@Zetarose
11 YearsVirgo
Typical for an ex Aquarius bf?
Understanding Aquarius Ex Boyfriend Behavior
Aquarius exes may become distant or appear rude if they feel hurt or betrayed. They often hide their true emotions and can withdraw to protect themselves. This behavior is a defense mechanism and does not necessarily mean they do not care. Each individual may react differently based on their personality and circumstances.
yes I had one aqua man in my life and well.. i did apologized to him that I acted the way I acted and he got really nasty with me. Even though he said that I am all good and the most amazing woman he has ever been with, he said that he is disgusted with me. Well, alrighty then.. saying real bad things about me, but the same time putting good stuff in between. BUT for the friends he acted like we never were together and he never wanted me etc.
but the other aqua who I am still with, when we first broke up, he was a puppy-eye. he couldnt say no bad thing about me.
It is happening in my case with a friend.
She lied and did everything bad. I suspected it and I got enough to believe in January that she is not trustworthy. The moment that happened, I cut ties with her as if it was all easy and I never cared about the friendship. Deep down, it hurt but then the person was worthless.
I don't say anything bad about her though to anyone. But, I hate her for sure. No going back even if she apologizes in the future.
Posted by Zetarose
Do they typically get rude and distant like they never knew who you were and never had anything between them and the ex; if they feel hurt by that person, like maybe they do have feelings but do everything to hide them?? When a person deep down hurts an aqua male - will he act this way?
IME, yes, they can be like this. Even if they were the person that hurt themselves. I've been involved with two and they both were like this - at least for several months - regardless of who ended it or how it initially ended.
Very capable of this action speaks louder than words..they're fixed too. Once they make their minds up...I meet more Aquarius than any other sign....very physically attractive towards my magnetic field...
They're rude too and critical. Best lovers
for short term. I have Aquarius moon too.
If you hurt us, we have a way of detaching and icing you out. It doesn't mean we didn't care. It's out self preservation. It's how we deal with the pain. Once the process is done, there's nothing in our minds you can do to reverse it.
Isn't it normal behavior to detach from someone who hurt you? I think that's human nature in general.
You were used to being in that inner circle, and now you're not. He's probably not even purposely icing you out. He just tapped into his survival instinct and distanced. You're just not feeling the warmth because as a member of the outer circle, you're further away from the source of the heat.
Did this help you understand your situation?
dxpnet has hosted real conversations like this since 2000. If you value independent communities, you can support the site below.
Every contribution helps keep dxpnet independent and ad-light.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →
Do they typically get rude and distant like they never knew who you were and never had anything between them and the ex; if they feel hurt by that person, like maybe they do have feelings but do everything to hide them?? When a person deep down hurts an aqua male - will he act this way?