I cut it off with this Aquarius man and....

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QueenVictoria22
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I'm a Cancer female and we talked for two and half months, long distance (we never met in person but we went to the same school as teenagers) so I know he's real. Lol anyways , I found out that he was talking to another girl ,because I sensed something fishy and because he posted it on Facebook about they were on the "phone all night" and that "she's a keeper", that night he was certainly not talking to me. So the next morning I ended it because we did agree on not talking to anybody else, and he didn't keep his words. I felt lied to, especially after he made it sound like I was the only he wanted and he wasn't going anywhere. HA. I ended very harsh I told him how stupid he made me feel and how I thought we really had a connection and that since he's talking to someone else then I don't want to talk to him anymore and I told him to delete me from all social media and I i told him not to "like" my photos or anything. And he just said okay and told me to delete his number. Right after I said that he went on my facebook "liked" a bunch of my pics,poked me, AND then deleted me. I was so furious. Then 5 days later he likes my photos again on Facebook after I told him not to. Then last night at 2am he texts me "hi..." and I didn't text back because at first I didn't recognize the number then I realized it was him so I put "who's this?" And he never responded. I'm getting annoyed by his strange behavior, it's like he wants to talk to me and then it seems like he doesn't? Is he toying with me? ADVICE please
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AquaWillis
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If he's a big kid both of you will have no problems cutting them off to the OP and Virgoyum, if you two were serious you would have cut both of the Aqua males off that you're dealing with, but there must be something about them making you two stay and post about them on social media. So apparently there's something about them that you two can't get enough enough.

Cut them off or keep them, don't keep letting them hold you and you don't know what you want.
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Posted by QueenVictoria22
I'm a Cancer female and we talked for two and half months, long distance (we never met in person but we went to the same school as teenagers) so I know he's real. Lol anyways , I found out that he was talking to another girl ,because I sensed something fishy and because he posted it on Facebook about they were on the "phone all night" and that "she's a keeper", that night he was certainly not talking to me. So the next morning I ended it because we did agree on not talking to anybody else, and he didn't keep his words. I felt lied to, especially after he made it sound like I was the only he wanted and he wasn't going anywhere. HA. I ended very harsh I told him how stupid he made me feel and how I thought we really had a connection and that since he's talking to someone else then I don't want to talk to him anymore and I told him to delete me from all social media and I i told him not to "like" my photos or anything. And he just said okay and told me to delete his number. Right after I said that he went on my facebook "liked" a bunch of my pics,poked me, AND then deleted me. I was so furious. Then 5 days later he likes my photos again on Facebook after I told him not to. Then last night at 2am he texts me "hi..." and I didn't text back because at first I didn't recognize the number then I realized it was him so I put "who's this?" And he never responded. I'm getting annoyed by his strange behavior, it's like he wants to talk to me and then it seems like he doesn't? Is he toying with me? ADVICE please



When you haven't met in person, it isn't real. There is no face to face interaction and no in person chemistry. It's just not a real relationship. I wouldn't put any stock into anything unless you are actually dating. Sure, you can have on-line friends and develop an on-line relationship, but when you don't see each other face to face it's like having a pen pal, or an imaginary friend that just talks back to you.

So, that said, since it's not a real relationship in the realistic sense of relationships, both of you are free to do as you please.

I don't mean to sound cold or insensitive, it's just my humble opinion.

Signed,
Aquarius Mars