alright so i have been with this aqua for about two years. we loved each other, and its obvious he loved me. However, lately he got it into his mind that he didnt want to be with me bc he hurts me to much. I asked him not to give up on us so easily bc i know how hard it can be being that im a Gemini and we tend to run close in what we think. Well he left for a few days and when he came back he was really distant. I asked him how he was and he said fine, and asked me "how are you doing? just asking as a friend would." and i said i was doing fine. and he said alright. then said he was leaving and said he was happy that we could stay friends. i told him i didnt want to stay friends, and if thats what he wanted fine, but i had to go my own way. he said hes sorry i felt that way but he just couldnt. i said ok. he said sorry and bye. and i said bye. he stayed on and then logged off when i did. the next night though he sent me a " 🙂" and i never replied. He deleted himself today and im just wondering if this is the end of that?
Help Me Understand.
Why did he think he hurt you ? A very important issue here.
well he thinks he will end up hurting me bc everytime something goes wrong he runs. We talked about it and the last time we did he just said "I'm stupid when it comes to relationships". In all honesty i dont see it as stupid bc i know how Aqua males work in that, as well as he doesnt understand how he can keep pushing me away when it has been two years, and i think the two years are alot to him. Hes not fully Aquarius. hes on a cusp like i am. Hes a Cap/Aqua and im a Gem/Cancer. And i tried to explain to him that didnt matter. He said that he did want to keep me around. One of his friends i had been talking to that knows him for like ever, said that she thinks he just needed time and room to breathe. Said that he needed a wake up call bc of all the girls hes been with most has used him and she can tell just from how he speaks and ask that he does love me, but hes showing all of them instead of me. She and him speak alot. She also said that one time they were speaking he said he wanted to be with me, but with the fact hes always working and on top of that hes about to move to go to school this week hes too busy. So i guess ill just have to let go.

Just give it some time. Good luck!
i guess i have to since hes gone now. :/

I would imagine that he's been thinking about it for some time. Whatever his reasons are they're unlikely to be 100% to do with you. If he's said goodbye then he means it.
I'm yet to meet an Aqua that doesn't mean it when they say goodbye. I myself, am an Aqua, and I've NEVER gone back to a relationship I've said goodbye to.
I'm sorry for your upset, but don't wait for him. Big hugs xx
I'm yet to meet an Aqua that doesn't mean it when they say goodbye. I myself, am an Aqua, and I've NEVER gone back to a relationship I've said goodbye to.
I'm sorry for your upset, but don't wait for him. Big hugs xx
well i know thats hes been super busy lately with work and the new start of school, and actually this isnt the first time hes said goodbye. This is actually the reason i cut it off with saying no to the friendship. and thanks 🙂
Yah take a step back and get busy. I think he is still young and hasn't decided what is for him yet so that's why he feels no confidence being with you. Time will tell. For now, put him out of your mind and go on with your life.
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