Well maybe it will have to be on his terms I guess, but at least you've both been honest. It may be another year yet before it can happen due to uni and other things that you have mentioned. I would say to let him bring it up and yes not to go too much on about it. What happens in a year? You can't be sure but the fact is he has mentioned moving in together so he seems to like the idea. Just let the relationship progress naturally. Making plans, promises isn't always easy but I'm sure that once you finish uni that you can look at the options more clearly in a years time.
i agree with aquaguy7. if your change in tactics have worked thus far, continue along that same course. pushing and prodding will not move him in the direction you want him to go. imagine trying to push air. the best thing u can do is block it off but eventually it will find a crack and escape. you "trap" an aqua by not trapping them.
i think yr aqua is thinking practically too. finish school. if you get jobs in the same area. AND IF things r still going well...if he doesnt feel blocked or stifled by you, maybe then he'll move forward with you. i know, it sucks to leave all the decisions to man. i struggle with it myself but in the end, i ask myself a simple question. do you plan on getting down on one knee or do you expect him to? if it's going to be him then, respect the fact that he wants to do it in his own time. if you want it to happen quicker, then get that knee dusty or find someone who moves a lil faster.
so all that to say, keep doing what works.
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