Aquarius & Pisces?? Anyone brave enough to share??

I dont ever hear of Aquarius & Pisces relationships! Are they just walking past us because we are too difficult to figure out?? Not seeing us because we are quiet & in our caves checking out everyone else before we make our next move? Or maybe they are the 1st to get turned off when we start to feel smothered...and they gypsy off to the scorpions where it works??!

Share your experience!!!

Lisa xxx

Best friend was in one and had two kids. He went psycho over her. Needed constant reassurance that she was in love with him, he could never get her to give him the attention he wanted, and he became obsessed.

Hmmm...i dunno.
My bestest aqua dude friend got wind that i liked him and ran away, then started being a jerk to me. I cut him off because this pisces girl (points to self) doesn't tolerate being treated like shit after being the cool chick i have been 😛 lol. Oh he'll be back when curiousity strikes....you aquas just gotta give us a little bit more to work with. we're not out to steal your life away and cling like a leech....

I still love 'em though 🙂

Oh they exist alright...

You know, honestly, I like them too, I think my friend's ex is just a psycho in general, and it has nothing to do with being a Pisces. I know a pisces girl that is pretty rad, in my opinion, very sweet, honest, and hilarious sense of humor. However...she does tend to be a bit melodramatic, if I was a guy...not sure I would dig it so much, but all in all, it just depends on the person, not the sign. I think moon and venus placements make a big difference, too.

OMG!!!! that Off-Key Game paragraph couldnt be anymore true....Wow. The entire thing is true actually. I cant get the rest without buying the book but here you are, enjoy.

I see alot more Aquarious' and Pisces friendships lasting longer than relationships with the two

🙂 @ SF

I absolutely loved that page!!! Do you have anymore—


Can you tell I'm in love with a pisces guy. I'm wondering if his earthyness is a part of his sign. And I was NEVER prepared for the extra ten emotions you guys seem to have? I knew the basics, but MY WORD!! That man can feel some pretty powerful things!!

Aquapixie said it!!

The constant need for reassurance. Ya know I'm just an aqua girl that feels comfort from being left alone. He seeks comfort in the opposite so he seems to think I dont care when he doesnt get the constant attention that we are still cool. But I absolutely LUUURVE the way he tosses his head back & looks at me with those pisces eyes when I put my arms around him & say something he likes & he says to me "Now, Where did THAT come from"?

It steals my heart every time.

Its starts with great ease (good for aqua and apparently pisces men), but longterm is tough for sure. We just have very different approaches to life.

Well all I know is this pisces I'm after is cool and sweet, game is on, exchanged numbers etc. But when the aloof aqua deceided to speak out 5 words (no it wasn't a mumble I assure you) "let's go out for coffee", pisces gave aqua a hard sentence to think about all week "coffee sounds good but I'm busy for the next few days I'll let you know when".

And I rule out that she's fooling around. So unless she acts like a typical sensitive pisces scared to open up and needs time then she's probably in the friends zone. Any ideas please ? otherwise if you hear an explosion that will be my mind too much analyzing !!

Basically I can't tell, I keep in touch with her once in a while (normally via funny email once or twice a week), also expressing my admiration on her. Last week she did emailed me without me having emailed first but it was not about the coffee date. I wouldn't wonder if I didn't receive sthg positive from her. Anyway I intend to email her tomorrow. There has been changes at work and I will be moving to another area (we currently work in the same area, take same bus etc). So I will be telling her indirectly that this is it and if she still wants to go out for coffee she can call/text me, I tried enough. Btw is it true about pisces hesitating to show their emotions and takes time before shyness goes out of the windows ?

I have to try :-\ with my ex-cancer I did that but it seems I changed a lot in that aspect while trying to correct my mistakes that I did with my ex.

This by the way made me realize sthg about myself, that although a freedom lover and also freedom respecter, when it comes to personal choices I somehow became possessive because I'm very selective. However the truth is that you need to let others free so they will came back to you, otherwise it doesn't work.

