Fellow aqua oppinions on these charts/situation?

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Her:

Sun Leo
Moon Gemini
Mercury Leo
Venus Virgo
Mars Leo
Jupiter Gemini
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Libra
Asc node Aquarius

Me:

Sun Aquarius
Moon Aries
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Pisces
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Sagittarius
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Capricorn
Asc node Cancer

Background: She posted online looking for someone to help with her schooling via e-mail, and this has been our only form of communication. In the past, conversations with other people and I fizzle in less than 10 messages typically starting from several paragraphs and ending with a sentence or two.. With this person we've sent over 40 between each other and they are very lengthy, she's really piqued my intellectual side greatly and I'm starting to become interested. She's mentioned that she has a boyfriend but repeatedly speaks of how she doesn't see it working out with him and is talking of us getting together and doing mutual interests in the future, and has even gone as far as giving sexual innuendo as of late... (I've not tried pursuing anything relationship wise, or recommend any actions for her to take with her bf as it's not my place) Anyways like I mentioned I'm becoming interested and I don't know how to read between the charts at all and would like some insight. Thanks everyone.
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It represents difficulties.

"The Square: This aspect creates tension between the planets and points involved. Tension is necessary in order to stimulate action, but too much tension translates to stress. The planets involved in a square are acting at cross purposes. With squares, we may overdo and run into countless obstacles before we "get it right". However, squares force us out of complacency and get the ball rolling. Squares are often more difficult when we are young, as these aspects force us to grow and learn our lessons."

http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/aspectsinastrology.html
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Yeah man I didn't know this leo was in a relationship already... when you had your last post... The way I look at stuff like this is... If she going to leave him for you who's to say she won't leave you for the next great thing that comes along... I never liked getting with girls already with someone else OR for that matter just broke up with someone else that shit always confuses the matter 10x over.
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well hi double pisces in mars and venus like me I see. You know what guard yourself. You probably want this to go somewhere but too scared of it yourself.

This is just me going by charts tbh. You want there to be a real connection, intellectual and emotional. She is just probably excited you are different to her boyfriend and just temporarily hotheaded in wanting to know if she can have you, probably even just physically. I've met girls like this before and yep it'll hurt afterwards!

Can I just ask if your interactions have been solely via email? Do you know what each other look like or no? And when you say she's asking for more via these emails, are you sure you have not said anything to make her think that way? You can be honest here. And how the hell did the topic of BFs come up in the first place if you were just tutoring her online? *shrugs*

Sorry but something just doesn't seem right here and you probably know it in your gut as well. Meet up, do what you will but seriously? Guard yourself and don't ask for anything more until she breaks it off.

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BlueSandCacoon: Thanks for the information and link! 🙂

WheresWally: I understand completely, it's just shear curiosity is all that I wanted to have them compared. I have zero intention of doing anything outside of e-mail until action is made on her end.

NotYourAverageAquarius: I know what you mean, but realistically the area I live in dating is terrible and most women are married young around here. There isn't a lot of opportunity in general for myself with dating due to my strenuous schedule and such that I am just trying to be open.

aquasnoz: Out of all of the relationships I've had I've yet to find one that has anything intellectual and that's what is really drawing me in here.. To answer your questions: interaction has been solely e-mail. We do know what each other look like as she wanted to put a picture to who she was talking to and equally after I sent pictures I wanted to see as well.. We've been discussing so many various topics and hobbies and things that she told me her and her dad do a particular hobby yearly and told me it would be great if I would come out to join. I specifically stayed away from anything that would lead to us meeting in the future until she started throwing out little things like that. The e-mails started out specifically about schooling as we were both in our finals, and she began wanting to know more about myself from family/hobbies, whether I was married/kids/girlfriend etc, to which I told her "No wife/gf/kids at this point in life, things seem pretty stressful as is and I don't think most would be very understanding of all of my time going to this program like it requires."... On the 6th e-mail from her she told me a lot about herself and here is exactly where she went with the bf thing.

"I have been dating someone who is 27, and I am 23. I am much more mature than he is unfortunately and we have been trying to figure out what is best for us and if we should be together for the past month. I told him that if things dont get better at all by the end of Jan, I cant stay. No big deal I just like you lack time to work on relationships."

The e-mails progressively started showing more and more interest and I thought I was just imagining and sent copies of the e-mails to two friends for their personal opinions and they both felt she was certainly into me. This whole thing was to be "Just Friends" and all but I feel like she's taking a different interest as the messages go on.


Sorry for the
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I haven't seen the show you mentioned, I haven't had cable tv in years so most shows go unwatched.. As far as myself I don't view this as any challenge, I haven't and wont speak of her boyfriend nor try to convince her to stay or go in her relationships as thats all none of my business. I'm not a player by any means and don't have the time for such drama. I'm an honest hardworking individual just trying to be open minded about there being someone out there in the world for me.
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Well I can definitely sense you have a deeper connection with this girl 🙂 Which is good and I suppose which is why I told you to guard yourself. It's just me personally I have never connected on such a level via online means, not saying that it doesn't exist or that it's bad.

I'm kinda judging all this on the basis your thinking is much like mine so ask yourself truly if you doubt her intentions, do you feel that she is genuine COMPLETELY (though my moon is pisces) and if your aries moon is somewhat trying to jump the gun for an answer just feel it out a bit more I guess.

Definitely meet up in person for sure! See where the chemistry leads 🙂

I see a lot of people here saying the whole "she has a bf thing!" you know I do agree here but if she doesn't want to be with him and you're not actively breaking them up then I see no harm done if she leaves him for you. As for what NYAA said there's truth in that but I'll give you example where my friend was the constant cheater, ended up with a rebound and they've been together for about 6 years now. When it comes to this stuff I'd rather listen to my heart so decide what you really want.