emotional vs. physical cheating

I've read many times on this site that aquarius are pretty faithful when they've found the right one. Does it matter if the cheating is only physical versus emotionaL?

Once I love a woman, (just once in my entire life) as long as what she does doesn't cross the line of the standards we set going through this relationship, nothing else really matters.

Im an aquarius, and pretty much keeping it real and being truthful reguardless if its negative or positive will work out with me smoothly.

...and oh yea, NO cheating is ok. NONE.

Even though I don't tolerate physical I find emotional cheating to be the most painful. Either one is grounds for immediate break up for me.

no cheating is NOT okay

and in all honesty cheating is not okay even if its not the "right" one. its just not okay. either you're with someone or you're not. simple.

"emotional" cheating is just as dishonest as physical cheating and therefore not acceptable as well. besides emotional cheating only leads to the physical kind anyways...you're just preparing.

Well one, when an Aqua is in love with you, the literally know how to block out any possible future mental connections with others. And emotional cheating is nothing more than 2 people who have an emotional connection. For example, when an Aqua detaches from someone they love, they are gone forever (mentally). They might still stick around & physically hang around in their partner's presence but once something is done it's done. Well it's the same thing with cheating. Once an Aqua has committed to you, they block out the possibility of even allowing themselves to even get to the point where someone else outside of their relationship can even have a powerful emotional effect on them.

Truly commited Aquas aren't the types to be on the internet surfing on dating website or hanging out at the clubs b/c they already know that there are certain places where emotional connections with others are likely possible over time. And it's not that they stay away from certain situations b/c they have to, it's b/c they want to. Once an Aqua truly commits to you they won't even have the urge for variety or for anything else. Keep in mind, an Aqua will only commit to you once they feel that you've fulfilled them emotionally (in terms of a connection) anyways. So to an Aqua, if they already feel like they've got everything they want, then they literally won't have a need to search for or seek out anything better or different. And b/c Aquas are so good at observing and reading people's intentions, an Aqua will spend so much time trying to analyze a threat to their relationship that they won't even have the time to allow themselves to connect to someone else. Now, don't get me wrong, you can't help who you connect with. But is it common for a truly committed Aqua to emotionally or physically cheat? No. And if they do it's b/c you were never fulfilling their desires. And just like with anyone, most people date & search their whole lives until they find someone who finally provides that "UMPH" for them. And usually an Aqua won't commit unless they feel that "UMPH!" anyways. And hell, once you emotionally remove yourself out of your relationship it's only a matter of time before your sense of self control decreases physically, thus resulting in physically cheating. ALL Cheating starts out emotional first, whether it starts b/c they're cheating to fulfill their OWN inner desires, OR b/c they've spotted someone who can fulfill it for them

krysrenee7 said:

"Truly commited Aquas aren't the types to be on the internet surfing on dating website or hanging out at the clubs b/c they already know that there are certain places where emotional connections with others are likely possible over time. "


This is SO true. My aqua hubby told me this time and time again, and i thought it was a load of sh*t, but when one of his friends joked with me, saying that i had p-whipped him becuase they could never get him to go to the club, i felt a light bulb going off.

My hubby says that there is no reason for him to go to the club, becuase he doesn't have a need for what he would do at the club, a "waste of time".

I can remember asking him if he could he ever have a secert gf outside of our marrige (just sorta joking after watching that silly Cheaters show) and he said "hell no, its too much work to go out and date, i dont wanna waste time on opening doors and talking about my fav color, i can be real with you and get to the real important things in life with you."

My heart melted when he said that to me... but damn, i told him, "can a sister get a car door opened once in a while in a marrige?" (jk). I respect his honesty, even though it is shocking at times (you darned aquas-- is why i love ya'll!)

Posted by MorpheusLaffing
no cheating is NOT okay

and in all honesty cheating is not okay even if its not the "right" one. its just not okay. either you're with someone or you're not. simple.

"emotional" cheating is just as dishonest as physical cheating and therefore not acceptable as well. besides emotional cheating only leads to the physical kind anyways...you're just preparing.

So Deep, yet so true!!

GM