Starfish last (and final) update, I emailed her today (last time was Sunday to wish for Easter, she responded) to tell her that I will be moving buildings at work so I won't see her on the bus etc wishing her to take care and hinting if the coffee out is still valid she can let me know. She responded being sympathetic and still said she's busy and offered alternative to meed her on a Sunday in her local Church (yes she's somehow a bit religious). What I replied is although I'm not that loyal I can try to meet her in Church if that's what she wants but we will go for coffee afterwards to get to know each other as we both agreeded to do it. I ended it there saying hope I can hear from you, take care. No reply so far and she used to reply quite fast. Seems when I push her a little she vanishes. Although I decided to follow your saying and leave it, I would appreciate a comment 🙂

Although an aqua dreamer I'm aware it might not work starfish, just she was quite nice and responsive. The other pisces that really liked me was the exact opposite, she literaly knocking on my door, she felt I was inside, I didn't respond. It seems pisces can be hunters if they're into sthg 🙂

True..i know it's not all about signs but good to find there's another sign out there being open minded like mine

I think Aquarious & Pisces friendships are normally very strong. One because Aquarians love to seek out & help the Pisces make decisions & help them through difficult times. And Pisces loves this about their Aquarian friend b/c we never give up on them. BUT I think the downfall to an Aquarious/Pisces relationship or friendship is that Pisces know Aquarians are VERY GOOD at seeing straight through other people & figuring them out & Pisces hate to be found out when they thought they were invincible. Plus, Pisces requires a little bit more attention than the average Aquarian so if anything, Pisces might feel that we are only around sometimes, but not always. And we (Aquarians) would do anything for those we care about, BUT we still need our space & know when to step out of others situations in order to focus on our own.

Hi everyone,I am new to this board..so I guess since I am in Aqua Board my primary interest is to explore my relationship with this aqua guy I am dating.I am a pisces and I have known this aqua since june of 07.Nothing like I have encountered before very differtent but still has an impact on me.I have read your forums before and I feel there is a lot of truth in them.I have a few questions of my own..

I am a pisces and very mature and practical.Yet this guy is such a mystery some times I am just puzzeled..I wonder why he wants to be with me?Even though I am a pisces with capricorn rising,mer and venus in aqua I myself am very detached and it takes a lot for me to be really interested in someone.Not that I want to brag but I am very good looking ,educated and fairly successful but no one has been able to raise my curiosity and interest level like this aqua.Typical aqua ..minimum contact..ups and downs,no definatinon of the relationship even fights I am not the one to back down and get walked over but somehow he still manages to stay in my life.I don't understand it.I wonder what he wants.I will go into the details once I get some response from you guys.

Well here is the story..
We met through a dating web site.
I didn't like him in the begining I thought he was a brat,very stubborn.We went on a date well you can hardly call it that but we met up for drinks and I really ddidn't know where to place him.I am very guarded with my emotions but its like he sees through me..after our first date I didn't contact him since I thought This wouldn't work.I was dating other people as well and then he started calling me friendly calls want to grab a drink kind.since we don't live too far from each other we started seeing each other almost every evening..long story short I fell for him but I never showed it.He disappeard and appeared again and again in these 10 months.The most he has ever said is 1)he feels happy with me2)He thinks there is a connection.3)He introduces me to his friend and aquintances as his girlfriend acts like a boyfriend.4)Kisses publicaly 5)Can't keep his hands of me.
I cut it off with him for a little over 2 months didn't pick his calls.Than finally talked to him (this was a feb 13th)and know he calls and spend substancial time with we every weekend and when I questioned him in a joking way he said that we both are testing the waters.What do you think he wants from me.You know I could ask him but don't want to at this time so I need some advice.I have never pursued him even though I want and like him I never tell him that.I may even be in love with him but would not ever say anything to him.The attraction is insane.From him no big words no serious talks just a sweet smile some genuine affection sense of togethernes.I am not complaining but I want to know if aquas really care if they act like that or they don't feel anything.I don't doubt the fact that he feels something but than why doesn't he say something.10 months of ups and downs..he does all the calling and an ocassional text from me mostly about something errelevent..and he hates those not a text email or long talks over the phone or off the phone kind of a guy.What do I make out of this.I feel a bond but there is no verbalization af anything..it is a guessing game.I don't even know if I will see him this weekend,I never ask and he never tells no plans ever.

strangest relationship I have ever had.No calls during the week just a call to meet up was never into much sex (it was occasionally)either we could have had more of that but both of us held back.After I cut off for a couple off months compleately,and we are seeing each other atleast once a week he is never in a roush to end the evening and stays back longer,cuddles,hugs kisses andsmiles,much more sexual this time aroundas well.Just much more comfortable physically this time around but never says anything..What do I make of it?Since he never says much and I am hesitant to bring it up I tend to be reserved with verbal expression as well.

shizy..what does venus in aquarious mean.I am just amazed that even after all the male attention I get I still am into him like that.

