I'm an Aquarius in love with a Pisces with Ex...

I've met this guy from BBM sometime five months ago. We had a rough start because we never defined our relationship. So it was just all casual at start.

About a month ago, we talked about what's between the two of us. And we agreed to be "above friends" with no commitment. The reason for this is because we still want to look into the possibility of us being together however, the guy is still hung up on his ex. He finds it unfair that he will commit to me and he still has feelings for his ex.

At that moment, I have always supported him to finally meet and talk to his ex. Of course, he wants his ex back. I know that. But, at the very least, things would get clearer if they get to talk. He never told me that he was actually going to the province back and forth to see his ex but to no avail. He revealed this to me just earlier.

I need your advice. He doesn't want me to go, he told me he'll be sad. However, I think he needs time to think about everything but he doesn't want me to go. And it's really hard for me to let him go.

I need your input guys.

He's still being unfair by stringing you along. He's full of shit and you shouldn't put up with it, imo. Are you ok with being treated this way?

If you are not, then just leave him. He'll have to get over it.

If you are, then ask yourself what are you doing here in the first place.

Posted by BlueSandCacoon
He's still being unfair by stringing you along. He's full of shit and you shouldn't put up with it, imo. Are you ok with being treated this way?

If you are not, then just leave him. He'll have to get over it.

If you are, then ask yourself what are you doing here in the first place.

Sounds solid.

Posted by Pecheresse
I'd say turn the tables and get the upper hand. Have you own power back. The rest won't matter as much anymore.

PS: You don't love *him*. You love a figment of your own imagination. Don't forget that.

I will do this. I will distance myself for a while. Just to see if anything's gonna get through him. I won't lie, I hope he does come to me but... I'm not expecting it.

He needs to miss you, Go AWOL, the push and pull effect.

Posted by guccigemini55
He needs to miss you, Go AWOL, the push and pull effect.

Well my problem is. That I have a strong force, he will definitely be missing me. But a stronger pull from the ex, can repel that and so maybe he may think it won't be worth it to think about me.