Do you lose interest as fast?

Hiya!

just curious, do you fellow aquarians lose interest or get bored fairly quickly or is it just me?

i'm dating a gemini i was infatuated with him till about this morning, then now im thinking about breaking it off. But this happens all the time....one minute i want to be with him, the next its like i wish we can just be friends..haha

Yeah, thats happened to me a lot. I just chalk it up to moodiness. Although, it never really did balance out for the most part. Unfortunately, my actions followed my moodiness so none of my boyfriends really understood me at all. 😢 Can't say I blame them.

😢 i do the same thing! i keep telling myself im just moody...my current boyfriend doesnt get me at all. friends misunderstand me lol

I have my days/moments when I lose interest. BUT I try to identify the reasons why I feel I've lost interest. If I can attribute it to a few temporary mood swings/funks, then I will try my best not to make my partner aware of my loss of interest, especially since it'll probably be temporary

I go in & out sometimes. Sometimes I am 100% completely in love & can overlook any flaws, after convincing myself that a "good woman/girlfriend" remains patient. ,

I actually need more distance from friends than I do boyfriends.

same here...more with friends than boyfriends~

wsigaf~ perhaps my friendships are just a way to kill time..but for what—

Posted by wsigaf
(I'm sorry I got y'all bored quickly 😢)

So'k.

nothing boring bout me and i can get you....i just accept your special and be done with it. 😆 but how you manage to distance yourself from a fun guy like me is beyond me. silly aquas....maybe your not ready to commit? not untill you find the perfect guy for you...which sadly may not exist. everyone has flaws. no one is perfect. not even you if you can imagine it. its best to be honest with your guys...especially if you have been with them for a long time. i dont expect any aqua to even take my advice. its not your nature lol. but chillax. look at the big picture. and be honest to yourself. no one likes feeling used and abused.

There is some seriously flawed 'logic' flying around this thread.

Well, I know for me...that all changed with one man. There was only one man in my life that I would have sacrificed everything I've fiercely protected for him. Happily. So I have no regrets about keeping distance with my past boyfriends. Still very close with two of them. They just weren't the right person for me and I must have known that on some level.

In general, I'm just the kind of person that wants/needs a lot of space and time by myself (not time with others...I want to be by myself). I don't think there is anything wrong with that.

And I've only been in long term relationships that started out as friendships. Not really a dater so its got nothing to do with keeping my options open. Its an internal thing.

I'm 38, Television. I was proposed to twice, but the idea of having to share living space with someone else seems almost impossible for me. Its not the commitment I have a problem with. In fact, if I could get married and live on my own, I'd be happy as hell! But like I said...there is one guy that made all of that change in me.

I'm sure age has a lot to do with it. I think finding the RIGHT person does also.

My sister's an Aqua and she has done this most of her life. She'll be really into someone...and then once she gets their attention she just decides, eh whatever I'm over it now.

Depends. If it's worth it no. If it isn't yes.

sounds like mind games t me. poor guys....

im joking my lil aqua gal. see im not boring at all 😆 hmm...us caps dont change our mind often. we dont do games. if one day we dont feel like we use to about someone we either work it out or end it. simplicity is key.

I do all the time and when i start to like someone after a while I look for something about them to turn me off.

you guys are just weird....lovable but weird.

well then how the fk is anyone supposed to get close to you or have a relationship with you guys??

LOL i love aquas..sighs..🙂

i would have to say gemini's handle aquarians very welll...like our distant/aloofness/coldness/ and being eccentric doesnt exist to them just..works.