You know Shizy..we are very intuitive aren't we?Do you think these kind of relationships get any where?I have dated scorps..my ideal mate couldn't stand them too boring for me,libras good company and can be fun but beyond that not much stimulation.Capris can't hold my interest for long.Never dated an aqua before and this is a first but what I have for him is genuine affection,his aloofness makes mr think and gets me more interested since i guess i have some aqua in me as well.I have never been able to turn down his last minute meet ups either though for other people that was impossible..I do make it clear to him that I could easily not meet him since his plans are so last minute but I would meet him because he makes me curious and this may be the only way we can meet(no show of emotion/feeling/explanations on this topic from either of us though)I would like him to be a little more vocal though.Do you ever think he will be?

you know my question is why does he disappear?why does he come back?Why can't he call in between?why doesn't he ever say anything?Even though he acts and even introduces me as his girlfriend and i don't really object to that..don't you think he should ask me to be his girfriend..or acknowledge this fact with me..why is he so quite about things?

i don't ask

I just shake my head and say something like ..babe why would you say that?and he says nothing ,he just ignores it.

we smile alot and sometime if there is a mirror around he likes to look hold me and look into my eyes in the mirror,it can be so romantic.But why can't he talk about it?I am dying to hear something from him.Its crazy and a little frustrating.

Acyually i did once..and he said he/we are testing the waters.Now what did he mean by that?Should I assume that he is my boyfriend and we are in a relationship?

well Bijou he will have to approach this topic first.I can't do it.Because if he comes up with something weird I can get very logicaland detached and that would put some strain on it.I let him do whatever comes naturally to him.As much as he tests and observers me I do the same.I just want to know how long can these people(aquas)hold back.Are they like this with everyone or is there anything special going on here?I don't want to assume either I want him to open up since he has been the initiator and is in lead position.He acts and I mostly react.So I want to know if and when will he come out with it...I don't even know if he feels so strongly about anything.

As expected after meeting every week for a month and a half..he only calls when he has time to meet.He is distant again and I knew this was coming ..very predictable.

and my main cell # is not working so I called(I normally don't)to give him my second #.Once in a blue moon I call to see if he will pick up his phone..since he didn't call this week I Called to ask if he saved my new #,he acted weird which I thought was rude.So I texted him saying that it was very rude of him and there was no reason for his rudeness..he called back saying that He wasn't rude and I don't understand his humour and said he was going away for a month or longer.Was he serious..sometimes I wonder if I should just forget about him..if he doesn't come up with anything nice or doesn't call or meet before he leaves..he said he might leave thursday or friday I really think I don't want to bother about him when he comes back..that actually would be it for me.What should I do?

Don't they ever fear loosing someone?

The interesting thing is that he andI have never been able to communicate over the phone our entire relationship is based on our in person interaction..he is very abrupt and brief over the phone and can be extremely moody..In person he is different.I am not a very insecure person and I keep myself very busy..why is he so hard on me sometimes?The fact that he keeps coming back shows that he is interested..but why does he always manage to create tension in our relationship..is he testing me?

Here is what I think.He likes me or lets say he likes to spend time with me but he keeps his life seperate from mine we never discuss day today stuff.10 months is a while and we have spent alot of time together,how is it possible to spend so much time together and not feel attached?I do but I don't know if he does.There is alot of attraction and chemistry..so obviously I am not in the friend wanna be girlfriend category..a girl can tell specially when I can hear his heart beat loud and fast sometimes when he is around me even though he acts cool..now that only happens when some one has an effect on you in a good way..I think he is just afraid to take it to the next level and to keep it that way and maintain some control he needs to pull back.Or he has some other stuff going on that I am not aware of.I don't know I am just so confused by his behaviour.

