How to tell ..

When Aquarius man is into you..I am a Libra who has been seeeing an Aquarius man for a couple of months now..I can truly say he is diffent,supportive,caring etc..Everythng is great but the detatchment and the disappearing acts sometimes get to me..I want my space too but the more i get into him the more I want to hear from him and not even neccesarily be around him.We have awesome and mind blowin chemistry and love his honesty..but what are some clues that they are into you?

First off, the whole disappearing act that Aquas tend to do every once in a while is not just limited to happening ONLY to their partners or who they are dating. Aquas (men AND women) tend to pull the disappearing acts with their friends, family members, co-workers; so in other words, if he's just pulling the "distant" act every once in a while, then I don't that it's any personal reflection on how he feels for you as a woman b/c he has the need to "pull away" from everybody, not just you. So one, you've got to stop taking that personal & assuming that every time he starts to distance himself that it means you must be doing something wrong. Now don't get me wrong, if an Aqua starts pulling the "distance" thing every other week then that's a whole new ballgame. But with Aqua men, they don't usually waste someone's time (keeping up with communication, etc.) if they know nothing beneficial will ever come of his friendship or partnership with you. If he didn't like you or already made up his mind that you were not someone worth getting to know further, he'd show you alot better than he could tell you & usually he'd express those feelings through completely leaving you alone & cutting off all communication with you little by little until there is nothing left.

Here are some signs that your Aqua is into you?

-When YOU are the one who starts the conversation, he really gets deep into it & finds himself rambling on and on. This may be annoying to you b/c it may seem like he's taken over the whole conversation, but really this just means that your Aqua feels comfortable sharing his intellectually side with you & felt that you were on his level intellectually in order for you to even understand him in that way.

-When he actually calls you back when he says he will. Aqua men won't be all clingy & all desperate for your attention. Sure, deep inside they might really want to scoop you up into their arms, but they always play it cool b/c of their fear of looking like the "fool." If an Aqua finds himself calling you back around the time he said he would then that means that his urge to talk to you or see you was probably just as great & just as PRIORITY as it was for you.

-When he starts to appear to be chasing you, and being very blunt with you in how much he cares for you & in other words, really starts to pour his heart on his sleeve with/for you, that's usually a sign that an Aqua is into you

Always keep in mind that Aquas never do more than they have to. They are not the ones to add anything "extra." If he always calls you back like he said he would, it's b/c he wanted to (and not necessarily b/c he didn't want to hurt your feelings).

-If he starts to be very direct, always telling you how much he cares & loves to spend time with you, know that he's telling you this b/c he means it & hopes that you don't pick him wearing his heart on his sleeve as a time to be skeptical & assume that it's all bull. Aquas usually don't lead on others who they've already decided wouldn't be of any emotional or intellectual gain for them in the long run. And when he's actually being direct & appearing to be chasing after you (almost in a clingy sense), that's b/c he's showing you that he's ready to show you how he REALLY feels. Aqua men will never do EXTRA or make themselves look like the desperate ones or the clingy one if they're dealing with someone they really don't care for. If an Aqua starts to get closer to you, it's b/c he literally feels it in his heart to be closer with you;

-If he's always wanting to have those "deep" and "unlimited topic" conversations with you, that's a good thing b/c Aquas will NEVER conversate (for long) with someone that is not on their level, intellectually. The first & best way to an Aqua's heart is through the mind & once they feel comfortable sharing their mindset with you (on a personal level, aside from how he conversates with others) then that's something you need to take seriously & as a compliment

Thank you so much for that krysrenee7 .....I don't show that it kills me..like he always says patience,patience(lol). I hate when he says that but I'm fine with it cause I know he's right! i usually do start the convos..We talk for hours!Thanks so much...Next I have to deal with the non-attentiveness,lol..

Boy....what a question?...I remember I was seeing an aqua and we hung out for abut 3 motnhs...Everything was going awesome until he started telling all of this bad stuff about me to my friends...I asked one of my friends what he said about me and they didnt even want to tell me because it was that bad...After he said all of that stuff he started ignoring me and it went downhill from there