, it sounds crazy but whatever. Anyway he responds you want it all for yourself huh? I said yup..that is the only way..sorry..and he sent a winky face. I don't know, i just feel in my gut he likes me but tries to avoid because he thinks commitment is in the air.

Any thoughts or advice?

Oh how I do respect your bluntness. I do have to laugh at your comment about stop being immature and find a boyfriend. Why does having a boyfriend equate with being mature. I find that very humerous. Yes I might have made some mistakes with this one but lets not forget it happens all the time. People make mistakes. Now back to the boyfriend thing, as I wrote above I do not want a boyfriend, it holds no desire to me. If you read what I wrote I told him that we will no longer be hooking up as I am not that kind of girl and I told him I gave you the wrong impression and want to "work on our friendship" and the only way we will be doing anything again if its with only me. My question was not how do I gain a relationship with this Aqua, it was "does he have interest but doesn't want to admit". That was the question. I do not want a relationship. So being his friend and wingwomen is fine with me, as we are in my mind just friends now. There was much more to our conversation before I got to the point of me telling him that if we do anything it will need to be with only me, but I didn't think everyone would want to read all that. Thank you for your response, but please read the question more thoroughly before answering.

Thank you.

And I beg to differ in regards to the no hope for a true serious bond as I have a very very good friend who we started out casually hooking up like this but now we are just super tight friends. Which works better for us. Kind of a close-minded view if you ask me. Lets not forget we are dealing with an Aqua, please read up on them.

He doesn't like you in that way you think or your gut is expressing. Perhaps you want him too? you said it sounds crazy..well yeah it IS! ahaha why do you care if he does or not if you dont want anything else but what you guys already have?

I know aquarius being one myself...Its really hard to tell. Even i dont even know when i actually like-like someone. ALl i know is when i do like like someone i genuinely get to know them, like a BEST FRIEND. Thats the general pattern usually. AND he isn't, hes getting only one thing.We are also very straight forward and clear in what we want. IN words and action. In this case, he has not only verbally expressed it, he also expressed in his action. The only time you must question what is being said and what is being done..is when your in a relationship with one. Thats when i think it gets hard, emotionally dealing with things. we get all weirded out.

Taking away the sign of a person...

Men tend to also be straight forward in words or actions. Just depends on the other party to understand it. No man would use "sex" as a way to get love. Thats women hunny haha. sadly for most its true. MEN use "love" as a way to get sex. I dont know if this is making any sense..So he gets sex from you and it seems its a mutual agreement and hes "hiding" his love from you? why would he want to do that? because aquarius folks have a problem with commitment? we're not that emotional about relationships. Mind rules our relationships. Lastly, lets not confuse fear of commitment with a Guy who is just plain out horny and only wants one person to be their sex partner.

Thank you Candi3BB. I respect your answer much better then the first one. I do agree alot with what you have to say. I spoke with him last night and kind of just told him everything I was feeling. He told me how I was the perfect package and such a gem for a guy like him. I said well what I don't get is if you really felt that way then why wouldn't you want it all for yourself but its okay as I understand what it comes down too is you are just not that into me and thats fine. As long as we can be friends then I'm happy. I think my bluntness through him off. I do like him and have expressed that too him, however, I am not going to chase after him (nor have I ever) or continue on the path we were on. Thats why I didn't really care for the first answer as me stopping the sex I felt was a very mature decision.

As far as wanting to be with someone and only someone but not be there actual girlfriend..yea its crazy but my last boyfriend past away recently and we were extremely close, I thought he was the one I was going to marry, so even just a title alone scares me...but this guy has been the only one in almost a year and half to cause an impact with me. Every other guy i get bored with and push away or don't really care about. So knowing he is not my actual "boyfriend" gives me an odd sense of comfort.

Yes yes I know its crazy and I probably should go to a therapist for it but whatever, it is what it is and its just the way my life panned out.

Well anyways, thank you for the better perceptive answer.