Very early on when we had met..and were meeting regularly he sometimes would give me an intense look and would say don't give up on me..and that stayed with me maybe thats why I didn't give up on him..but you know there are days when I feel like giving up on him..The sad part is that I just feel some weird connection with him and am not able to like or date any one else though I easily could and there is no commitment or acknowledgement of a relationship between the two of us I still can't make myself think of anyone else..never before have I felt like that.I feel so helpless in this situation.

Youve got a lot of pride attempt...I can see thats whats killing you here the most. You keep asking, "If im so hot and shit, why do I keep falling for this man who keeps paying me little to no attention...in other words not treating me like the hot shit I deserve to be treated as?"

^^thats why you like him.

If this isnt what you want...go get what you DO want. I always say on these boards..."Know what you want and take it."

Aqua + Pisces = let the games commence!

hey everyone I hope all is well..
just updating you after my last post let me know if you think differently..
we continued to see each other again nothin emotional just a few brief comments from his side that i should accept that he and I have a connection and he has been around for almost a year..still the friend stuff like lovers come and go but friends stay for ever..continued to come by sleep over sex and other good stuff.I was a little tired of the routine since i don't thinks anyone wants to spend that much time if they are not emotionally involved so since i wanted some clarity I told him that since it is obvious that i love him and he doesn't it is not a good idea to see each other and since he is so stuck on this word friends..we can remain that but i don't sleep with my friends so that has to stop completely.He tried to tell me that he and I have always had a good time and there is no reason why we still can't be that way..bou also said that since he is coming by so often I shouldn't get emotioanly involved with him.To that i said that we can just try a pure friendship.He came by again and once again wants to hold hands and was all over me.Stayed over but got turned down for something that he really wanted..favourite act for most guys.Calls and actually telling me that i misbehaved with him by not giving him that..I got pretty mad and told him that since he doesn't want emotional attachment and i can't sleep with some one i am not e close to we are on a different page..and we can only be friends and nothing else with no sex involved to which he said that is going to be very hard to do(so this guy wants to have it all this way)and just because he thinks we should still have a good time we should and he got a very firm no from me.Than he said he will think about it.Well here is the question what the heck does he want to think about when what he wants is not how i want it.For me it is over at this point.any one with similar experience.Ofcourse i love him I still do but I can't be anyones sex slave.My mind says let him go..but my heart doesn't agree..

im a pisces and have been friends with the aqauruis man for 4 years now and we are still in the friends zone. it has bothered me in the past cause i wanted more he did not but i have not ask him in the last year how he feels cause he is shy and he does not revel his feeling very often. now im just enjoying the friendship before he goes off traveling soon.
we have this great connection and i will always love him i know he cares about me but for now we are just friends cause im dont want to loose him if i ask him if he wants more again.

Well I'm a pisces guy and my aqua gf and I will celebrate 5 years together in Sept! She has a lot of water in her chart though with moon in pisces and mars conjunct neptune in scorpio. I have a cappy moon, taurus venus and gemini ascendant. We are both alternately clingy and in need of space. The key to making it work is getting those very different needs in sync. Both aqua and pisces need plenty of space although for different reasons. Aqua needs space to think through their feelings when confronted with emotional difficulties. Pisces needs space to re-center after linking its personal energy to every one else's needs. Mostly, I find that "grumpiness" is a real aqua challenge and when you add to that a pisces moon which can get very nasty when hurt you have yourself a lady who's better left alone when in a funk. But when she's up and at her best she's the most magical being to be around! At my worst, I suppose she finds me demanding, too instinctive and too explosive. But we really like and love one another and have every intention of growing old together.
I think a pisces guy can really bring out the softer side of an aquarian girl, once she trusts him and stops fearing the rug will be pulled out from beneath her feet. And a pisces guy can definitely develop a thicker skin and have a stabler,less high maintenance life with the independent, staid and democratic aqua girl. It's an odd and perhaps rarer coupling but I frankly don't miss feeling manipulated and smothered like I have been with other water signs. Perhaps because uranus is so active in my natal chart I am drawn to people who are different from myself in significant ways.