How can you tell if your Aqua man misses you?

So aqua man, and I are doing well. We either text, or glide day to day. All day, everyday. There are times when he will wake up in the middle of the night, and say "babe, or baby." And he will spark up a random conversation. I hear an I love you day to day. So he actually a very affectionate person. He's told me I've missed you before, its not often, he will instead say.."I can't wait to see you." "can we talk I really wanna hear your voice.."

I haven't slept all that much today, and I was sort of busy today, so we didn't talk today. So I texted him saying I loved him, and Id be sleep for the rest of the time being. I was tired but now I can't sleep lol, but he hasn't responded no I love you tkk ...no I miss you.. I suck lol, but I'm itching to say I can't sleep or I miss you...

The pettyness in me is sad lol.

Lol gotcha

@Huldra

I know he really does. I know he's probably tired he work 12 hours everyday for 2weeks at a time, and some how makes time enough to sneak away and talk with me. Extra rest. I'm being stingy🙂I know. He works very very hard.

i really don't understand what your problem is. when i see your posts i understand how unsettled and twisted my cancer man is...and realise how normal i am despite all those aqua quirks. i think an aqua will finally get bored and tired of all this overanalisis of yours...

Posted by BeaCancer91
@Huldra

I know he really does. I know he's probably tired he work 12 hours everyday for 2weeks at a time, and some how makes time enough to sneak away and talk with me. Extra rest. I'm being stingy🙂I know. He works very very hard.

I think you have to be self assured by the fact that if he's still "around" you then he loves you and does miss you even if he may not be thinking about you 24 hours a day 7 days a week while he's awake, asleep, working, taking a shit etc...

But from what I know/assuming is probably by certain comments or actions like when they get excited to tell you about something...or how they react when your not around when they typically assume you are...how much they mention you by name to others...stuff like that.

It's all indirect things I would think.

@mz.

apart from his sign,he the thinker. He thinks so heavily, he analyzes a lot of things, then he re- thinks and processes again. We've been talking about how he thinks to much all day. He's got me beat in that.

*is

@thisiscrap

That's to much lol, that's crazy.

OMG! You sound sooooo needy.

How do you tell whether an aquaman misses you? Simple. He tells you.


If he didn't miss you, he wouldn't tell youl

Posted by BeaCancer91
@mz.

apart from his sign,he the thinker. He thinks so heavily, he analyzes a lot of things, then he re- thinks and processes again. We've been talking about how he thinks to much all day. He's got me beat in that.

you're self-sabotaging...stop it!

Now hold on a second

According to your own testimony, this guy never misses a beat...he always responds to your messages & calls...he always engages in mushy convos with you

But yet all b/c he didn't respond this ONE time, you're ready to start overanalyzing & questioning his love or desire for you? Oh that is so not fair!!

To answer your question: How will you know if your Aqua man misses you? He'll tell you. And sometimes he'll tell you on Monday but not on Tuesday. Sometimes he'll respond within 30 secs to your text messages & other times he'll have the nerve and right to take 2 hours instead.

Please don't start the trend in your situationship or relationship where you ruin the vibe & get petty all b/c he's not available to you 24 hours a day. I get it, women get so used to a specific level and pace of communication that when 1 thing even seems slightly off, they notice & their senses perk up, making their imagination go crazy. But this inner tantrum or worry isn't credible, nor something to actually miss sleep over.

Yes, sometimes he will have the audacity to not be available at your every beck & call, although he might be on other days. If you can't handle that now, sweetheart you're in for a lonnnnnng road of being with miserable men who are miserable with you b/c of your sudden sense of entitlement that turns into an unnecessary change in vibe with things.

Sounds like he's a good guy. Don't ruin it being petty. Don't ruin it by allowing his every word or action to dictate your every word, feeling or reaction. That's a dangerous game to play in relationships although your emotions may naturally want to play that game.

A man may love a woman to the moon and back and yet still not be available every 2 seconds or answer her calls like a puppy in heat. He's not always gonna jump when you say jump. If this is something about you that you've struggled with in the past before, get that shit together now before a good man notices & docks points for it lol PICK YOUR BATTLES! And this my dear is not a fair battle or really a battle at all!

@krysrenee

I like what you said. I really do! Sound advice!

@Krysrenee

Yes ma'am lol

I still think its through actions moreso than words.

I guess the point they are making is "have faith"

If that's not good enough then you can just bug him to death about it and then ruin the relationship 😛